Amaphupho ahlangenwe nakho okuhlangenwe nakho kunezivakashi zethu ezivame njalo. Amasiko amaningi, kepha kunalokho, izibusiso zokubusisa kwethu zithi akunakwenzeka ukuba uthukuthele, umcasuke, umona, umona, uthanda uthando, yiba namahloni noma ukwesaba. Futhi eminye imizwa eminingi, okuhlangenwe nakho kanye nezifundazwe - konke lokhu "akunakwenzeka", kuyadingeka ukucindezela nokucasha.
Umndeni, abangane nomphakathi badinga umuntu onempilo, ozolile futhi olinganiselayo, okulula ukubhekana naye, ogcina igama, umngane onokwethenjelwa nothembekile. Ngamafuphi, okungekho. Abantu amavolumetric, aminyene, emzimbeni. Naphezu kwemikhawulo yamasiko, imizwa kukho konke ukubonakaliswa kwawo iyingxenye yemvelo yethu. Futhi akusizi ngalutho ukulwa nalokhu nokucasha.
Kodwa-ke, i-Psyche yethu iyithuluzi lokuziphendukela kwamathuluzi amangalisayo nelisunguliwe. Uthole indlela enhle yokubhekana nokuhlangenwe nakho okungathandeki. Uma sikhubekile, ngiyathukuthela, sesaba okuthile, futhi sisesimweni esinjalo ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene okungenakwenzeka, senqabe, futhi sikholelwa ngokujulile ukuthi lokhu kungukuthi lokhu okukhona Othile. Le ndlela ibizwa ngokuthi i-Projection. Ubukeka njengesikrini se-movie. Umuntu okuphambene nathi yishidi elihlanzekile, kwesinye isikhathi asisoli ngisho nokuthi into ehluke ngokuphelele kuyenzeka kunokuba sicabanga ukumcabanga ngaye, kepha siyaqhubeka nokufaka imizwa yethu, imicabango, ikakhulukazi labo abangafuni vuma.
Ngakho-ke, sikholwa ukuthi sithandana nathi, ngokwesibonelo, umngane osondelene naye, yize le yimizwa yakho yethenda, yenzelwe yona. Noma sikukholwa lokho, ngokwesibonelo, uMfoweth 'ucasulwa yithi, kunesizathu. Eqinisweni, asizinikeli umsebenzi wokuvuma ukuthi leli yicala lakho.
Amaphupho afana nezibuko asibonise lolu hlobo lokuhambisana nokwensaka. Futhi nali iphupho elifushane lamaphupho ethu:
"Ngihlala ngiphupha ugogo wami. Futhi ngephupho yena uhlala ethukuthela kimi. "
Ngeshwa, ukulala kufushane kakhulu, akukho ukuphawula. Mhlawumbe kungenzeka kakhulu, ukulala kunenye izincazelo.
Okwamanje, kungashiwo ukuthi iphupho lethu libona ingxenye yakhe, ugogo wakhe othukuthele njalo, uthukuthele. Ngamanye amagama, kukhona intukuthelo emphefumulweni wakhe, okubhekiswe kuye uqobo. Empilweni yangempela, intukuthelo yakhe inenhlonipho, icashile kuye. Ungathukuthela ngokungasebenzi kwakho emkhakheni othile, ngokwezinye izindlela ezibonakalayo, ngokwesibonelo, isihawu, ubugwala, amahloni, izinkutha. Uhlu lungaqhubeka, lezi yizibonelo nje. Ukuphupha kwethu kudinga ukufakwa esikhundleni. Futhi ephusheni 'legunya' lalo litshela le ntukuthelo. Okungukuthi, ingxenye endala, evuthiwe neyokuvuthwa ngayo iyamthukuthelisa.
Ngokunokwenzeka, intukuthelo yinto eyenqatshelwe empilweni yamaphupho. Isibonelo, ngokwesibonelo, ephusheni kuyathukuthela, nomunye umuntu. Le yindlela yokuqagela. Ngisho nokungazi kwakhe ukukhombisa ulaka lwakhe, kuyadingeka ukumema ezinye izithombe.
Ukuvuma, ngesikhathi sokuziphatha kwekholomu, kwakuqabukela kwakufanele ngifunde izincwadi, lapho amaphupho ngokwawo ayekhombisa ukufutheka noma intukuthelo. Imvamisa kuvame ukuba kubi, amaphupho amabi, lapho i-heroine imbi futhi ingajabuli. Ngokujulile ukuvinjelwa ekuthukuthelise ukuthi intukuthelo exoshwe kufana nokuqhuma kwe-atomic reactiotor: kwenza umhlaba uzungeze owesabekayo, oyingozi, kanye nabantu abaseduze - bamisiwe.
Kanjani ukutolika amaphupho amaphupho, ikakhulukazi uma i-athikili namhlanje inikeza kuphela ukuqondiswa komcabango? Ungakhombisa ngokwengeziwe futhi nakhu: Uthukuthele uni, kubandakanya nogogo? Kukangaki empilweni uveza intukuthelo yakhe? Ingabe ukhona owaziyo ukukhuluma ngentukuthelo yabo endaweni yakhe?
Ungaphikisana nokuthi yini ayithukuthelele yona? Yini engeke ayithethelele?
Imibuzo, wonke umuntu uqobo, ucwaningo lomuntu siqu nolujulile. Sifisela iphupho lenhlanhla.
Futhi amaphupho akho?