Enye yezethulo ze-TV ezidume kakhulu ze-TV Elena Hleang zingathola injabulo yokuba ngumama kuphela eminyakeni engama-40. Njengokulindelekile, ku-2001 okukude ka-2001, abaningi abanokungaqondi baye baphendula ngokukhethwa komculi, ngoba manje sekuyisinqumo sokubeletha ngale ndlela sekwedlule isikhathi sekwedlule isikhathi. Yebo, futhi amahemuhemu azungeze u-Elena bebelokhu ehlala kakhulu, ngakho-ke umama osanda kwenziwa kwadingeka ancishwe amathuba.
Awusesabi ushintsho esithombeni
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Ngemuva kweminyaka eyi-18, lona wesifazane wanquma ukuzalwa ukuzalwa kwengane yakhe. Kwenye yezinhlelo zethelevishini, wathi ongomunye wodokotela besibhedlela uphuze usuku, ngakho-ke waqala ukwenza ngokwezifiso u-Elena ngokuzalwa kwengane. Owesifazane akazange adideke futhi ngoba ingxabano nombelethisi wabeletha ingane ngesigamu nje ngehora.
Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi izinzuzo zokukhulelwa kanye nokubeletha akusekho omama abasebasha:
Kufanele uzigcine usesimweni. Ingane idinga amandla amaningi, nemizamo yokugcina ifomu kufanele isebenzise okuningi. Ngakho-ke, ufuna noma cha, kuzofanela uzilandele.
Unesikhathi esengeziwe enganeni
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Awusenasabisa ushintsho esithombeni. Eminyakeni engama-20, umcabango wokuthi ulalele ukwelula ungonakalisa imizwa izinsuku eziningana. Ngemuva kwama-35, izinto ezinjalo yize zicasukile, kepha zimbalwa kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iminyaka iba nokuqwashisa ukuthi konke kungalungiswa, kuzoba nesifiso.
Odokotela abakuthandisile kuwe "Wena." Ngokunokwenzeka, wonke umuntu wesifazane wathola udokotela owakubheka embundwini, njengendodakazi enenkani, naye wayengaqeda. Okhulile uba, ukukhuphuka kwezinga lenhlonipho, yize kungenjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kepha iningi le-gynecologist ngeke livume ukuthi ibizo likhishwe ekhelini lakho lisho "omncane", "hhayi impikiswano."
Ugunyaziwe kwabanye omama. Ebandleni lokudlala isikhundla sayo, ngisho nakumaqembu amancane kamama. Lapho uvela, lungiselelwa ukuthi izingane ezisencane zizoqala ukukuhlahlela ngemibuzo ngokushesha nje lapho uthola ukuthi usuvele ungowesifazane onolwazi, ngisho nengane.
Uzonakekela umzimba wakho. Ebusheni, ngandlela thile awukhathazeki kakhulu ukuthi ungalimaza umhlane wakho, i-taska isivele ikude nengane encane kuye uqobo, noma ukungalali phakathi kwamabili. Kuyiqiniso, kunzima impela ukubuyisela impilo, noma kunjalo, ukuqonda kuza ebudaleni ukuthi inhlala-kahle yakho incike ekutheni uziphatha kanjani.
Ngilalele
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Awugijimeli noma kuphi. Cha, kusobala, uzoba nesixuku sezinto, kepha ngeke ube nomuzwa wokuzisola ngeqiniso lokuthi abangane bakho baya ecluben ebusuku ngaphandle kwakho. Ngemva 40, ezinye izithakazelo avele kanye yalelozwe kungenzeka kakhulu ukushintsha, ukuze kokuzisola kuyoba sazikhohlwa ukuthi nakanjani uyonikeza wajabula nakakhulu ngalokho kusukela isikhathi esichithwa nengane.