Izizathu zokuthi kungani ungahlangabezana nale nkinga, eziningi: kusuka ekugqekelweni ngenxa yokwanda komswakama ongakunaki, okungaphula izinhlelo zakho zosuku olulandelayo. Yini okufanele uyenze uma konke okusemqoka kuhlala kuyingxenye engxenyeni yokulahla noma emnyango, futhi konke kusesandleni sakho? Sizotshela.
Kunezindlela ezimbalwa kuphela zokuxazulula inkinga, kepha akekho noyedwa kubo osho ukuvulwa kwe- "barvae" - ngakho-ke umane uzingezele izinkinga ngesidingo sokupenda umnyango, uma sikhuluma ngeNqaba yangaphandle. Ukube bekusekukwenzeleni futhi ubona ucezu lokhiye enqabeni, singacabanga ukuthi unenhlanhla. Ukukhipha ingxenye enkulu yokhiye ngezandla zakho, Yebo, ngeke kusebenze, ngakho-ke ama-NIPPERS azokusiza. Okulandelayo, ungangena ngokuphepha kukhiye omusha ezimakethe zezingxenye ze-auto, lapho uzokwenza ukhiye ofanayo we-action ngehora.
Futhi uma kubaluleke kakhulu?
Isimo esihluke ngokuphelele, uma ukhiye uhlala enqabeni ucezu oluncane kakhulu. Lapha kuzofanela uhlukanise ukukhiya insiza, azikho ezinye izindlela, okungenani eziqalayo ngaphandle kwamathuluzi. Kepha linda ukuphelelwa yithemba: Noma ngabe lapho ingxenye encane yokhiye ingabonakala kwisigodlo, ungasebenzisa i-glue. Noma kunjalo, kufanele uzame. Esikwenzayo: Sisebenzisa i-glue okhiye osele esandleni sakho futhi banamathisela kahle izinsalela ku- "licken". Kubalulekile ukuthi ungaphuthelwa futhi unganamatheli ukhiye wekhulu leminyaka. Linda kuze kube yilapho i-glue ibamba futhi idonsele kancane kancane.
Ungakunikezeli kanjani ukwephulwa ukuze uphule amasu akho
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Ungasivikela kanjani isimo esingathandeki
Vele, kungcono ukuphatha ukukhiya kanye nokhiye ukuze bangabi nengxabano. Into esemqoka ukungasebenzisi amandla amaningi, noma ngabe ukhiye uphenduka kanzima ngobunzima - uma uqonda ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi amathuba okubaphuka aphezulu, sebenzisa ithuluzi elikhethekile elizoholela enqabeni "ekutholeni" ngokuvumela ukhiye wokujikeleza ngokukhululeka.