Ngisanda kubona isibonelo esihle sokulala. Kukhombisa ukuthi yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho okusendaweni yethu engaphansi. Ngasizathu simbe, imvamisa ngenxa yokudangala, badilizwa futhi baphile kungathi akukho lutho olubalulekile. Kepha akunakwenzeka ukuqeda imizwa. Okuhlangenwe nakho okunzima, insipho ecasulayo iqala ukuphishekela.
"Ngizoya endaweni ethile emotweni yami, ngibavuse ekhaya ngihlale emotweni.
Umakhelwane wami ungixwayisa kangangokuba nganginaka, ngoba uhlobo oluthile lokugibela okuhlanya khona, kuyingozi.
Nginqume futhi ngishiya umgwaqo, kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho ngikhanyisa ukukhanya kwethrafikhi, imoto ene-lilac inamathiselwe ngemuva kwami futhi ingithushele. Ngasizathu simbe, imoto yami, nemoto ibuyile ngenhla evulekile. Futhi ngibona kuMfazi wakhe ohlanya kakhulu omemeza okuthile kimi ngemuva, okukhala, ukukhala, ukucasha.
Ngiyesaba, ngifuna ukuhlukana naye, ngoba ngicindezela igesi, kepha ngiyashesha futhi, khona-ke ngiyama ngethemba lokuthi uzongifumana, kepha naye uyalahla isivinini.
Futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi esikhala futhi singimemezele emzileni okuzayo, amagama engingakwazi ukuwaqonda.
Onke ama-imeyili ami awaphumelelanga, khona-ke ngivuka ngokuzumayo ngomcabango wokuthi uyingxenye yami engingakwazi ukubaleka. "
Kuyiqiniso, iphupho lethu linenhlanhla, njengoba kuqonda ngokwengxenye okushiwo ngokwalo.
Ephusheni, wafunda ekuphishekelayo kwakhe ngobuhlanya ngengxenye yakhe ethile.
Manje ake sixoxe ngakho ngemininingwane eminingi ngakho.
Kunezici ezinjalo, imicabango kanye nokubonakaliswa kwethu esingathanda ukukuqeda. Njengomthetho, lezi zici nekhwalithi emphakathini ziyinto eyihlazo noma yenqatshelwe. Siqala ukuthola ngakho lapho sisebuntwaneni bathi bathi: "Awukwazi ukuthukuthela umama" noma "uma uziphatha kanjena, uzoba kubi njengoYihlo," "Ungadlali yena, akujwayelekile. "
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sicabanga ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba ucebe kakhulu / umpofu, ucansi, ongokomzwelo, ubuthakathaka, uncike, uthanda ukukhombisa, njll.
Lezi zinhlangothi zobuntu bethu kufanele zigcine ukulawulwa kwansuku zonke, kepha zidlulela kithina emaphusheni, zifuna ukuqashelwa nge-par "nezimfanelo zethu ezinhle".
Isibonelo, owesifazane angaphika ngokwezigaba ukuthi ufuna umuntu athande, abe ne-sexy futhi kulula ukuxhumana. Esikhundleni salokho, iba yibhizinisi, eliqondayo nalohlelekile, lisebenzisa izinhlangothi zobuntu babo obungenhla. Imvamisa, izimfanelo ezinjalo, kuzokulahla ezinye, kude nezihlobo, kodwa ngemuva kwakho konke, lokhu kungubuso bakhe ngeke kunyamalale noma kuphi. Ngokunokwenzeka, ngamaphupho, kuzobhekana ngandlela thile nalawo maqembu angabonakali ngokuphila. Cishe wonke amaphupho akhe angakhanya, angalindeleki, abaningi bangaba nezimpawu eziningi ze-erotic. Ngakho-ke indlela yakhe yokuqonda nokuzimela ithola ibhalansi.
Manje ake sibuyele ephusheni lamaphupho ethu. Ephusheni, uthola ukubuyisana nengxenye yaKhe, ebiza ngokuthi "Crazy", okungukuthi: Ukuhlupheka, ukukhala, noveli.
Mhlawumbe empilweni ye-heroin yethu kwakukhona umcimbi othile, ukukhulisa ngenxa yalokho kungaba okungenangqondo noma okungalungile. Kodwa-ke, umphefumulo wakhe, naphezu kwezimpikiswano zesizathu, uyaqhubeka ukulila nokukhathazeka.
Mhlawumbe, amaphupho empilweni azigcina eqinile ngentambo, angavumeli imizwa ithathe phezulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi ephusheni ezwe ukukhala kwakhe ngosizo: ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukubalekela usizi nokuhlupheka kwazo, udinga ukuyinika isikhathi futhi ukhokhele ukunaka okufanele, ngaphandle kokugwema.
Imizwa nemicabango ebuhlungu esivezwa ngayo ayisenzi futhi, okwenza impilo yethu ikhululeke futhi ibe lula.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina