Muva nje, kwi-blog yakho ye-Instagram, imodeli ye-Anastasia Rytov, etholakala ngenyanga yesi-9 yokukhulelwa, imvamisa ihlukaniswe ngamava alandelayo mayelana nokuba ngumama okuzayo. Naphezu komntwana osemusha futhi kubonakala sengathi u-naives, usomabhizinisi oneminyaka engama-23 ulungele kakhulu iqhaza elizayo. Kungabonakala ukuthi umakoti ka-raper battati ufuna ukuba ngumama oyisibonelo owenzelwe izibulo lakhe elihlanganisiwe. Kulokhu, u-Anastasia wabhala okuthunyelwe lapho avumile ukuthi kwakunzima ukuhlukana nomuzwa wokuzisola ngokuthi amasonto ambalwa kamuva, "ngeke abe yedwa ekuqondeni okungokoqobo." Intombazane ibheke ngabomvu ukuhlangana nengane, kepha namanje ithanda 'ukujabulela umzuzu ngamunye.' "
Ungazilungiselela kanjani ukuzala ingane
Ukungezwani kwezinzwa kuzwakala emoyeni ngaphambi kosuku lokuzalwa - konke okusendlini kufuna izingubo ezinhle kakhulu zengane, zihlomise igumbi lezingane futhi lifunde izincwadi zesayensi. Iqiniso ngukuthi ukuphela kwekhambi elifanele lentombazane ekhulelwe ukuhlala phansi futhi ngokuthula. Awunalutho lokuvuselela isibeletho ngokulahlekelwa yi-adrenaline-crexity hormore yegazi. Thatha njengesisekelo somgomo wosomabhizinisi abaphumelelayo futhi banikeze wonke imisebenzi engakhokhisa kuphela izihlobo. Khetha izingubo zezingane, ifenisha kanye nezinto zokwakha zokulungiswa esitolo online, bese uthumela isithombe salokhu kuthenga emyeni wakho. Umsebenzi wakhe ukukhokha konke futhi wenze ukulungiswa ngesikhathi sokukhipha kwakho. Esikhundleni sokulawula umsebenzi wabakhi, iya ezifundweni zokuphefumula, chitha ubusuku nabangane bakho, njengasezinsukwini zakudala ezinhle, bese uwuqedela ngombono wefilimu enomusa nebhange le-ayisikhilimu ezandleni zakho.
Phendula imibuzo engeyona eye -ctactic
Isikhathi sokushicilela incwadi ekhuluma ukuthi ungaphendula kanjani ngokwanele emibuzweni enjengokuthi "nini okwesibili?" Noma "Yisiphi isigaba ozosinikeza?". Qonda futhi uthethelele abantu abashoda okuvelayo empilweni yabo, ngakho-ke balwela ukudonsa ikhala labo komunye umuntu. Zizwe ukhululekile ukukhomba ukuthi awufuni ukuxoxa ngalesi sihloko futhi ngeke uveze ukuthi ngabe uyakwenza noma cha. Imvamisa, abantu kusukela okokuqala baqonda futhi bashintshele kwezinye izingxoxo, noma bamane bayeke ukuxhumana nawe. Uma unganikeli ukuthula kwezihlobo, ubathumele ngemuva kwezimpendulo kumyeni wakho, owaziyo yonke impilo yakho, noma odokotela abangakwazi ukuchaza ukuthi kungani wonke umuntu abebele futhi agoma wonke umuntu, hhayi uhlelo okungenani umama omuhle.