Kwenzeka kaningi ukuthi ngomzuzwana oboshwe kakhulu, owesilisa wenqaba amakhondomu, alungiselele isikhundla sawo ngezizathu eziningi - kusuka ku-allergies ukulahlekelwa ukuzwela. Abesifazane abaningi, besembhedeni owodwa nomlingani onjalo, bayavuma ukuqhubeka nokusondela, naphezu kwazo zonke izingozi. Sikhulume kaninginingi ngalokho okungaholela kukho, namhlanje sanquma ukutshela indlela yokwenza esimweni esinjalo uma uphenduka uhambe - hhayi inketho yakho.
Nikeza izinketho eziningana
Lapho nje uzwa indoda ukuthi iyisitha samakhondomu, ayigibeli i-tantrum endaweni eyisicaba, mhlawumbe, nikeza umlingani wakho ukuze ahlole eminye imikhiqizo: mhlawumbe owesilisa wayenokuhlangenwe nakho okungathandeki kokusebenzisa inzalo ye-latex, uyaphakamisa Kuthola okuhlangenwe nakho okusha, okuhle. Namuhla, kunezinhlobonhlobo ezinkulu zezinhlobo ezilula kakhulu zokuvimbela inzalo, ukuze izaba njengokusabela komzimba azikwazi ukuhlukaniswa.
Sebenzisa ezinye izinhlobo zokuvimbela inzalo
Uma uyazi ukuthi indoda yakho imile ngokuqinile kuye futhi akukho emkhomeni kanye nemisho naye izodlula, yathatha enye indlela yokuvimbela inzalo, uma kungekho okuphikisana. Vele, ngaphambi kokuya ekhemisi, uzothola ukubonisana kwe-gynecologist yakho, ngoba izidakamizwa ze-hormonal ziyibhizinisi elibucayi. Zama ukugwema imikhandlu "yabantu" nezincomo zabangani - umzimba ngamunye uhlukile, hhayi iqiniso lokuthi uzohambisana nendlela efanayo nomngane.
Ungahambi umlingani
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Buza imibhalo yezokwelapha
Ngomlingani ojwayelekile, yonke into icacile, kepha ukuthi yini okufanele yenziwe uma uhlangana muva nje futhi awukakwazi ukwazi kahle indoda, futhi icala liya ekusondeni kokuqala. Zizwe ukhululekile ukucela isitifiketi se-STD. Abaningi banamahloni okucela imibhalo yezokwelapha, ecabanga ukuthi bathatha yonke yothando. Mhlawumbe, kepha cabanga ukuthi yiziphi izingozi uzothola uma uthatha isinqumo sokuchitha ubusuku nomuntu ongaphatha izifo eziyingozi kakhulu okungenzeka ukuthi zingakwazi ukwelapha ngokuphelele. Ngaso sonke isikhathi cabanga ngempilo yakho, noma ngabe ubani ombozile.
Ungavumi ubulili bakudala
Uma kungekho nezenzo zokukholisa, futhi le ndoda yenqaba ukuhlinzeka nganoma yisiphi isiqinisekiso "sokuhlanzeka" kwayo, iveze izidingo zakho - awuvumelani nocansi lwakudala. Kepha kubalulekile ukubheka isikhathi sokuthi izintambo zocansi kanye nezinye izinhlobo zocansi ngaphandle kokuvikelwa kungenzeka kuphela uma uneminyaka engu-99% eqiniseka ukuthi indoda ayibekezeleli amagciwane ayingozi. Ngokwemvelo, ezinye izingcingo zihlelwe abantu abambalwa, kepha ukuze bahlahleke ngempilo futhi bazibeke engcupheni ethandela owesilisa - hhayi isinqumo esifanele.