Noma ibuphi ubudlelwano buthuthukiswa, noma bahlale ezingeni lemihlangano yezikhathi ezithile nomlingani. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi singakubona kanjani ukujula kwemizwa nokuthi yini amaphuzu ngempela ngothando, hhayi isifiso sokudonsela embhedeni.
Lapho bethanda, funa ukusiza
I-Egoism ihlala isuka ngemuva, uma wena noma umlingani wakho elungiselelwe ukwakha ubuhlobo obungathi sína. Ungahle uqaphele ukuthi indoda yakho iwuvimbela kanjani ukukusiza ugeze izitsha ngemuva kokudla kwakusihlwa noma ukulungele ukuhamba nenja yakho ngakusasa ekuseni. Akuwona yini uphawu lokunamathiselwe nokufisa ukuba yingxenye yezwe lakho? Khumbula lapho ukusondela kwakho kugula noma kudingeka Usizo, uzwa isidingo sokusiza, naphezu kwezindaba zakho. Okufanayo nomlingani - lapho ubopha okuthile okungaphezu kobudlelwano bombhede nje, isifiso sokusiza kufanele sivele sodwa. Ngakho-ke, noma yiziphi izaba zomlingani ohlobo "angikwazi", "cela omunye umuntu" ngokusobala ukucacise ukuthi ukude nohlu lokuqala ohlwini lwezinto eziza kuqala emazweni.
Ubudlelwano abuhlali njalo
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Izipho akudingeki ngaso sonke isikhathi kubiza
Zonke lezi zipho ezinhle njengezinqumo ezinkulu kanye nemihlobiso emihle kakhulu ivame ukusebenza njengokufakwa kwemizwa okuhle, kodwa kuphela lapho umbhangqwana engazidingi le ntombazane, kepha ufuna ukuyenga le ntombazane. Usukulungele nini ukujabula ngokhiye olula ovela esitolo, futhi ngobuqotho ngobuqotho, ubuhlobo bakho buyathuthukiswa, qiniseka.
Unokuthile ongakhuluma ngakho
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Awunamahloni ngomlingani wakho
Impela wabona umbhangqwana, ongekho nhlobo, kepha ajabule ngokwengeziwe akekho umuntu osondele. Uma umlingani eqala ukukwenza uphawula futhi uvikele noma yikuphi ukubonakala ndawonye kubantu, kunesizathu sokucabanga ukuthi uthathwa njengento eqeda ukuqeda isifiso sobulili, akusekho.
Ulungele ukukusiza kukho konke
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Ufuna ukukhuluma ngakho konke emhlabeni
Ubudlelwano abanothando aluhlali luqinile. Umuntu ohlela ukuchitha umlingani waphezulu kwezinyanga ezimbalwa, bese kuba nesikhundla esivundlile, akunakwenzeka ukuthi ulalele konke okusalile kusuka engxenyeni yakhe. Futhi uma kungekho ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo, akunakwenzeka ukwakha ubuhlobo obuqinile bokuthembela.