1. Izinzuzo Nezinhle zowesifazane ongasebenzi.
Kulolu daba, konke kukodwa. Abanye abakwazi ukuletha izimpilo zabo ngaphandle kwe-career ladder nebhizinisi lansuku zonke. Uma kungekho msebenzi empilweni yabo, khona-ke abazi nje ukuthi bazithatha kanjani. Ngemuva kwekwenza konke okuzungeze indlu, baqala ukubiza umyeni wakhe, bazibuza ukuthi ngabe buvela emsebenzini, buza umbuzo oyinkulungwane. Lokhu kuholela ekuqhekekeni kwezikhundla lapho umuntu ematasatasa ngebhizinisi, kanti umlingani wesibili akaboni lutho empilweni yakhe, ngaphandle kobudlelwano. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umfazi onjalo akakhuli, akanalutho ongawasho, ngaphandle kwemisebenzi ejwayelekile yenkosikazi yasendlini, ngokulandelana, ukudla okungokothando kwengxoxo emnandi ngaphandle kwabo. Ngasikhathi sinye kunabesifazane abathola kalula isifundo eshawini. Ekuseni siya e-yoga, ntambama - ezifundweni zolimi, ngemuva kokuhlangana nabangane nakuzofika ekhaya ukuqala izindaba zasekhaya, njengokuhlanza, ukupheka nokunye. Ukuntuleka komsebenzi kubo kuphela ithuba lokuqala ukusebenzisa ngokwezintshisekelo zabo, futhi hhayi ukuthi basebenzise isikhathi sokuthola imali ezidinga usizo.
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2. Ukuphepha Kwezinto Ezibonakalayo, isikhathi samahhala, ubulili kanye nokuzithuthukisa. Ingabe kukhona konke lokhu?
Uma isigqi sakho sempilo selokhu sinamandla ngaphambi komshado, indandatho yomunwe ngeke iguqule noma yini. Isikhathi samahhala sabo bobabili abalingani kanye nocansi bahlangana kakhulu. Lapho singaboni isikhathi eside isikhathi eside, siqala ukuwuphuthelwa, bese kuthi imizwa emihle emhlanganweni izwakala igqamile. Ukuzibona kabusha nebhizinisi eliyintandokazi kuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yabo bobabili abalingani, ukuhlehlisa, njengendlela yansuku zonke, uyakwazi ukuphula nobudlelwano obuqine kakhulu. Ukushada kwakungekho zinkinga ngocansi, wonke umuntu kufanele abe nesikhathi samahhala, ukuphepha kwezinto ezibonakalayo nokuzithuthukisa.
Phathana ngesasakisa lapho kwakukhona isikhathi esingcono kakhulu kuwe
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3. Kwenzekani ngempela?
Noma yimuphi umshado uhlanganisa inqwaba yezici, ngaphezu kwamanani abonakalayo kanye nezikweletu zomshado. Into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele ihlanganise indoda nowesifazane inhlonipho. Emindenini eminingi iyanyamalala. Ngaphezu kwalokhu, abantu bajwayela ukuba bodwa basazokwazi ukuthi babukeka kanjani nokuthi bathini. Umphathi wenza ukuphindisela - ephula umkakhe ekhaya, wageza phansi walungisa isidlo sakusihlwa esidlweni sakudala se-t-shirt - kungenzeka ukuthi ungashintshi izingubo, phela. Phathana ngokuthokozela okujabulisayo okwakukhona ngesikhathi esingcono kakhulu kuwe.