Lapho siya engxoxweni, kubalulekile hhayi nje ukuhlanganisa kuphela isethulo esinekhono sezimpawu zethu zobungcweti, kodwa futhi lungiselela imibuzo mayelana nokushiyeka nobuthakathaka, futhi imibuzo enjalo ihlala isethwe engxoxweni, ngakho-ke ngeke kwenzeke Gwema ingxoxo. Yini engaphendulwa, kepha okungafanele ukusho nakancane, sanquma ukuthola.
"Yini ukushiyeka? Anginabo "
Into embi kakhulu ongaqhamuka nesimo esinjalo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi awunabo ubuthakathaka, akufanele ukubala esimweni samaphupho. Impendulo efanayo yombuzo wokushiyeka nobuthakathaka iphakamisa ukuthi unokuthemba okuphezulu kakhulu nokubona okunganele ngokwakho ngokuyinhloko njengochwepheshe. Ungakwenzi ngale ndlela. Kepha qhubeka phambili.
Ukuzama ukuzibuza
Umzamo omuhle, kepha ungahlali ufaneleke njalo, ikakhulukazi uma isikhundla sibucayi. Abaningi "abanobuhlakani" bathanda izimpendulo ngesitayela: "Ngeke ngikwazi ukufakaza ngawe?" Vele, umuzwa wokuhlekisa uyaphila, kepha kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umqashi wakho ongaba khona kungenzeka angabi yikho noma ahluke ngokuyisisekelo kusuka kwakho ukuthi ngeke angeze izinzuzo kwinhlolokhono yakho. Ngabe ufuna ukukuphatha ngokungathi sína?
Thembeka kumqashi wesikhathi esizayo
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Uphendula ngokusemthethweni
Izimpendulo ezinjengokuthi: "Ngiyawuthanda umsebenzi kakhulu ukuthi ngiphumule" noma "Ngingakhohlwa ngakho konke emhlabeni, lapho ngicwila emsebenzini" kungabonakala kukuhle kuwe, konke kungokwebhizinisi futhi ngokungathi sína. Kepha umqashi akayona konke. Namuhla, abaqashi bafuna umuntu omningi kangaka abakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi "emihlanu", kodwa futhi wamukela indlela yokudala esiza kwesinye isikhathi imiphumela ephezulu kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kwesinye isikhathi kusakufaneleka ukukhombisa inganekwane futhi ungaphenduli imibuzo eyomile futhi ngokusemthethweni.
Ukwethembeka nolwazi lokushoda "mathupha"
Ochwepheshe bakwa-HR batusa le ndlela elandelayo: Cabanga ukuthi yiziphi izici ezenzeka kuwe, bese uzisebenzisa kulesi sikhala. Isibonelo, ufaka isicelo sesikhashana esisho ukukhuphuka kusenesikhathi kakhulu, futhi akukho nkinga kuwe, ngakho-ke ungasho njalo: "Ngivuka ekuseni kakhulu, kusihlwa ngiba nzima ukugxila, ngakho-ke ngikhethe okwakho Inkampani engingayiletha izinzuzo eziningi kuleli shadi. " U-Eikar uyabona ukuthi uyazethemba futhi uqonda kahle ubuthakathaka bakho, futhi lokhu kuyinto enkulu, ikakhulukazi uma usengxoxweni yeqembu.