Ukubaluleka Kwezinkambiso Zomphakathi kungenye yezihloko ezinamandla kwezenhlalo, ikakhulukazi kuvamile emcabangweni womndeni nobudlelwano. Izinkambiso zenhlalo zivame ukubhekwa njengendlela yokulawula umphakathi. Ezinye izinkambiso zichaza njengezindinganiso zeTelical zinikela ngezenzo ezizuzisa umphakathi ziye kubo, ngokusho kwabaphenyi beBlalla noCoke, zifaka phakathi isikhungo sezindinganiso zomshado, ukuguqulwa komshado nokunakekelwa kwabazali. Eminye imithetho ibhekwa njengeba nemiphumela emibi, njengezinkambiso zobuhle besifazane nokwejwayelekile kwesisindo. Kulokhu okubonakalayo, ake sixoxe ngokuthi kungani umzamo wokufingqa ingane ngaphansi kwento evamile ikhombisa abazali abangaphilile.
Ngokushesha, okuphezulu, okunamandla
Akumangalisi ukuthi abantu abasha behamba ihlaya ngokuthi "indodana yentombi kamama" - ibinzana elihlekisayo libonisa inkinga enkulu yezenhlalo ebhekene nayo yonke ingane. Ukufuna ukubona i-Chado esikhathini esizayo ephumelele, abazali bazama ukuwushukumisela ngezindlela ezihlukile. Uma umndeni onothando uvame ukunikezwa ukukhetha umdlalo wokuzilibazisa, ukhokhele amakilasi ngomfundisi noma ngomkhumbi ekamu lolimi, khona-ke kwezinye izimo, abazali banqunyelwe ekuthomeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuthotshiswa akubonakali njalo kwifomu elivulekile njengenhlamba. Imvamisa ihlukaniswe ngaphansi kwefomula "Sifuna kuwe kangcono": ukuqhathanisa nontanga ephumelela kakhudlwana, izibonelo zokufakelwa okungaphumelelanga kwezihlobo ngakho-ke kuso okusolwa ukuthi kufanele kuvuse ingane isuka kusofa bese iqala ukusebenza.
Ungenzi ukufunda, ukuqhathanisa nabanye
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Angikhululekile ngawe
Ngenkathi ezinye izingane zisebenza ngenjabulo enkundleni yokudlala futhi, mayelana nokwesaba, zivumele ukuhleka ku-cafe enkulu futhi zidlale ngamazinyo etafuleni, ezinye zihlala ngokuzila. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi, emasikweni aseYurophu, ikakhulukazi e-Italy naseSpain, izingane ziyehla ekusindiseni kwezingane - akekho umuntu omdala ngeke akwazi ukusonga ingane ngokukhala noma ukuhleka okukhulu. Izingane zethu kusukela ebuntwaneni zifundiswa ukuthi zingahambahamba amakhambi ahamba ngezinyawo ukuze zingabonakali - ngamaholide angcwele etafuleni elihlukile, ekwenqatshele eqenjini lezokuzijabulisa futhi kwenqabela ukuphazamisa engxoxweni yabantu abadala. Vele ungamangali ukuthi ingane eqinile nayo ayifuni ukuxhumana nawe, ngoba isetshenziselwa ukuhlala inikezwe futhi uzijabulise.
Izivivinyo azikwazi ukukhanselwa
Noma ngabe indodakazi yakho ifiphazela ingubo entsha, ishesha kusuka ku-slide, futhi indodana izowa ngebhayisekili bese ingena nge-jeans eklebhule - ayiyethusa. Ngaphambi kokuthi ukhuphule izwi lakho bese usola, cabanga okungenani umzuzu - ugcinani engqondweni nengane? Isixwayiso nesifiso sokuphanga noma yini, okuxhunyelwa ngabazali kanye nababamkhulu, bagijimela kuze kube phakade isifiso sokuphakama okusha nesifiso sokubeka engcupheni emaphusheni abo. Indlela eya empumelelweni ihlala ilele ngochungechunge lwezitha futhi iwa, futhi ingapheli amandla, idinga umlingiswa wensimbi kanye nesipiliyoni sempilo. Akekho amabhulukwe adabule angameki ukuhleka kwabantwana nenjabulo eqotho emehlweni.
Vumela ingane ihlele umhlaba nxazonke
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