Abanye besifazane bagqoka ezingalweni zabo, bavikele futhi besaba ukulahlekelwa, kanti abanye baphoqelelwa ukuba bakhathazeke ngokuphelele, noma ngabe umlingani unobudlelwano ohlangothini. Izinhlelo eziholayo "Ukuxhumana okuyingozi" esiteshini se-TV "Che!" UDenis Grebenyuk noDmitry Rybin abanelisekile ngemindeni yaseRussia ekuhlolweni kokwethembeka futhi, bathembela eminyakeni eminingi yokuhlangenwe nakho, bangasho ngokuzethemba ukuthi abesifazane bavame ukuguquka. Sikhulume nochwepheshe futhi sathola ukuthi ubani ngemuva kwalokho noma ngemuva kwamuva sabelana nomlingani nenkosikazi.
UDenis Grebenyuk noDmitry Rybin
"Ngikwenzele konke, nawe!"
Abesifazane abazikhethela ngenkani indlela yendoda "yenkonzo" bazodonswa othandweni lothando. Babeka izintshisekelo zabathandekayo ngenhla kwabo: Lawula uhlelo lwayo lokusebenza, bopha inkungu ngenkuthalo esitsheni, futhi ekhaya ungamvumiseli ukuthi athulule itiye ngokwawo. Ngokubona kwabo, uthando lubonakaliswa. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi hhayi imizwa eqotho, kodwa izakhiwo zayo. Uma okhethiweyo enganikezi ngokukhululeka ingxenye yesigamu sakhe, anciphise ukukhetha kwakhe ngokukhululekile, ngokungazi amenze ancike futhi azame ukusho ukuthi: "Awukwazi ukukuphatha ngaphandle kwami! Uyangidinga! " Ukufakwa okunjalo kuyizimpawu zokungaqiniseki.
Isiphetho : Yekani ukwenza umfana omncane ovela endodeni yabantu abadala. Khumbula ukuthi i-hyperopka icasukile, futhi umlingani uzobalekela "ukugcwala" ukubonakaliswa kothando kulowo ozomnika lula.
Kukhethiwe - vest for izinyembezi
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi imibhangqwana ende esondelana ilahlekelwa yinto yazo. Ubudlelwano babo buya ngokuya buza. Kusuka kubathandi abanothando, baphenduka abalingani abafakazelwe, kungokwemvelo. Kuyanyamalala ukujabula, ngoba yena, ngaphambi komhlangano ngamunye owakhathazeka naye, futhi ngemuva - awunakulala, manje elindele ekhaya.
Ungathulula umphefumulo wami emphefumulweni wami, khuluma ngokwehluleka emsebenzini kanye nokuxabana nezintombi. Omunye waphuza ehhovisi lokubhalisa ukuze abe ndawonye "nasentabeni, nasenjabulo"?
Ukufuna izeluleko kothandekayo wakho, ukuze wabelane ngemicabango obusondelene yinto eyodwa, futhi enye impela - ikhononda njalo ngempilo, futhi okubi kakhulu - ukuthatha intukuthelo kumlingani. Ukugxila ezinkingeni zabo nasekunikezeni ekuphileni kwakhe okhethiwe kuzomcindezela ukuba athole lowo omzwayo.
Isiphetho : Lapho umuntu ezwa ukukhathala noma ububi, ulahlekelwa ngumbono. Mhlawumbe ingxenye yakho yesibili nayo iyinkathi enzima futhi ukusekelwa kubalulekile kuye. Ungaphuthumi ukuthola ubuhlobo futhi uphule okungemuhle - kungcono ukuhlela ukuqalisa kabusha okuhlanganyelwe: uzokhetha idolobha noma uye esidlweni sothando.
Musa ukujaha ukuthola ubudlelwano futhi uphule okungemuhle - kungcono ukuhlela kabusha ukuqalwa kabusha okuhlanganyelwe
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"Yebo, lapho kuhamba khona!"
Ingozi yokuvukela umbuso yandiswa hhayi ngababili kuphela lapho lona wesifazane efuna njalo ukujabulisa khona, kodwa futhi nasezinyunyana lapho indoda sekuyisikhathi eside ibonwa ngayo. Kulokhu, kungaqhathaniswa nembiza ye-semi-shrink ebhodweni: iminyaka eminingi emi efasiteleni, akukho ukusetshenziswa, futhi ngiyaxolisa ngokuphelele.
Yilowo nalowo kini ube yimpilo yabo, okuwukuphela kwento ehlanganisa abalingani yisiqandisini futhi anqabile ukukhangana komunye nomunye. Kulokhu, owesifazana ubungozi eqaphela ukuqubuka kwakhe, lapho indoda iya kwesinye noma ithola induduzo ehambisanayo eceleni.
Isiphetho : Umuzwa wokuthi muva nje awunakanga umlingani nakancane? Uzizwe uthandana futhi. Romance empilweni yakho futhi ukhumbule, wakhetha omunye nomunye. Into esemqoka - uvame ukuzikhumbuza wena nendoda njengoba uthandana.
UDenis Grebenyuk, ohola iqiniso "ukuxhumeka okuyingozi" esiteshini se-TV "CHE!"
Izibalo zohlelo lwethu ziqinisekisa kuphela okubalulekile: Amadoda aguqula kaningi. Imvamisa ishiywe ukuya e-swee i-ego yakho noma ithretha ukwanelisa izidingo.
Akufanele ufune isizathu kuwe, ngoba sishintsha amantombazane azethemba kakhulu.
Bathandekayo bakazikazi, ungabambeli kumlingani njenge-raft yokonga. Imizwa eminingi yokuzethemba, inhlonipho futhi uzithande. Amadoda azogujwa futhi azokuphatha kahle kakhulu.
Impilo kanye ne-monotony ukushaya ebudlelwaneni. Uma uzama ukunciphisa inqubo enemizwa emisha, futhi indoda isangenandaba, akesabi ukuyeka. Ungalokothi unamathele ekubambeni kozakwethu.