"Ngiyakwazi ukukhuluma ngalesi sihloko isikhathi eside kakhulu, futhi angikwazi ukukhipha izinto ezinhlanu ezikhonkolo. Kukhona okuningi kwazo. Mhlawumbe into esemqoka lapho yonke into iqala, lesi sifiso sokuba ubaba. Uma umuntu enakho, ngicabanga, futhi akufanele uqale izingane. Ngakho-ke awukakulungeli lokhu, futhi mhlawumbe akuyona nje umgomo wakho empilweni. Lokhu kujwayelekile ngoba sonke sihlukile. Isibonelo, ngiyazithanda kakhulu izingane zami, emva kokuzalwa kweNdodana namadodakazi, baba yinjongo yokuphila ngenxa yami. Sifuna izingane eziningi kakhulu.
Kubalulekile ukuthanda, ukuqonda, ukuvikela, ukwazisa nokungakhathali, ungacasuli izingane. Izingane ziyinjabulo. Futhi kufanele ube ubaba, isibonelo esihle. Futhi-ke yonke into ilula kakhulu. Ubaba ophuza njalo, ehleli nje embhedeni amemezele ezinganeni, ngoba ibhola alizwakali, akusona isibonelo esihle. Ngeshwa, kunezibonelo eziningi ezinjalo, ikakhulukazi lezo zalezo zingane ezavela eminyakeni yalokho-20130. Kepha kuhle kakhulu ukuthi manje umhlaba uhamba kancane, kepha ushintsho ngokufanele. Ubuhlobo obunempilo emndenini nasezindleleni zokukhuliswa buyathandwa kakhulu.
Ubaba omuhle uchitha isikhathi esiningi nezingane, kunoma yikuphi, inani eliphakeme labangenzeka. Ubonisa izingane zakhe isibonelo, ukuthi ungumuntu onjani. Ukuze indodana, lokhu kuyimodeli yendoda, indlela aziphatha ngayo. Futhi ndodakazi yami, bonisani ukuthi umuntu okufanele abe, ukuze esikhathini esizayo wakhetha umuntu anganele noYise. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi kunikezwe umlingani, kunemodeli efanayo yokuziphatha kwezingane esikhathini esizayo: nganoma iyiphi indlela, kungaba yintsha, kube ngumshado. Ngalezi zikhathi, baba futhi kufanele uziveze. Isibonelo, uma umuntu, ngokwesibonelo, lapho, emehlweni ezingane uzohlala umfana. Izingane zizomcisha futhi ayeke ukuhlonipha. Kepha uma ungakwazi ukwenza okuthile, unomuzwa wokuthi uziphatha ngendlela engalungile, into esemqoka ukuvuma, hhayi ukumba kuwe. Futhi, ungumndeni, futhi ungazixazulula ngokuphephile izinkinga nomlingani wakho. Usizo oluhambisanayo nobunye emndenini, ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokuhlanganyela futhi unaka izintshisekelo zomunye nomunye - lesi yisibonelo esifanayo sezingane, ngoba kufanele senziwe nabanye abantu emphakathini.
Akunakukwazi ukucasula izingane. Udinga ukufaka uthando nokunakekelwa, ukwazisa. Ungesabi ukukhombisa ubuthakathaka bezingane othandweni kubo futhi ungabambeki ilebula "Ngingumuntu." Wonke umuntu ukhombisa imizwa, futhi lokhu kujwayelekile. Wonke umuntu angasho ukuthi abayithandi okuthile futhi okuthile akunakukhululeka, futhi lokhu nakho kuvamile. Konke lokhu kuzokusiza ukukuphakamisa okuhle, onekhono futhi uqonde ngokwakho nezinye izingane, futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Kuhle, okubaluleke - ungakhohlwa ukuthi konke kuqala kuwe. Sebenza kuqala ngenhla kwakho, ngamaphutha akho nezinkinga, ungesabi ukuvuma. Futhi njengezingane nje, ziyinjabulo futhi zingcono kakhulu emhlabeni. "