Ngempilo egcwele, umuntu udinga uthando - onqunywe yimithetho yemvelo noNkulunkulu. Ukwakha umndeni bese uqhubeka nohlobo lwakho, kubalulekile ukuthola ukuthi "umuntu wakho" ohloselwe ngaphezulu, futhi wakhe ubuhlobo obuvumelanayo naye.
Kepha kumane nje ukuhlangana nombhangqwana ojabule ngempela? Ngokwezibalo zeminyaka yamuva nje, okungenani ama-55% emishadweni aphela ngesehlukaniso. Futhi bangaki abantu abahle, abantu abahloniphekile abakwazi ukuthola ingxenye yabo? Inkinga yokusungula impilo yomuntu siqu kwabaningi ibaluleke kakhulu ...
Eqinisweni, wonke umuntu unethuba lokuheha uthando ezimpilweni zabo, adale umndeni onomlingani ofanele kuye noma alethe injabulo ebudlelwaneni obuvele bukhona. Konke onakho empilweni kungumphumela wokuphendula koMdali kulawo malungiselelo ahlelwe ngesakhiwo sobuntu bakho. Futhi uma ubudlelwane bungengezi isikhathi eside, lokhu kusikisela ukuthi isisekelo sakho sezinkolelo asitheli futhi yisikhathi sokuwushintsha.
Izimbangela eziphazamisa ukuzungeza injabulo ebudlelwaneni zingafihla kunoma yiluphi lolu hlelo lobuntu.
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Isisekelo sesayensi sendlela ye-teta-okhalweni
Nje, kuyo, uTheta okhaleni uzokusiza. Le ndlela ehlukile eyenziwe kuma-90s isithandwa kakhulu ngenxa yokusebenza kwayo. Indlela ye-Teta-Hinging ukusebenzisa amandla okuzenzela azenzele ezingeni lengqondo nangokomzimba. Lawa mathuba avulekile lapho umuntu efakiwe esimweni se-Theta - izinga elikhethekile lokwazi. Lesi yisimo somngcele lapho ubuchopho bakhipha ama-eclectromagnetic pulses ngobude obuthile - amagagasi e-Theta, ukuba khona kwalo kuqinisekiswa ngocwaningo lwesayensi.
Isimo sikaTheta kufanele sifakwe ngaphansi kokuholwa ngumkhuba weTheta onolwazi, okuzoba ngumqhubi wakho ngaphakathi kwakho "Mina".
Izimbangela zokwehluleka empilweni yomuntu siqu
Ukuze uqonde imvelaphi yezinkinga zakho empilweni yakho, i-Master ibambe "ukumbiwa" Ukufakwa Okungalungile Kuwo wonke amazinga akha ukwazi:
- Izinga le-Base (Root): Izinkolelo zakhiwa ebuntwaneni noma ngesikhathi sokuphila, noma yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukumeza umphefumulo;
- Ufuzo (izinhlelo ezijwayelekile);
- Umlando (isipiliyoni somoya ezimpilweni zangesikhathi esedlule);
- Izinga lomphefumlo.
Izizathu eziphazamisa ukuthola injabulo ebudlelwaneni zingafihla kunoma yiziphi zalezi zinhlelo zobuntu. Kungaba:
Ukwesaba - Ukwesaba ukulahleka noma ukukhaphela, ukuguquka, iphutha elibulalayo; Ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ubuntu bakho noma inkululeko yakho. Zihlotshaniswa nokudumazeka, kuqondaniswe kule noma impilo edlule.
Amabhsikhathi - Ukufakwa okuphika amandla okuheha uthando empilweni yakho. Zingahlotshaniswa nababi bokuthembeka noma isifungo sokungaqondali balethe izimpilo zangesikhathi esedlule.
Amabhlogo - Ungathandi ngokwawo, ukuqiniseka kokuphansi kwawo noma ukungasebenzi; Uthando lomlingani wangaphambili. Amabhulokhi avame ukuhlotshaniswa nokuqagelwa kobudlelwano obungesihle babazali empilweni yabo yomndeni. Kungenzeka kube zombili esisekelweni nasezingeni elijwayelekile.
Ukuvumelana okuhlanganisiwe, amakhasimende ahlangabezana nothando futhi adale umndeni
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Imiphumela Yomkhuba We-Teta-Oalingle
Ezinhlelweni zomsebenzi, i-Teta Hieerer enolwazi ithola lezi zimbangela - izinhlelo ezingezinhle ezingavumeli umuntu avumele uthando lothando, wakhe ubuhlobo obujabulisayo, dala umndeni. Ngemuva kokuhlonza ukufakwa okubhubhisayo, i-Master enemvume yeklayenti iyasusa, yelapha umphefumulo wayo.
Lapho-ke isigaba esithi "Ukulayisha" senzeka - lo mkhuba ubekelwe izinkolelo ezintsha, uhlelo okuhloswe ngalo ukuheha uthando nokuqhubeka kohlobo. Ukufakwa okungalungile kungathinta namandla okukhulelwa. Ukusebenzisa indlela yeTeta Halling, abesifazane nabesilisa basusa amabhlokhi abavimbela ukuba babe ngabazali, futhi kuholela ekwelapheni ezingeni lomzimba.
Isici esihlukile sendlela yokushaya ama-teta-hinging ukuthi ukuguqula izinhlelo zokuphila kwenzeka ngesikhathi seseshini. Ukuxolelwa kusuka ekufakweni okungashintshi masinyane kunika izithelo zayo. Ukuvumelana okuhlanganisiwe, amakhasimende ahlangabezana nothando, ashade, abelethe izingane futhi athole injabulo ebudlelwaneni bawo.