Ngizonikeza isibonelo sokulala, okusanda kuhlukaniswa yimi kanye nekhasimende lami - insizwa. Wavuma le ncwadi ukuze abafundi babe nethuba lokwenza umsebenzi ofanayo naye.
Izimo ezincane zempilo yakhe ukuze umongo waphakade waqondakala. Usemncane, uphumelele, usanda kushada. Futhi umatasa nalokho okufuna ama-Spheres amasha namasha wokuzithuthukisa. Unkosikazi wale ndoda unomlingiswa othambile nomunye umfucumfucu - kucatshangelwa, bushelelezi futhi uyaziqaphela. Lo mfo ufana ne-meteor. Ngokushesha, Smart, ngengqondo ye-chain kanye nokusabela okusheshayo. Ngenkathi labo abaseduze bacabanga, usekwenzile konke. Kumkakhe, naye waqala ukwenza izimfuneko zokuzibophezela ngokwengeziwe, ngokuzibophezela okunganele emibonweni yokuzithuthukisa. Uzwa "iGon" engapheli - isidingo sokwenza okuthile, ukuhambisa ngokuqhubekayo futhi ngandlela thile ngandlela thile. Njalo. Njalo. "Ngakho-ke kuhle! Konke kucabanga kahle, "uyacabanga. Akukona ngezenzo, kepha ngesikhundla esithe xaxa esikhokhiswa ekufuneni njalo ukuze sizithuthukise ngaphandle kokuphumula nokwaneliseka kwangempela ukuthi ngingowami nje.
Ukusebenza ngalezi zindikimba empilweni, iklayenti lami liphupha ngokulala: "Intombazane encane yangikhulisa. Wonke umuntu ubheka ingane esanda kuzalwa futhi asho ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle kuye ukuthi ucindezelwe. Ephusheni, ingane yilungu, kufanele uqagele kuphela ukuthi ngaphansi kwama-diapes ahanjiswa izibambo kanye nemilenze. Futhi yena yena mancane. Konke okuzungezile okukhona ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngengane. Futhi ngingedwa ngiyazi ukuthi ulungile ukuthi uzomane aphume. Ingane, ndodana yami ephusheni, ngokuhleleka okuhle. "
Lapho sihlanganisa leli phupho, ngabuza iklayenti ukuthi lizazi ngokuzalwa kwakhe. Kwavela ukuthi wazalwa 7way, zonke lezi zingxoxo 'mayelana' nokuthuthuka 'kwakhulunywa phezu kweCradle yakhe. Umama wamkhathaza, wamdala, wazama ukunxephezela "ukwenziwa ngenhla." Futhi kuze kube sesikhathini sobusha, ukuqiniseka kwaphonswa empilweni yakhe ukuthi wayengafanele. Izomnika esikoleni nezingane ezinokubambezeleka ekuthuthukisweni, kwathi kwezemidlalo ngamaqembu ezingane, yize ayehlangana neminyaka yakhe ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Leyo yinkolelo nje yokuthi awenziwanga, yasebenza futhi yanikeza izithelo zayo.
Kumele kushiwo lapha ukuthi izehlakalo ezichazwe ziphathwe ngesikhathi lapho ingane izalwa kuphela. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi sempilo yakho, ubuchopho bengane buqopha okwenzekayo nonina, njengaye uqobo, njengoba kwenzeka ngokweqiniso umama. Uma umama asinda edrama ukuthi indodana yakhe izokwenzelwa phansi, ingqondo yendabuko yengane yonke izobona njengohlelo lwempilo. Ezindaweni zesimanjemanje zemvelo, lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "isigaba sokuhlela" - isikhathi lapho ingane yakhulelwa khona futhi yazalwa kuphela. I-Psychology yabazali iba yi-Psychology Yakhe.
Lapho iklayenti libopha leli phupho ngendaba yakhe, khona-ke ukutholakala ukuthi iphupho lamsiza ukuba ahlukanise ukwesaba kwabanye isimo esivela kuye uqobo. Abanye besaba ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle kuye, abazali bakhe besaba. Futhi uyaphila! Futhi akadingi ukunxephezela, aguqule futhi athuthuke ngokungapheli.
Iphupho lakhe ukuthi ingane nguyena. Futhi ingane, okungukuthi, ngokwejwayelekile ngokuphelele! Uyakwazi lokhu kusuka ngaphakathi, hhayi ngaphandle, kumavoti e-echo azungeze.
Ngenxa yokulala nokubonisana ngobuntwana babo obujulile, iklayenti laletha ifomula: "Ngiyaphila! Ngivuthiwe! ".
Kuyathakazelisa ukubona ukuthi impilo yakhe izophakama kanjani nge-prism yalokho azanele. Ifuna ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izindlela akwenqaba ngazo umbono wokuthi unesici esidinga ukunxephezela. Isikhundla sokuqala sempilo siyashintsha. Ngicabanga ukuthi into yokuqala azozwa ukuncishiswa kwamandla kagesi avela ngaphakathi, okumele aguqulwe abe "ukubamba" okujwayelekile. Futhi lokhu uqobo lube yimiphumela ebaluleke kakhulu - ukuze uzithole futhi ujabule ngokuthi nginguMi.
Simfisela inhlanhla! Futhi umagazini olandelayo futhi ngephupho lensizwa - ungaphuthelwa!
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