Isikhathi sokugcina ngithinte inkinga yobunzima ebudlelwaneni. Namuhla ngithanda ukuqhubeka nakho, kepha ngombono omncane ongalindelekile.
Njengoba wazi, kunezinketho ezintathu zokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwano ngemuva kwenkinga.
Owokuqala uguquko esigabeni esisha sokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwano. Indlela ephumelela kakhulu futhi ejabulisayo yokuphuma. Ngathinta lesi sihloko kancane ekuthumeleni kwami kwangaphambilini.
Enye inketho inhle kakhulu. Lokhu kukhathalela inkinga. Kubukeka sengathi umndeni usindiswa yiwo wonke. Kepha isimo samanje asibekezeleleki, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthatha izinqumo eziphathelene nezinkinga. Ngenxa yalokhu, ukucindezelwa okuqoqiwe kuthululelwa ukuvukela umbuso, izifo ezinzima, uphuzo oludakayo, okunye ukuncika, nokunye.
Yebo, umphumela wesithathu uyisehlukaniso. Njengoba ngishilo, nqoba ubunzima kungenzeka kuphela lapho bobabili abalingani bafuna lokho. Uma omunye wabo engafuni ukutshala imali ebudlelwaneni, ngeke ubaphoqe. Futhi-ke kufanele ugcwalise ubudlelwano ...
Ukusinda kwesehlukaniso kunzima kakhulu. Shono nje bathi ukwahlukana kungukufa okuncane. Futhi uma kungenakugwenywa? Impilo yenzeke kanjalo, futhi akukho okungenziwa lapha. Ungawezi manje kuze kube phakade! Kufanele sibheke amanye amaqembu athile. Yilokho ebengifuna ukunikela ngeposi lami langempela.
Ngakho-ke, ama-plus wesehlukaniso. Yebo, yebo, awuzwanga, ama-plus.
Okokuqala, isehlukaniso akuyona indlela ebi kunazo zonke ngaphandle, ngoba uvikele uhlobo lwesibili lokuthuthukiswa kwemicimbi - ukushintsha, ukudabuka, ukunakekela ukugula, njll. Lona umphumela omuhle kakhulu futhi ophephile kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni. Okungukuthi, ngeke kusadingeka ukuthi uphathe ipotimende ngaphandle kwesibambo!
Okunye futhi umuntu osindile kwisehlukaniso uba ngumyalelo wokuvuthwa okukhulu. Kuhlanganiswe kangcono ebudlelwaneni. Ngamazwi nangezenzo zomunye aziboni nje okulele ebusweni. Phatha ngokuzethemba ngokweqiniso imizwa yangempela kusuka ekuthandeni.
Okuqinisekile okuhlangenwe nakho kwempilo yomndeni uqobo. Ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, abantu baqala ukucacisa ngokwengeziwe ukuqonda lokho abakufunayo ebudlelwaneni, lapho bazimisele khona ukushiyeka kwabo abazimisele ukukubekelela khona, futhi lokho - cha. Okulindelekile nezidingo ze-Satellite yempilo ziya ngokuya zanele futhi zinengqondo.
Isipiliyoni sokujoyina indlu ehlanganyelwe siyavela. Kunokuqonda ukuthi ungasabalalisa kanjani isikhathi, ongabhekana nakho ngokwakho, nokuthi udinga usizo.
Okubalulekile okuhlangenwe nakho kokuhlela isabelomali somndeni. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kuyaqabukela lapho kwenzeka ukuthi sekwanele kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni. Izindleko ezinhle amakhono okuhlela ukuthuthukisa ikhwalithi yempilo.
Okubalulekile okuhlangenwe nakho kokuxhumana nezihlobo. ELUNDLE eshayiwe isihloko umkhwenyana kanye nomkhwekazi wakhe abakhethiweyo. Futhi okungenani ukuxhumana okuncane nabo ngokungenakugwemeka. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ngandlela thile cabanga ukuthi ngenze lokho ngakolunye uhlangothi ungahambisani nokuqhosha kwakho, kodwa kwelinye - ukungacasuli indlela ehlukile. Leli yikhono eliwusizo kakhulu elingasetshenziswa kwezinye izimo zempilo.
Kunesikhathi samahhala, esingachithwa, njengenhliziyo yakho.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi kunamathuba amaningi wokwakha umsebenzi, isikhathi esengeziwe sivela ekuzithuthukisweni, ungakhulisa uhlu lwezinto ozithandayo nokunye nokunye.
Ekugcineni, kuza empumuzo eqhubeka nokuxabana, iRugan kanye nokucaciswa okungapheli kobudlelwano. Musa ukuhlala komunye umuntu ukuthi udle ubuchopho bese ubekezelela ukudla. Ungakhipha futhi ujabule ukusho: "Adyn, Savsham Adyn!"
Mhlawumbe othile uzoba nombuzo, kepha kuthiwani ngezingane manje? Kulungile! Umndeni lapho izingxabano eziningi kanye nokungezwani khona, lapho abazali beba khona abangabazi komunye nomunye, ngeke babe wusizo enganeni. Ngeke ajabule kuye. Ezinganeni, ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo nabazali, uthando lwabo nokuqonda, futhi akutholakali endaweni eyodwa yokuhlala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubi ukucabanga ukuthi kusho ukuthini "impilo yomndeni ejabulisayo". Nokuthi angakha umndeni wakhe ochumayo wale modeli.
Isehlukaniso singaba kubi, simangalisa futhi singabekezeleleki, kepha lokhu akuwona ukuphela komhlaba. Konke kubi futhi akujabulisi futhi. Ngemuva kwentambo emnyama kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi mhlophe. Futhi-ke ungabheka isehlukaniso njengethikithi empilweni entsha - mahhala, muhle futhi ujabule. Lapho ungakha konke ngenye indlela, njengoba ufuna. Akusho lutho ukuthi akukho humus ngaphandle kokuhle. Ngeke kube nenjabulo, kepha usizi lusize;)