Kubukeka sengathi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, i-psychology yabantu iyashintsha - ngo-2019, kusukela ngoJanuwari kuya ku-Ephreli, yaqedwa ngemishado eyizinkulungwane ezingama-53.6 ngaphansi konyaka odlule. Yini engathonya izibalo - ozakwethu baqine futhi babekezele? Eqinisweni, akekho owazi ifomula ephelele yomshado oqinile, ozokunikeza isitembu esisodwa kwipasipoti yempilo. Kodwa-ke, kunezeluleko eziningana ezijabule ukuhlanganyela i-cornea yempilo yomndeni - ngabo kokuqukethwe kwethu.
Uthando aludluli
Ungalaleli labo abakhuluma ngokujwayela umlingani. Uma umuntu ethakazelisa kuwe, inkanuko kanye nesifiso sokwethula isimo sakhe ngeke kudlule ngemuva kweminyaka yomshado. Umlingisi uTom Hanks ngo-2018, waphawula umshado weparele nonkosikazi wakhe uRita Wilson - iminyaka engama-30 emshadweni. Vele ubukeke njengoTom ukhuluma ngaye: "Kwesinye isikhathi ekuseni ngibheka le ntombazane, angikaze ngibe nesikhathi sokulala ebuthongweni - umbhede wakhe ofudumele uyafudumala, uchithe izinwele ... akunakwenzeka ngocansi ... Unkosikazi namanje akaphuthelwa ithuba lokubonga umyeni wakhe ngokunakwa. Engxoxweni nabantu, uRita uthi uTom ngaphandle kwesicelo sakhe sokucela ukwenza ukubhucungwa futhi kujabulise ukuchitha isikhathi sengxoxo yakusihlwa.
Isitembu asibalulekile
Omunye umbhangqwana wenkanyezi, uKurt Russell noGoli Houme, bebehlala ndawonye ngaphandle kwesitembu kwipasipoti. UGoldie uthi isisekelo sobudlelwano obude akuyona ukubhaliswa komshado, kepha, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuhambisana kanye nesifiso sokuxazulula izinkinga ndawonye. Uma umbhangqwana engafuni ukusebenza ebudlelwaneni, ngenxa yezingxabano ezingalungiswa, inyunyana izokwehlukanisa ngokushesha. Akunakwenzeka ukuba usondele ngokuphelele, kepha udinga ukukwazi ukubhekana nokuvumelana nokubi kozakwethu futhi uthole ukuyekethisa.
Amandla okuthatha konke ezandleni zakho
Ungakuhlukumeza kanjani izitsha ezingafuneki, kungcono ukuthenga isitsha sokugeza izitsha? Musa ukuguqula impukane ibe yindlovu futhi ukhathazeke ngenkinga engalungiswa iminyaka. Guqula inkinga emsebenzini bese ukhetha ikhambi lesixazululo salo, noma ngabe kuza abendlu, kodwa imibuzo yomuntu siqu. Ngakho-ke eminyakeni engama-41 edlule, iSculptor Don Gammer yahlangana nomlingisi othandwayo othandwayo uMaryl reaper. Le ntombazane yabe isithola isikhathi esibi kunazo zonke - ngenxa yomdlavuza wamaphaphu, umuntu wakhe amthandayo wafa. UDon ubelokhu esondele eMaryl, wazungeza ukunaka kwakhe wakhombisa ukuthi kunganqatshwa kukho. Lo mbhangqwana uhlanganyele ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kuphela ngosuku lokuthandana.
Uhlale useduze
"Ngatshela umkami: Uma ungishiya, ngizokushiya," kusho umlingisi uKirk Douglas. Manje osaziwayo oneminyaka engu-102 ubudala, nomkakhe u-Ann Baidanz baphenduka iminyaka eyikhulu. Ukusuka eminyakeni engu-× 65 bashadile! Thatha isibonelo kusuka kulo mbhangqwana futhi uthole umdlalo ojwayelekile - angaba yimidlalo, ukuhamba, isisa. Imizwa ehlolwe ngokuhlanganyela ifudunyezwa ngumlilo wothando nentshisekelo.
Masibe ithuba lesibili
Akunakwenzeka ukubala ukuthi uSheron wachuma kangaki kusukela emiphumeleni yomyeni wakhe ozzy osborne. Ngo-2016, ngemuva kweminyaka engama-34 eshadile, waze wafaka isehlukaniso, ebhekisa kumbuyekezi wayo njalo. Iqiniso alizange lidlule izinyanga eziyisithupha, njengoba laphinde lafunga ehhovisi lokubhalisa futhi sethula impilo futhi. Uma uzwa amandla okuthola zonke izinkinga zomndeni, cabanga kabusha ngamehlo akho ezindabeni eziphikisanayo futhi ubone impendulo yalowo ongumlingani wangaphambili - wangelwa! Ngezinye izikhathi abantu babenephutha, bakhubekisa izihlobo eziningi, kepha baqaphele amaphutha abo futhi bafuna ukuguquka.