Njengomthetho, uma kufika ubudlelwane obunobuthi, ngokushesha babonakalisa indoda ehlukumeza ngokubomvu emfanini wayo. Esimweni esinjalo, kuyaqabukela ukulungisa umuntu, futhi ukuhlukana kuba okungenakugwenywa. Kodwa-ke, endabeni yomoya ongenangqondo ophila nawe, akulula kangako ukunquma ukuthi yini okungalungile. Sinqume ukuqoqa izimpawu eziphambili zokuphambuka, kepha lonke ulaka oluyingozi oluyingozi engxenyeni ethile yozakwethu, okufanele sikwenzele ucingo - mhlawumbe kufanele ucabange, nokuthi ubudlelwano obunjalo buyadingeka yini, nokuthi ubudlelwane obunjalo budingekayo yini?
Umuntu ushiya umthwalo wemfanelo
Owesifazane ngamunye eshidini unethemba lokuthi indoda uma ingaxazululi inkinga, ingabe okungenani izokweseka ukuthi inengqondo ngempela nganoma iyiphi indlela, kepha i-acluestassorsorsorsorsorsorsor ihlala isusa umthwalo wemfanelo wamahlombe abuthaka we-PA, futhi kuyakude. Uma lokho kuziphatha kusekelwa izinsolo zekheli lakho, kufanele kube nokungabaza - umlingani "ubuthi" ubudlelwano bakho, ubheke indlela yokukulawula.
Awukwazi ukumkhuphuka
Omunye umaka wobudlelwano obunempilo - ungahlala ubala ngokuxhumana ngokomzimba, kepha hhayi ohlelweni olusondelene, kodwa umane nje udubula nokuqabulana. Umlingani onobuthi uguqula noma yikuphi ukuthintana ngokomzimba abe yisikhuthazo - kuzodakwa futhi kubonise ukuthuka kwakhe kunoma yimaphi amaqhinga.
Ebudlelwaneni obunempilo kukhona njalo ukwesekwa
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Awuqondi - umlingani uthukuthele noma cha
Umongo wokuphambana kokuphawula ukuthi umuntu ukhombisa imizwa engemihle ngendlela ecashile, kodwa hhayi ezifisweni, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi ngenxa yokungqubuzana okuvulekile, udinga isibindi namakhono athile angenawo, ngenxa yalokho abanakho ukuzibamba kanye "ubuthi" umlingani njengoba angakwenza kangcono kakhulu.
Amahlaya aluhlaza - yethu konke
Imvamisa inhlekisa nokubhuqa, kwesinye isikhathi okulimaze kakhulu, kuyindlela yokucindezela ukuzethemba kozakwethu, futhi uma uqala ukucasulwa, indoda izothi awuqondi nje amahlaya - uzoba necala. Okuthakazelisayo, le ndoda yazi kahle ukuthi le nombolo ayizukudlula kabani, futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi "ihlukana" ukuthi ngubani ongeke akwazi ukukuphindisela, noma asondele kakhulu, okungukuthi, okungukuthi, okungukuthi, okukhona kuwe.