Ukuntuleka kokuzethemba kuvela ebuntwaneni. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ingane ivivinya umhlaba wangaphandle ekuphenduleni. Uphula ithoyizi futhi ulinde ukusabela kwabazali, wenza umdwebo futhi aphuthume azokhombisa abazali bakhe, afuna ukubona umbono wakhe. Uma kungekho ukuvunywa, ingane ibhekene nokungaqiniseki nokukhathazeka, okuhambisana nokuphindaphinda kwalezi zimo. Umphumela ofanayo unikezwa abazali abaphakeme. Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu, aze anawo amakhono amaningi namathalente, ahlala engabaza ukuba khona kwawo. Ukungavikeleki kushukumisela ukungakwazi ukumemezela izintshisekelo zakhe futhi zibavikele; uthi "cha" lapho ngingafuni ukuvuma; gqugquzela insizakalo; Sungula ukuxhumana nabantu abangajwayelekile kanye nabobulili obuhlukile; Zama okusha.
U-Olga Romaniv
Ungabhekana kanjani nokungaqiniseki?
Sebenza kulokho okucabanga indawo yakho ebuthakathaka. Isibonelo, awuyeki ukuhlela ukuthi ukhuluphele, okuthi, ngombono wakho, kukuvimbela ekufundeni ukuze ujwayelane nowesilisa owuthandayo. Bhalisela ejimini bese ubuyekeza ukudla kwakho. Uma kukhona izikhala ezijabulisa wena olwazini lwezinkinga zokusebenza, bheka ama-roller wokuqeqesha kwi-Intanethi, funda izincwadi ezifanele. Ngokuvamile, yenza konke kuwe kuya.
Vuka ukhokhise isimo esihle. Umsebenzi wakho ukwenza ukuboniswa kwakho esibukweni okungenani izincomo ezinhlanu nokumamatheka. Inqubo elula kakhulu ukuthola umphumela? Kepha zama ukukwenza okungenani inyanga. Ngokushesha isimo somoya sasekuseni sizosakazeka ngosuku lwakho lonke futhi sithelele abanye.
Bukela imicabango yakho. Ngokushesha nje lapho ngibonisa umoya ", angikwazanga", "Angikwazi", "Angifaneleki" futhi ngifane nalo, ngiyenze ngibe nomusizayo ngokuthi " "Ngigcwele amandla namakhono" futhi njll.
Shayela idayari yokufeza. Thatha umthetho wokugubha amanzuzo akho ngokubhala phakathi nosuku. Maka nsuku zonke okungenani amaphuzu amahlanu, uphonsa ukuthobeka kwamanga. Uzomangala ukuthi impilo yakho inenjabulo kangakanani.
Ungaziqhathanisi nalabo abacabanga kahle. Lapho abantu bengekho ukwesekwa kwangaphakathi, inhloso (ngangokunokwenzeka) imibono mayelana namakhono abo namathuba abo, bakhetha lokhu kusekelwa ezweni langaphandle, bakhohlwa ukuthi bonke abantu bahlukile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungcono ukuba ngcono kunokuba yinkokhiso kufashini. Thola kalula, vele ubuke ngokwanele ukubheka umuntu ezweni elijwayelekile nasephepheni lakhe ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi umbono uzofana.