Sengivele ngithinte izihloko ezibaluleke kakhulu njengezinkinga ebudlelwaneni, inkinga yesehlukaniso, nokunye. Noma kunjalo, abaningi bazoqhubeka nokuzibuza ukuthi kungani eminye imindeni iphila isikhathi eside futhi ngenjabulo, kanti abanye bahlakazeka ngonyaka wokuqala noma izingane ezimbili. Kungani kwenzeka?
Ngiphakamisa okunye ukubheka imbangela yezinkinga ebudlelwaneni obuphakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Okungukuthi, okulindelwe kwethu ngokungafanele kulobu budlelwano kungaba yikho konke.
Kulokhu okuthunyelwe, ngifuna ukukhuluma ngezinto ezilindelwe kakhulu ezinobuthi ezimpilweni zethu.
Ngakho-ke, okuyisisekelo kakhulu kulindelwe umlingani wenkulumo ethile yothando. Emindenini ehlukene, kuyisiko ukukwenza ngezindlela ezihlukile, futhi kwesinye isikhathi asicabangi ngisho nokucabanga ngalokho okwenzekayo ngenye indlela. Ungaletha inqwaba yezibonelo, ngoba le nkinga ikhona kusuka ezikhathini zasemhumeni. Cabanga ngendoda iza ekhaya ngokuzingela. Usuku lonke wabheka esilwaneni esikhulu kunazo zonke nele-meandoy, ukumbulala futhi alethe owesifazane wakhe. Washaya i-hack yokhuni, ukuze ukushisa komhume kwakukhona. Angizange ngithole konke. Futhi konke othandekayo wakho! Ubusisiwe, ucabanga ukuthi uzojabulisa isithandwa sakhe. Futhi wacasuka. Akadingi mamoni noma izinkuni. Kunalokho kuyisixha sezimbali zensimu, kepha ukunakwa okwengeziwe kuningi. Futhi umyeni akaqondi ukuthi yini inkinga - ukuthi ngabe i-mammoth ayinkulu ngokwanele, noma kukhona izinkuni ezimbalwa ... ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi kubukeka sengathi wonke umuntu uthanda, kepha ngasikhathi sinye ungajabuli. Futhi bonke ngoba emndenini kankosikazi wakhe, konke okuphilayo kwavulwa ama-romantics kanye nesisa. Wayenenqwaba yodade. Bonke abazali babo bahamba, bahleka, bavalezela futhi baqabulana. Emndenini womyeni wakhe, bonke abantwana babengabafana, ubaba wakhuliswa, waxosha ukuzingela kwakhe, nomama wahlala ekhaya walinakekela wonke umuntu, walingisa wonke umuntu kusihlwa. Ngenxa yalokho, kusukela esemncane, kanye nobisi lukamama, iMana Kasha, eyokuqala yabulawa ngoMammont Wonke umuntu wafunda isibonelo sakhe sokubonakaliswa kothando nokunakekela, futhi wazabalaza ukumlandela ukujabulisa ingxenye yakhe. Yebo, empeleni, ngangilinde ukuthi indlela yokuziphatha ehambelana nemodeli efanayo.
Lesi simo singaphindwa ezimeni ezihlukile nakwanoma yiziphi izimo zokuphila.
Kwenzeka ukuthi abalingani bafuna okufanayo, kepha banamahloni okuvuma omunye komunye, balindele ukungaboni ngaso linye noma ngisho nabagxeki. Isibonelo, kusihlwa, bendawonye ukuba bavakashele, lapho kuhlelwa khona inkampani enomsindo nezinye izinto. Kepha ekujuleni komphefumlo, wonke umuntu uyaphupha ngokuhlala ekhaya ahlale ndawonye,. Futhi bobabili bathule. Ngenxa yalokhu, ubusuku bonke obunezimayini ezinomunyu kwenziwa enkampanini yabangani. Futhi nokunganeliseki okuqinile. Futhi uma bebonwa ezifisweni zabo, ngokushesha bazizwa behlanya futhi benelisekile ngomunye nomunye.
Imvamisa siwela ogibeni, lapho silindele ukuthi uma umuntu wethu ekhethiwe / okhethiweyo aziphethe ngandlela thile, waziphatha ngokuhambisana nombhangqwana wawo wangaphambili, kuzodingeka futhi aziphathe ngokuphathelene nathi. Isibonelo, intombazane yanamuhla yajwayelana nensizwa. Wathandana nokungazi lutho. Futhi kuyavumelana. Wamenza wanikela, wavuma. Kubukeka sengathi kuyajabulisa bonke. Ngokuphazima kweso uthola ukuthi yena kwangaphambili wakhe wafuna ukuthi wayehlala elungiselelwe kakhulu. Ushaqekile, umlinde ngempela ngempela isiphetho esifanayo? Futhi akazi ukupheka nhlobo futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, akakuthandi! Lokhu kulindelekile akunangqondo futhi kudinga amasheke. Ngemuva kwakho konke, babehluke ngokuphelele ebudlelwaneni. Abantu bayashintsha futhi isimo siyashintsha. Le ntombazane ayikaze ikhumbule ukuthi kunezinye izinzuzo kulo ukuthi insizwa yakhe yayazisa kakhulu. Lokho ubudlelwane naye, udinga omunye.
Ngaphambi kwenqwaba ngifuna ukwengeza ukuthi singaba ekudingisweni kokulindelwe kwethu. Intombazane inquma ukuthi ngeke kube khona okokuqala ukubiza le nsizwa futhi ilindele ukulandela isinqumo sayo, kepha ngasizathu simbe ayimi futhi yenze ucingo olunqatshelwe. Ngemuva kwalokhu, umlobi omude wedwa futhi ngokuqinisekile lokhu kubangela ukukhungatheka ngokuyinhloko ngokwakhe.
Ukusuka ohlangothini, njengaku-movie, konke kusobala, kepha, kubhekene neqiniso, silahlekile, sicasukile futhi sizizwa singajabule. Yini okufanele uyenze ngokulindela kwakho?
Okokuqala, badinga ukulandelwa futhi baxoxwe ngengxenye yabo yesibili. Lokhu kuzothuthukisa ubuhlobo bakho. Ukukhohlisa okungenamsebenzi nokuhlambalaza buthule kuzonyamalala. Inani lokunganeliseki ngeyunithi ngayinye yesikhathi lizokwehla kakhulu. I-Voltage izokuwa.
Vele, akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi okulindelwe kubalingani kuhlangana. Kepha akekho okhanselekile. Ungayeka futhi ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, kusuka kulokhu, Make, awukwazi ukuthola noma yikuphi. Kunoma ikuphi, kukwakheke kakhulu kunokuba uhlale, ulinde, lapho ukuqagela okuthandayo (Aya) ngezifiso, futhi usindise ukunganeliseki. Njengoba sidingiswa okulindelwe, sincisha impilo yethu yokuziqhenya, ukukhanya nokungahleleki. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphandle kokulindelwe okufiselekayo okuvela kumlingani, sithola ithuba kaningi ukuthola izimangaliso ezimnandi kulo ;-)