Ukuze ukwazi ukulawula imizwa yakho ingenye yamakhono asemqoka oMuntu ojabulayo nophumelelayo. Kuyiqiniso, ngesigqi sanamuhla sokuphila, lapho sihlangabezana nokuxineka futhi singahlali sinethuba lokuphumula ngokwanele ukubuyisela ukulingana okuqotho, kuba nzima kakhulu ukulondoloza ukuvimbela. Kodwa-ke, ukuba nemizwa ngokweqile kugcwele izinkinga ezinkulu. Isici somuntu kwesinye isikhathi siba yisithiyo ekuxhumaneni nabanye abantu, ekuthuthukisweni kobungcweti nasekudaleni komndeni. Ngaphandle kokukwazi ukulawula imizwa yakho, awulimazi njalo nge-psyche yakho, kodwa futhi wephula induduzo yabanye, kuba nzima ukubhekana nawe.
Ngifunda ukulawula imizwa yami kwasiza lo msebenzi. Ukuze ube ngumlingisi ochwepheshe, udinga nje ukuthi ube nokuvinjwa, ngemuva kokuba esiteji seshashalazi noma kusethi, umlingisi akakwazi ukukhokhela ithonya lemizwelo, njengoba edinga ukwakhiwa endimeni futhi afake enye umlingiswa. Ngezindlela eziningi, utadisha ngaphambi komsebenzi, esigabeni sesikole esisebenzayo. Kepha ngicabanga ukuthi ukufunda ukulawula imizwa yami kungafunda wonke umuntu ngosizo lwezindlela ezilula.
U-Alexander Barsuk
1. Ngale ndlela kungenzeka ukuthi usuvele uzwe kaningi, futhi kusebenza ngempela ezimeni eziningi. Noma nini lapho unomuzwa wokuthi isimo sikhazimula futhi ucishe ulungele ukuya esikhaleni noma ithoni enolaka, vele uphefumule ngokujulile, ubalekele ku-5 futhi ukhiphe. Lokhu kukhohlisa okulula kuzokusiza wehlise umoya, futhi ungaqhubeka nengxoxo kukhiye ofanele.
2. Njengoba kwaziwa, imvelo yethu ihlala isithinta ngezinga elithile noma elinye. Ngokusekelwe kulokhu, uma ucabanga ukuthi lokho okungokomzwelo ezimweni ezahlukahlukene, kufanele uhlaziye: mhlawumbe othile kulabo abavame ukuba eduze kwakho kukuthinta ngendlela efanayo. Uma unomuntu onjalo endaweni yakho, khona-ke kungadingeka ukunciphisa noma ukumisa ukuxhumana nakho.
3. Lapho isimo senzeka hhayi indlela enhle kakhulu kuwe futhi usukulungele ukunqotshwa imizwa engemihle, cabanga kakhulu okuthile okuhle. Kungaba khona omunye umzuzu okhanyayo kusuka kwangesikhathi esedlule noma indawo lapho ufuna ukuvakashela khona ngempela - ngokuvamile, okuthile okungakubuyisela isimo esihle.
4. E-Arsenal esebenzayo, kunendlela wonke umuntu kunoma yisiphi isimo angayisebenzisa. Lapho ujabule kakhulu ngokomoya ngenxa yomcimbi othile, zama ukuzama ngesithombe sohlamvu oluthile, wudlala! Cabanga ngomuntu okulesi simo ezobamba ngokuphola futhi ngokuqiniseka.
5. Esimweni ngasinye esiyinkinga ngesilinganiso esiphakeme somoya, shintsha ukunakwa kwakho, gxila ekutheni kufanele ukwenze kanjani ukuvumela. Ukuhlekisa imizwa ongasiza ingqondo ebandayo!