Kuze kube manje, ungathola inombolo emangalisayo yokuqeqeshwa kokuthuthukiswa kobufazi. Zonke izinhlobo ze-blogger kanye nezazi zocansi zinikeza izinsizakalo zazo kulabo abafuna ukuqiniseka ngokwengeziwe kubo. Futhi empeleni, abesifazane abaningi abahle bahlala bedwa, yize benakho konke ukuthola ingxenye yabo. Kepha lokhu kudala nje. Yini imbangela yocansi olufihliwe?
Njengoba izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zikholelwa, yonke le nto emizweni ebekiwe, eyasungulwa ebuntwaneni. Abazali bakwamantombazane bamane nje abakwazanga ukuchaza ukuthi ubuhlobo obuhlobo bobudlelwano buyohlala bubazali. Imvamisa, abazali badlala ingane, baphendula imizwa yaso yesisa, yize empeleni isimo sobudlelwano obunjalo kungenzeka kuphela nomlingani wakhe.
Lapho intombazane enjalo ikhula, kuhlala kunesidingo sokuthandana nekhawunta ngayinye, ngoba yenza into efanayo ebuntwaneni futhi abazali bayo bayithanda.
Kodwa-ke, esidala, owesifazane ngeke ahlale ebhekene nokuqonda ukuthi abazali baqhubeka. Ngemuva kochungechunge lokwehluleka ebudlelwaneni, owesifazane angadumazeka nje ngokwawo nokuheha kwawo.
Njengoba ubona, zonke izinkinga zobulili zivela ebuntwaneni futhi zihlobene ngqo nesimo sabazali. Ngakho-ke, ukwenza kanjani uma kwenzeka uwedwa nendoda, kepha wesaba ukwembula?
Indoda yakho isivele ikhethe wena
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Kufanele uqiniseke ekukhangeleni kwakho.
Lapho sikholelwa entweni ethile ezungeze ngokungazi nayo iqala ukukukholelwa. Qondisisa ukuthi uma indoda ikhethe wena, wabe esekwazi ukukubheka, khona-ke idonsela konke okukuwe. Vele ufunde ukuzithatha uzigxeke, khona-ke ubusuku buzodlula ngomlingo.
Gcizelela ubuhle
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Akunasidingo sokuqhathanisa
Kuyohlala kukhona okungcono kunawe. Kuyiqiniso. Uma ubheka nxazonke, mhlawumbe uqaphele abesifazane abakhangayo. Kodwa-ke, hhayi ngokuqinile ngokulingana nesikhumba esincanyana noma abesifazane abanesikhumba esibushelelezi ngokwengeziwe. Kufanele ugxile kuwe futhi ucabange ukuthi yini okungenzeka ukuthi muhle kakhulu embhedeni.
Izinzuzo zakho - Amandla akho
Uyazi ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba wakho obangela ukujabulisa amadoda. Thatha kuye. Ake sithi amadoda adonsela isifuba sakho: yenza konke okubukeka kuphelele, yenza izivivinyo ezikhethekile, unakekele indawo ye-neckline, njll. Ukufihla amaminithi akho, ungakhohlwa ngezinzuzo zakho, ungakhohlwa ngezinzuzo.