Isihloko se-orgasm sihlala sisebenza. I-Calm-Psychotherapist, umqeqeshi wokuqaliswa kwenhloso ye-Ilya BearetSetv kanye ne-RPT-Therapist, umqeqeshi wezokuthuthukiswa kwabesifazane, u-Irina Shekunov, uthathe isinqumo sokususa izinganekwane ezimbalwa ezihambisana nayo.
U-Ilya: Imvamisa ngizwa kwabanye ukuthi amadoda ane-orgasm ukuqhubeka nohlobo, futhi abesifazane babonakala bengakhululekile. Kimina, lokhu kuyize okuphelele. Ngokwazi kwami, i-orgasm ihambisana kakhulu nokushintshana kwamandla phakathi kwabantu. Futhi akubona bonke abantu abaphelile nge-orgasm. Manje sengihlukanisa inqubo yemvelo kanye nokuqhuma kwamandla, njengoba amaDawoist ahlukaniswe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngomqondo wangempela, amadoda eTaoost ayekwazi ukuthola i-orgasm lapho i-aurora engazange idubule. Kuyavela ukuthi singakuthonya lokhu, kusho ukuthi singakulawula. Ngasikhathi sinye, ama-80% abesifazane awafinyeleli esiqongweni se-Everest. Kuyathakazelisa ukuzwa ukubheka kowesifazane kule nkinga.
I-Irina: Yebo, isihloko siyasebenza. Kwisipiliyoni sami kanye nesipiliyoni samakhasimende ami, indlela elula yokuya ku-orgasm ilele ... ikhanda. Isizathu esiyinhloko sokungabikho kwakhe ukungathembi umlingani. Uyilungelo lokuthi i-orgasm akuyona nje inqubo yezomzimba kuphela, kodwa futhi namandla. Kuphenduka ukwesaba okungazi lutho - zilahlekelwe, zincibilike kumlingani. Okwamanje kukhona ukulahlekelwa okuphelele kokulawula, ngakho-ke ikhanda limane nje aliyeki injabulo ngokuphelele. Futhi-ke, uma kungekho mlingani ozethembayo, umzimba uqala ukuzivikela ngokungazi, uvimba i-orgasm, ukuze ungabi esimweni esingahle sibhekwe njengengozi njengengozi. Ukhiye ukuphumula ngokuphelele nokwethembana. Futhi abanandawo yokulawula.
U-Ilya: Ngiyavuma. Ngiyakholelwa futhi ukuthi akukho okusanda kwenzeka. Uma ufuna ukuphumula, futhi kungazelelwe kwinqubo kukhona ukwehluleka ongazi, ngokuqinisekile kuyinsimbi. Ukwehluleka okuhlelekile Kwabesilisa kubizwa ngokuthi ukungabi namandla, kwabesifazane - ukuntuleka kwe-orgasm. Kubo, njengomthetho, okuthile kufanelekile: ubudlelwano nomlingani, ukulimala kwezingane, ukuzimela, ukuzwelana, njll. Uma kungenjalo ukukhuluma ngezinkinga zangaphakathi nezomzimba. Vuka uye ku-psychotherapist. Kepha mhlawumbe kukhona abakwamukeli kuwe ngokuza okufanele babelane ngakho nabafundi ukuze kube lula ukuba bavuke ebhalwe ngebhaluni ngenhla kwamafu ngaphezulu kwamafu ngaphezulu kwamafu?
I-Irina: Uma kwenzeka sikhuluma ngobudlelwano obunempilo lapho uthanda khona umlingani futhi ufuna ukuba naye, - futhi ngithemba ukuthi abafundi bethu baphathwa ngobuhlobo obunjalo - ukuze baqale ukukhuluma nomlingani Futhi wabelane ngalokho okwenzekayo. Ukuxhumana okuningi nemizwa yayo, i-massage ephumuzayo isebenza ngokuphelele, okuzokusiza ufunde amaphuzu abucayi kakhulu omunye komunye. Ukubuka okuqondile kweso kumlingani kuzokusiza uqinise umuzwa wokusondela phakathi kwakho futhi ucime ingqondo. Ungazama ukufunda kule nqubo, unikeze imvelo yethu yezilwane, kuzosiza futhi ukushintshela ekhanda emizweni.
Uma konke lokhu kungalethi imiphumela, khona-ke mhlawumbe inkinga ijule: ingancibilika emizweni engemihle eqongelelwe kumlingani noma ukulimala okungokomzwelo phambilini. Kulokhu, bengincoma ukuxhumana nenkinga ye-psychotherapist.
Futhi labo abasasesha ingxenye yabo yesibili, ngokuphila nama-orgasms aqhakazile, singathanda ukumema umlingani wethu wokuqeqesha ekuqeqeshweni kwethu.