Cishe, ngamunye ujwayelene yindaba lapho uya kokusingathwa kwevidiyo yakho oyithandayo futhi ugijime ngephutha kwividiyo enhle yomculi, engingazange ngizwe ngakho. Kuyenzeka ukuthi ubuntu bomculi buheha kakhulu kangangokuba awusekho ukuqaphela ukuthi ungabuyekeza kanjani zonke iziqeshana nezingxoxo. Futhi lokhu kujwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, izinkinga ziqala okwamanje lapho ungabe usacabanga ngempilo yakho ngaphandle kwehora ngaphandle kokuchofoza esithombeni somculi wakho owuthandayo. Yisiphi isizathu sokuncika kwabezindaba, thina, okungenzeka, singalokothi sihlangane? Sizamile ukuthola.
Lapho "imilenze" ikhula khona
Omunye uzothi ukushiyeka ngokweqile "kwazalwa" ngokufika kwezinkanyezi zedwala lokuqala ekhulwini leminyaka elidlule, kodwa akunjalo? Kuphoqelekile ukungavumelani. Isifiso sokukhothama ngaphambi kokuba ummeleli wethonya lakhe elinamandla futhi aqinile aqala ukukhula kusukela lapho abantu baqala ukuhlanganisa emiphakathini ukuze basinde. Babedinga umholi ozoqinisekisa ukuphepha nokunetha kwesizwe. Ngasikhathi sinye, kancane kancane abantu bathi kunendaba ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba uzizwe, yingakho ukukhulekelwa konkulunkulu, futhi kaningi abaholi besizwe baba umugqa owodwa nalonkulunkulu futhi bekuvele kunzima ukuhlukanisa eyodwa kwabanye. I-Society iye yathuthuka ngokushesha, futhi iyaqhubeka nokukhula manje, kepha isifiso sokukhetha umholi ngokwakhe, futhi akunandaba - okuyiqiniso noma okungaphatheki - akuzange kunyamalale noma kuphi.
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Okwenzekayo manje
Amanethiwekhi okuxhumana nomphakathi asinike ithuba uma kungenjalo eduze kosaziwayo, kepha okungenani wenze sengathi uhlala eduze kakhulu ku: Njalo ekuseni uthwebula isithombe esisha senkanyezi, okufana Wena, uvuke, uqala ukubonakala sengathi awunamehluko. Izinkundla zokuxhumana zisenza sikholelwe ukuthi inkanyezi nomakhelwane bethu ekuthandeni imayelana nokulingana - uyazi ukuthi ukwenzani okufanayo. Kuyafaneleka ukusho ukuthi konke lokhu kuyinkohliso, yize udumo olusebenza kahle ngokuthanda isithombe.
Lapho kufanelekile ukukhathazeka
Cha, awudingi ukugijima futhi ukhiphe ohlwini oluvela ku-Hugh Jackman ngoba wesaba ukuwela ukuncika. Izinkanyezi zalokho futhi udale ama-akhawunti ukusondela ezilalelini zakho, yize ngesikrini se-smartphone. Sifunda futhi sabeka i-husky phambili. Kepha uma unomuzwa wokuthi awukwazi futhi uchithe ihora ngaphandle kokuvuselela itheyipu, ulindele okuthunyelwe okusha kosaziwayo owuthandayo, noma wakhe impilo yakho ezungeze umuntu abemidiya, kuleli cala kufanelekile ukucabanga nokuthi uyidinga kanjani nokuthi uyidinga kanjani nokuthi uyidinga kanjani futhi kanjani Ukwakha kabusha impilo yakho ukuze ube nesikhathi esanele nokuthuthuka kobuntu bami. Kwesinye isikhathi akulula ukuxazulula inkinga kanye nokubonisana ngochwepheshe kuyadingeka.