Indlela ephumelela kunazo zonke owesifazane uyindlela yokuthonya impilo yakho ukuqala ukuzithanda! Lapho owesifazane ezithanda, ukuhlwanyela kucula, uzizwa ukuzethemba, amandla, injabulo. Amadoda anaka ukunaka yonke indawo. Ngosuku, amadoda nawo anentshisekelo ebuntwini bakhe, hhayi nje umzimba. Lapho owesifazana uzithanda, udonsela umuntu "othandekayo" othandekayo. Imali eningi iza empilweni yakhe.
Isihloko sothando kuwe asidalulwanga kokukodwa. Futhi kunezikhathi lapho uchwepheshe kuphela ongasiza khona. Isibonelo, ukulimala kwezingane kungasebenza nge-psychotheratiatist.
Kepha sizokhuluma ngokubaluleke kakhulu.
USergey Nechaev
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Owesifazane uyeka ukuthandwa ngu:
1. Lapho uzama ukufana nabanye besifazane.
Kunezindinganiso ezamukelwe ngokuvamile zobuhle emphakathini, futhi eminyakeni ehlukile zihlukile! Isibonelo, izindebe zingukucaciswa, isibalo esincane noma uPapa njengaseKim Kardashian, amashiya ama-shadgy, njll. Futhi lona wesifazane uziqhathanisa njalo nomuntu emehlweni akhe angcono kakhulu kunaye. Futhi zikholisa ngokwakhe ukuthi akenzi kanjalo.
Okufanele ngikwenze:
Yekani ukuziqhathanisa nabanye besifazane. Isiza ongazibisi futhi uyeke impilo ye-heroine kusuka ku- "Instagram"! Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ama-70% kwi-Intanethi isithombe, futhi abesifazane abajabule esithombeni abasemanethiwekhi bavame ukungajabule empilweni.
Nquma ukuthi ufuna ukuba yiphi nokuthi baphile kanjani impilo. Kepha hhayi ngoba kuyimfashini futhi wonke umbuthano uyakwenza. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ukhona futhi lokhu ukukhetha kwakho!
2. Lapho kungakujabuleli lokho anakho futhi uyazi kanjani.
Ucabanga, ngokwesibonelo, ngiyidweba kahle, futhi eminye imibukiso ihlelwe. Eholidini ngihamba amahlandla ama-2 ngonyaka, kanti elinye izwe lethu livakashelwa njalo ngenyanga.
Okufanele ngikwenze:
Qala ukubona, ukwazisa nokuthuthukisa amathalente akho, ulwazi, amakhono, amandla. Buza ngabo kulabo abakwaziyo. Isibonelo, watshelwa abangane ukuthi unomdanso opholile noma ucule. Iya kumdanso noma ama-vocals. Futhi, okungenzeka, ukukuthola kukugqugquzela futhi ugcwalise ngemizwa emangalisayo.
Vikela imingcele yakho yangasese futhi ujwayele ukugcwala
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3. Uma kuvumela abanye abantu ukuba baphule imingcele yabo. Kuthinta kakhulu inani lowesifazane!
Isibonelo, indoda ingathatha ifoni yakhe. Noma uza mfowethu eza nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, hhayi isixwayiso. Noma abazali banikeze izeluleko zokuthi bangaphila kanjani kahle, futhi benze into enjalo.
Okufanele ngikwenze:
Qala ukukhombisa imingcele - lokhu kungukubonakaliswa kothando ngokwakho. Isibonelo, banqume ukuthi ngeke usakuba yindlu yangasese encane, ebihlanganiswe kuwe yonke impilo ebuhlungu futhi kufanele umlalele, futhi kwakushukunyiswe kabi futhi kwakushukunyiswe kakhulu.
4. Lapho owesifazane ephila indlela yokuphila lapho kunenjabulo encane futhi ejabule.
Lapho isebenza emsebenzini, lapho igula khona. Yize kungathola umsebenzi ozoletha injabulo, imizwa. Noma kucasulwa yimpahla yasekhaya, futhi futhi akushintshi lutho. Noma ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi zakudala, kwamenqanga ngezimbobo noma isikhathi eside kungazithobi ngezinto ezithile, angizitholi wena, njll.
Okufanele ngikwenze:
Qala ukunakekela umzimba wakho, uzithobe indawo yokugezela ngama-rose petals, okhilimu, njll.
Shintsha okuthile esimweni esikuzungezile. Alahle izinto ezindala.
Njengamanje bhala uhlu lwezifiso ezincane ezingama-20, ezingadingi izindleko eziphakeme, bese uqala ukuzisebenzisa.
Futhi ekugcineni kwalesi sihloko, khetha igxathu elincanyana lokuqala elizosabela kuwe futhi likwenze. Yenza kancane kancane ukunambitha futhi uthole injabulo nentokozo. Futhi uzobona abesifazane abahle, ukuthi konke kuzoqala kanjani ukuguquka!