Mhlawumbe, ngasinye ngezikhathi zesikole sathola ukuxhashazwa, futhi bekungadingekile kulowo ohlukumezekile, kepha umzuzwana ngamunye wawungumbukeli ongemthetho. Namuhla, cishe akukho lutho olushintshile, ngaphandle kwezindlela zokucindezela ziye zaba yinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe, ngomoya wesikhathi. Noma iyiphi ingane ingakwazi ukuwaphanga kwalabo afunda nabo, futhi abazali abazi njalo ngakho, yize kungekudala ukungqubuzana kwengane kuzovela nesikole. Yini okufanele yenze abazali esimweni esinzima kangaka? Sizamile ukuthola.
Ingxoxo ebalulekile
Cha, awudingi ukufundisa ingane ukuxazulula izingqinamba eziyinkimbinkimbi nontanga enamandla - lokhu kuyindlela yokulahlekelwa ngaphambi. Njengomthetho, izingane ezibhekiswe ngokuxhashazwa zihlupheka ngenxa yamamaki aphansi, zikholelwa ukuthi owonile wakhe ungcono kunaye. Emandleni akho, chazela ingane ukuthi zonke izingane esikoleni zinamalungelo afanayo, futhi ingcindezi ayilungile kunoma yiluphi uhlobo. Okubalulekile: Akudingekile nje ukuchaza ingane yamalungelo akhe kuphela, kodwa futhi ugxile eqinisweni lokuthi zonke izingane ziyalingana, ngakho-ke ingane yakho ayinalo ilungelo lokwesabisa futhi ngaphandle kwalo.
Ungavumeli ukusetshenziswa kwamandla
Ngeshwa, inani eliphakeme lezingane linethemba lokuthi kungenzeka ukufakazela ubuhle ngosizo lwezibha nezinhlelo zezinwele ezimphethele. Njengoba sishilo, le ndlela ngeke ixazulule inkinga, kepha izokhula kakhulu. Ngeshwa, abazali abaningi basekela isifiso sengane ukuba basebenzise amandla abhekene nabaphangi, kepha ingabe udinga izinkinga zokuphatha isikole kanye nabazali balezi zingane? Sicabanga, nakanjani. Uma amaqhinga akho okuxazulula isimo esinzima awenzi, ngesibindi aye esikoleni engxoxweni nothisha wekilasi futhi, mhlawumbe abazali bezingane "abagqoke amancane afunda nabo. Noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana kuxazululwa ngokuxoxisana.
Ingane akufanele yesabe ukuhlanganyela nezinkinga zakho
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Ingane akufanele yesabe
Enye isizathu esize senzeke senzelwa ngezinkinga zezingane sekwephuze kakhulu - ukwesaba kwabo kubika okuthile kubazali. Imvamisa ungezwa ukuthi abazali bagqugquzelwa kanjani izingane ezincane kakhulu: "Wenzani? Ima! " Noma izingxoxo ezinjalo zenzeka: "Usuvele ungumuntu osemdala, xazulula izinkinga zakho", "uzokhononda ngokuguga?" Akunzima ukuqagela ukuthi kunesiphi izingxoxo ezifanayo zengane: ziyavalwa nakho konke ahlala kuyo ukwamukela isimo, ngoba akakwazi ukuxazulula inkinga ngokuzimela. Isimo esihluke ngokuphelele sisemindenini, lapho kungokwesiko ukudingida zonke izinkinga futhi zisizane ngezikhathi ezinzima. Ungavumeli ingane yakho ukuthi yesabe ukuvuma okuthile.
Sifuna inkampani entsha
Njengoba sesisenaso isikhathi sokubona, izingane ezinokuzithemba okuphansi ziba yisisulu sokuxhamazela ngo-99% wamacala, bavame ukungabi nabangane nokuzilibazisa. Kunoma yimuphi umuntu, futhi ikakhulukazi okuncane kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ngemuva komhlane wakhe yiqembu elivela kubazali nakubangane abazonikeza izeluleko eziwusizo futhi ziyohlala zisekela. Izingane ezingaphansi kwengcindezi zincishwa lo muzwa. Zama ukuthola ukuthi ingane yakho ithanda ini, futhi ixoxe naye kanjani ukuthi afuna ukuyenza kanjani. Ingxenye yezemidlalo, iklabhu yezintshisekelo izokusiza ekutholeni abantu okufanayo emhlabeni, mhlawumbe lapha ukuthi ingane izothola abangane, futhi emuva okuthembekile kwabaqondayo kwayo kuzosiza ukuzethemba nokunikeza okuhle Qhathanisa umhlukumezi ekilasini.