Amaphupho asele anamandla amakhulu. Njengobudlelwano obungaqala futhi obungaqalanga, noma bavimba ithuba elibuhlungu. Njengendaba ngoRomeo noJuliet. Kwakudingeka kaningi ukufunda ama-entaba kuZingqikithi, okuzoba uma uRomeo noJuliet besashada. Kungenzeka ukuthi ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30 emshadweni, okuqothulayo futhi okuthukuthelisa uJuliet kwakuyophila ngokuhambisana no-Alimony ngo-Womannik. Kepha njengoba ukuqhubeka kungenzeki, kubhekwa njengokucabanga ngale ndaba umlando omuhle kakhulu wothando.
Cishe kwenzeka into efanayo uma umshado umakwe nesithonjana sesitayela, ngesithombe. Kuyinto eyodwa - ukumduduza kude, kucatshangelwa izithombe ezihlanganiswe ngokucophelela, futhi kuhluke ngokuphelele - ukuhlala ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa, zikuxazulule impilo yansuku zonke futhi zixazulule izimo ezingqubuzanayo. Futhi naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi iMadonna yomhlaba wonke iyinkanyezi yokunethezeka futhi ebanzi yazo zonke izizukulwane, i-Paris Hilton yomhlaba wonke iyindlela yowesifazane yezwe kanye nesitayela, futhi i-monica bellucci yisithonjana sowesifazane, impilo ikhombisa ukuthi amadoda ahamba Izinkanyezi ezinjalo ezimnandi.
U-Olga Krainov
Umbhangqwana ngamunye, noma ngabe kungumndeni ojwayelekile onambitheka ophakathi noma owaziwayo emhlabeni wonke wokushicilela umphakathi, ubuso ngezikhathi ezifanayo zokuphila emshadweni. Konke kudlula ezinkingeni, ngezikhathi zokupholisa, ngezikhathi zothando olunesiyaluyalu, ukuqonda nokuzwela okukhethekile noma ukufana nokunganakwa okubandayo. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kumbhangqwana ngamunye kunoma yiliphi izwe, kunoma yimuphi umndeni kukhona umthetho ofanayo: akukho lutho lwaphakade. Uma ufuna uthando nothando lwe-LA kuze kube phakade, kulo lonke impilo okudingeka yenze okuthile.
Ngiyakuthanda ukunikeza isibonelo ngensimu. Lapho uthenga indlu ngensimu enhle, imibhede yezimbali yezimbali eziqhakaza kahle futhi eziqhakaza kahle, bambalwa abantu abazokholelwa ukuthi esimweni esihle kangaka kuzoba khona kuze kube phakade. Umuntu ngamunye onengqondo uyakuqonda lokho ngokukugcina esimweni esifanayo, kuyadingeka imizamo. Futhi uma ungasebenzi, ama-roses azodla iphutha elithile, utshani buzokhipha izigaxa noma ophuzi ngaphandle komanyolo.
Kepha kungani kuvame ukuba ngabesifazane abashadayo futhi bajabule kakhulu ekuqaleni kobudlelwano, abakuqondi ukuthi ukuze lobu budlelwano bugcinwe buhle, bathembele futhi banothando, futhi kudingeka benze imizamo? Futhi kuthiwani uma, imizamo yabo, ingasebenzi, ngakho-ke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngokwayo, "ingadi enhle" izothatha ama-off, izoqala ukuwela phansi futhi izoqala ukuwela ekunakekelweni nokunakwa kokunakekelwa nokunakwa?
Umbhangqwana ngamunye, noma ngabe kungumndeni ojwayelekile onobukhulu obuphakathi noma odumile kuwo wonke umhlaba womphakathi, ubhekene nezikhathi ezifanayo zokuphila emshadweni
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Akukho lutho oluyenzeka luphela ngokwalo, kepha iqiniso lokuthi kithi liyabiza, umndeni kanye nobudlelwano budinga ukunakwa njalo. Labo abakhohlwa lento elula, ngeshwa, babhekene neqiniso lokuthi omunye umlingani angafuna ukuzwa le mizwa eqinile. Futhi manje akukhona nje ngamadoda afunda amantombazane amancane, abeletha umndeni, abeletha ingane ehlanganayo futhi enolwazi futhi ebhekene nentsha. Inkulumo nayo ihamba nabesifazane. Namuhla, kunezimo ezivame kakhulu lapho abesifazane abadala abavele bekhula izingane ngokuzumayo babone ukuthi umyeni uthanda ubhiya futhi kusofa uqobo. Futhi baya emaqeni athambekele kakhulu, abalalelisisa futhi abakhathalelayo, bashiya abayeni babo ukuba bazithukuthelise isofa elifanayo.
Ukunciphisa ubungozi bokuthuthuka okunjalo kwesimo, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ubuhlobo emndenini yilokho okudingayo ukunakekela. Kuyadingeka ukwengeza ngempelasonto ekhanyayo empilweni engenakufinyeleleka, okuhlangenwe nakho okuqinile, sebenza ekugcineni inkanuko, ukukhangana komunye nomunye, amandla okuxoxa nomunye, azwakale. Uma lokhu kungenziwa, ubuhlobo bushesha baba "muhle ngomakhelwane", bese kuthi noma yikuphi inhlansi ohlangothini lungaba ukuqhuma. Akunasidingo sokuletha lesi simo emndenini ukunciphisa ukukhathala. Ubuciko bawo wonke umuntu wesifazane njengoba unkosikazi ukuletha inzalo komunye nomunye, ukuheha kanye nentshisekelo komunye nomunye impilo yonke.
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