Isimo sakho sengqondo sokuphila sidluliselwa enganeni
Ngokuvamile kungenzeka ukuzwa ukuthi omama abasebasha bancoma ukuthi kungabi novalo ngangokunokwenzeka, ikakhulukazi uma ingane yabo isencelisiwe. Bekuneminyaka yobudala yonyaka ingane idluliselwa kuyo imizwa ngemizwa: Umbono, ukuthinta, ukuzwa, iphunga. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuhlangana okuyinhloko negama elithi "Umama" enganeni kungaba ngumuntu omamatheka lowesifazane omamatheka onuka ngobisi nenduduzo, kodwa njalo ecasukile futhi enezinyembezi emakhoneni amehlo. Uma uphupha ukubona ingane yakho ngokumamatheka okujabulisayo, bese kuqala ukubheka ohlangothini lwakho nobudlelwano emndenini phakathi kwabadala. Uthando lwakho oluhle, noluhle kakhulu emhlabeni jikelele, inhlonipho kanye nokuqonda okuhlangene kuzoba yisibonelo esihle enganeni, futhi kukubheke, uzokwakha imodeli yokuziphatha kwakhe nesimo sengqondo. Khombisa ingane kuphela uhlangothi oluqhakazile lobuhlobo bomzali: ukwanga, usho ukuthi uyamthanda, hug. Ukuthola noma yimiphi imibuzo, shiya nomyeni wami kuphela isikhashana uwedwa.
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Umuzwa wokuhlekisa ungumsizi othembekile
Omunye wabasizi abahle kakhulu wabazali umuzwa wokuhlekisa. Noma ingane ishayisa, imhlukumeza, akunasidingo sokuzisola kakhulu, abonise ukwethuka kwakhe kuye. Bheka ingane, uhambe ndawonye ukucinga "umgodi" emnyango ngeJamb noma ezinyaweni zetafula, elishaywa yingane. Ukumamatheka kwakho okuqotho nokunakekelwa okulinganiselwe kuzosiza ingane ukuba ifunde ukungazisoli ngawo ngenxa yama-trifles, ahleke ubunzima bempilo.
Ungamnciphise ingane ukuxhumana nontanga
Ingane kumele ibe nabangane. Ukuhlala wedwa endaweni evaliwe efulethini, ingane izizwa ilahliwe futhi ingadingeki, futhi i-careek yabazali eguqukayo yenza kube lula futhi incabele inkululeko. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ingane kuphela engakhula, ehlala ingajabuli, futhi into enhle angayenza ukukhwabanisa abazali bayo ngezintshisakalo zabo.
Ungamnciphise ingane ukuxhumana nontanga
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Ukuxhumana nontanga kuzofundisa ukucabanga okuzimele, ijubane lokusabela kanye nekhono lokuba seqenjini. Ngokwemvelo, ukuxhumana okunobungane kuzoqala ukuholela ekujabuleni.
Amaphutha - hhayi isizathu sokuphazamiseka
Khuluma nengane kalula, ungamthumbi. Noma yimuphi ohambweni angaqondakala futhi asebenze ngamaphutha. Konke kungaguqulwa kube ihlaya ukuze ingane iqonde ukuthi awuthukuthele. Isibonelo, uma uthole "i-dece", ungasho ukuthi: "Kwenzekani! Ukufisa okuncane, futhi uzokulungisa kalula! " Ukuzizwa ukwesekwa kwakho, ingane izomomotheka, futhi ingesaba ukusabela kwakho. Uyothembeka kuwe, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, wafunda ukunqoba ubunzima, uzizwe ukwesekwa kwakho. Kuzobamba ukubukeka okuhle empilweni.