Imvamisa abazali abaqondi ukuthi yini ehlelela ingane ngokulahleka kohlule. Yize kunjalo, kubonakala kubo ukuthi into esemqoka kule mpilo ingumuntu olungile. Futhi iqiniso lithi ngokuphambene nalokho: Knock ukuphuma kubantu futhi usinde abanamandla. Futhi akudingekile ukuthi umuntu oqinile alimaze izinja, alethe umkakhe ekuqhekekeni kwemizwa futhi amemeze amabanga angaphansi - lokhu, nje, iningi labantu ababuthakathaka. Kuyadabukisa ukuthi ukwesaba akuyona ukuphela kwento edluliselwa kubazali. Abangu-5 abaphezulu bamukelwa ezimfanelweni eziphezulu, ezizovimbela ingane ukuba ihlale empilweni.
"Kuhle buthule futhi ungaholeli ku-"
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sifundiswa ukuphakamisa isandla sakho, simshukumisele imizuzu embalwa, kanti uthisha ekhetha impendulo, futhi kuphela aveze umbono wakhe. Ngakho-ke, kusukela eminyakeni emincane, ingane ivame ukuthatha isinyathelo senkomba yomuntu othile kuphela. Ngenkathi ingakwakheki imizuzu engu-10-16 ukuthi ibambe iqhaza kwesehlakalo sokudala noma ungayeki izincomo ezisekhanda ziye ekhanda, ngeke inqume ukuveza umsebenzi wakhe enkantolo evamile. Uba umuntu omdala, uyaqhubeka nomugqa kusukela ebuntwaneni - igama elide ngeke atshele umphathi, ngeke anikele ngephrojekthi entsha ethembisayo futhi angalokothi atshele abazali ukuthi esikhundleni sehhovisi lesihle, ngithanda ukwenza endaweni enkulu nge isiginci se-rock. Khumbula: Ungalokothi ugxeke ingane ngombono oveziwe, makaphikise konke okuzungezile. Hhayi njalo abantu abadala belungile - imvamisa izingane zihlakaniphe kunathi, zaxosha uhlaka lwezenhlalo. Yiba ukwesekwa okuyinhloko nokuxhaswa kwabantwana, noma yini eyenzekayo.
kudingeka wenze lokho okufunayo ngempela
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"Unenhlanhla, unabazali abacebile ..."
Ubuphofu ukufakwa kwengqondo nakanjani. Uma usakholelwa ekutheni izingane ezivela emindenini ecebile zigcotshwe ukuhlolwa, emanyuvesi aphezulu kanye nezinkampani ezihlonishwayo zithatha kuphela indwangu kanye nendima "yomuntu ojwayelekile" lapho - ivula i-Intanethi ngokuphuthumayo lapho - ivula i-Intanethi ngokuphuthumayo. Uyomangala ukuthi mangaki ama-minaice avela emindenini ejwayelekile. I-Charisma, ukusebenza kanzima, ingqondo eguquguqukayo nokulungela ubungozi - yilokhu okuhlukanisa laba bantu. Futhi ingane yakho ayimbi kakhulu kunabo: Mxhase isifiso sokufunda, ukuhlinzeka isimo esimnandi ngokomzwelo endlini.
"Hhayi-ke, umbheka!"
Ukugxeka abantu emhlabeni wanamuhla - I-MoveTona. Isikhundla esinempilo ngokwengeziwe ukwamukela ukuthi abanye behlukahluka kuwe futhi abaphoqelekile ukuba baphile ngokwemithetho yakho yokuziphatha. Ingxoxo yokugqoka komunye umuntu, ukuziphatha esidlangalaleni, indlela yokuphatha impilo yebhizinisi neyomuntu - bonke laba bantu bahlanganyela ngqo. Emindenini, lapho kwamukelwa khona ukusebenza kakhulu futhi kuqonda ukuthi yimiphi indlela umphumela owufanelekile, futhi imicabango ngeke ivele ekuthukeni okuthile okutholile okuthile.
"Izikhathi eziyisikhombisa zisikeke kanye"
Kukangaki utshele ingane, yini okudingeka uyiqaphele - ngaphezu kwenkulungwane? Ingane yakho inobuchopho kanye nobuchopho bokuzivikela okunikezwe yena ngokwemvelo. Ngokwesaba, noma ngabe wayengeke akwenze kanjani i-abrasion noma ayizange ibe ngcolile, ubeka okulahlekelwe okucacile kuyo. Ayikho iphrojekthi ephumelelayo eqale emzameni wokuqala - indlela yanoma yimuphi umuntu ovelele ifana nelayini ephukile, futhi ayikhuphuki ngokushesha phezulu. Kumele abeke engcupheni futhi ephumeleli ukugcwalisa izigaxa zakhe futhi afunde emaphutheni akhe - ungakuthathi lesi sipiliyoni esibalulekile.
ube muhle wonke umuntu - akupholile
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"Manje Ungumfana Omuhle!"
Susa igama elithi "okuhle" ngokumelene nengane kusuka ku-lexicon. Akunakwenzeka ukuba kuhle kuwo wonke umuntu: Ngokuzayo ngeke kusacasulwa ngabantu. Le ntombazane izophatheka kabi ngenxa yokuthi uzothatha isinqumo sokuyihlukanisa nayo, abafakizicelo ngesikhundla esifanayo bayothukuthela bathukuthele ukuthi bayikhethile, kodwa hhayi yabo - lezi zibonelo zenombolo engapheli. Futhi ucabanga ukuthi kwalaba bantu ingane yakho izoba ngumuntu olungile? Vele akunjalo. Ngakho-ke kungani ubeka imodeli yokuziphatha kusukela kukonakalisayo kokonakalisayo, lapho impilo yakhe izokwakhiwa khona ukuze ingacasuli abanye. Myeke kangcono acabange ukuthi afuna ukuphila kanjani, imiphi imizwa ahlangabezana nayo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ayavumelana neqiniso lokuthi empeleni angathanda ukuzizwa. Ukuzinakekela akuyona i-egoism, kepha isimo esidingekayo sokuphila.
Yimaphi ala maphutha owenzile? Yini engengeza uhlu? Bhala umbono wakho kumazwana, noma ngabe awuvumelani nombhali.