Odokotela banomthetho wamahlaya "wamacala abhangqiwe", nokho nakanjani kusebenza ekusebenzeni. Uthole i-pathology - bheka okwesibili.
Futhi ekusebenzeni kwengqondo, kusebenza ngenye indlela. Iklayenti lafika, laletha le nkinga - futhi phambili, njengaseqoqweni, lokhu kuzokwembulwa ngalokhu. Akunjalo kudala, ensimini yami yokusebenza kwakukhona isihloko esibizwa nge- "Sofa Moun", okusho ukuthi yisikhathi sokuchaza.
Ngalesi, abesifazane beza, baphumelele emisebenzini yabo eyabeletha izingane. Izinto ezibonakalayo, izici zempahla yokuphila komndeni kuzo. Ngaphezu kwalokho - imibuzo ehlelekile mayelana nokukhuliswa kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwezingane: ukuthi ungasifunda kuphi futhi kanjani ukuthi ungakha uhlelo (lokuxhumana nengane, kuvame ukungabi nanele ezinsizakalweni), lapho ungathenga khona amafulethi lapho ungaya khona phumula. Abesilisa ekhaya: benza okuthile emndenini, baya emiyalweni yonkosikazi endaweni ethile, landela isizukulwane esidala, upake imoto egalaji. Uma kukhona izingane, bese ubasiza. Futhi lokho konke. Hlala ekhaya, imali eningi ayiceli izidingo zabo futhi ingaphuli ndawo ekhaya.
Ngokuvamile, lesi simo sifanelana wonke amaqembu kwelinye iphuzu lenhlekelele. Kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nokusongela kokulahlekelwa yimpilo ye-cormal. Ngemuva kwalokho i-avalanche yavinjwa amadoda, kwesinye isikhathi amashumi eminyaka, yawa emadodeni "ethule", kwesinye isikhathi anezinqwaba zeminyaka.
Nazi izinto ezimbalwa ezazidingeka ngazo ukubhekana nazo lapho zisebenza nalezi zimo.
1. Izinga lesistimu. Uma ubheka ezizukulwaneni ezimbalwa ezedlule kule mikhandlu, ungathola elahlekile phakathi neminyaka yempi, kanye nokucindezelwa, ukudluliselwa kwamandla nokuningikula ekujuleni komlando, izindaba ezithi amadoda anyamalala kanjani. Babulawa kanjani, bacindezelwa, batshalwa, badutshulwa. Emkhumbulweni womndeni uhlala usekhaya - buthaka kuphela, unamanzi, hhayi noma yikuphi lapho abafana. Ngomqondo othile, ukukhubazeka akusikho kuphela ngokomzimba, kodwa futhi nokulahlekelwa yintando yempilo ekhonjisiwe kungavikeleki ngokulahleka komndeni. Ungazisindisa futhi uvikele umndeni ngosizi esikhathini sethu ngokuthi "ukwehluleka" ngokufuna umsebenzi noma ezimpandeni zebhizinisi.
2. Konke kunjengokuhlala ... "kuphumula" kumama. Iningi labesifazane elinesimo somndeni esinjalo, ngombuzo onemininingwane, kuvela ukuthi omama ebuntwaneni babo bebengenjalo, noma bebengakubi kakhulu / bengafinyeleleki / bebucayi / bajezisa futhi babanda. Ngomqondo othile, eseyingane, abesifazane abanjalo, umqondo we- "House" akuyona indawo efudumele neyasemuva. Bakhumbula ngentshiseko ngentshiseko, izintaba, uthando lwabafundi afunda nabo kunezihlwa zemindeni zasekhaya. Manje umyeni akayona ukusebenza, kepha ngokusho kobukhona, unxephezela umama "ofudumele" no "ezingabizi". Ngasikhathi sinye, angakwazi ngisho nokwazi umkhwenyana, aphile nezintshisekelo zakhe futhi abe yisihluku kakhulu. Iphuzu alikho endleleni yokuphila, kepha ngokuxhumana nalo, lapho umndeni usekhaya.
3. Kulokhu kulandela okunye ukubonwa. Ukungabikho kwabesilisa abanjalo ekhaya kubakhanyisa kubo bonke ubuhlobo babafazi abaphumelele embusweni osondelene necala lokuphelelwa yisikhathi. Konke ukukhathazeka, zonke izimangalo nokugxekwa, namanje uqamba umyeni wakhe, ngoba ukungabikho kwento kuhlale nomthwali wayo, okungukuthi, nowesifazane. Emehlweni, ulahlekelwa amandla abo futhi awe phansi kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, lapho engeyena umholi, "umlilo" futhi onke lapha uzoyala. " Kunamuhla, kunesizungu, kunesizungu futhi kunezimpawu zokungasizakali okufundile, okungukuthi, izifundazwe lapho singaboni iphuzu lokufuna usizo, ngoba uma sebehlangabezane nokwenqaba futhi bazinikele.
Ungaba kanjani nayo?
Kumazinga ngakunye - isixazululo saso ngisho nezindlela zazo. Into esemqoka ukuqonda ukuthi zonke lezi zindlela azihloselwe iqiniso lokuthi umyeni uyavuka esofweni futhi waya emsebenzini.
Esimweni sokuqala, umsebenzi wethu ukubona ukuthi amakhasimende enza inkumbulo ejwayelekile yokuhlukanisa ngamadoda athi "aqinile" anquma lesi sihloko somndeni ngosizo lwamandla okunika amandla amandla owesilisa.
Esimweni sesibili, imibuzo nomama ingcono ukuxazulula, kunokuba ihlehlise inzuzo ... Izindlela zalokhu azisacatshangelwa, mhlawumbe.
Esimweni sesithathu, umsebenzi weklayenti ukuzabela imicabango ecindezelayo kanye nezifundazwe ezahlukaniswa ngaphambi kwe- 'Sofa Moun ". Nikeza futhi unikeze indlela yangempela yokuphuma kulokhu empilweni yakho.
Izindlela Zobunzima, kodwa ukuze zibabone, okokuqala unesifiso sezimpawu ezinjalo zomndeni, njengase-Anecdote edumile: "- Othandekayo, ekuphileni udinga izinguquko ezibukhali! - Yini, uqamba amanga ku-TV futhi uzobheka usofa? ".
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin