Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sinenkolelo: "Uthando ngokwakho lulingana nobuciko." Ngikhumbula ukuthi kwelinye lamaholide, isihlobo esitshelwa kanjani ngokuvamile nomama futhi saphonsa ngokulandelana: "O, uthanda kakhulu" ...
Futhi khumbula, kwakukhona ikhathuni "Chatten 13", futhi kwakukhona ibinzana elinjalo: "Zithande, nimhlwile kuwo wonke umuntu, futhi uphumelele?"? Kwabonakala kimi kuyahlekisa futhi kuyahlekisa. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uHericent akaluleki.
Lokho wukuthi, uthando ngaye lwethulwa njengokuntuleka okuthile, cishe isono. Futhi ngisakholelwa namanje bekungalungile nje kuphela ukuhlala ku-ror kuye, kodwa futhi nginconywe.
Kodwa-ke, ngokoqobo eminyakeni yamuva nje, imibono yokuhlonipha ngokwayo ikhona ngokugcwele empilweni yethu. Ngenhlanhla, abantu baqala ukwenza umehluko phakathi kwemiqondo ye-egoism, indlela yokuziphatha ebhubhisayo neyingozi, futhi evuthiwe uthando ngemizwa yabo, umzimba, izintshisekelo, imicabango, izifiso namaphupho. Le yindlela yentuthuko. Imibono emisha izalwe othandweni, ukubuka konke komhlaba kuyashintsha. Ukuziqonda kukhula othandweni, uhlelo lwenani luyakhiwa kabusha.
Uthando ngokwakho aludingi ukudideka nangokucacile, umfowabo omncane we-egoism. Kuyafaneleka ukuhlukanisa uthando nangokutimelela ubuthakathaka babo. "Manje yini lo muzwa ?!" - Uyabuza.
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Ukuzithanda - kusho ukuqonda nokuthatha izifiso zethu, hhayi ukuhlehlisa impilo ngenxa yakusasa, ungazihlanekezeli ngezinkumbulo zakudala. Lokhu kusho - hhayi ukufaka ubuthi umona wakho, ububi noma ukuthukwa. Lokhu kusho - amandla okuyeka kalula kokubi, ngaphandle kokucwilisa umbuthano omubi wemizwa ebhubhisayo.
Ukuzithanda ngokwakho ukuzikhulisa njalo emzimbeni nangokomoya: ukuze ulondoloze impilo ngosizo lokuqeqeshwa, kulula ukuyidla, ukuqeda imikhuba ebhubhisayo, ngesikhathi sokuqiniseka kodokotela; Funda okuthile okusha, phakamisa iziqu, ufunde, ukuxhumana nabantu abathakazelayo.
Uthando ngokwakho ukukhetha okufanelekile kwezindawo ezikuzungezile. Leli yikhono lokubeka abantu anobuthi kanye nama-vampires angugesi. Lapho sizithanda, asivumeli abanye ukuba bephule isikhala sethu ngokubi kwethu.
Uthando ngokwakho impilo ebudlelwaneni obulinganayo nabalingani. Lokhu akuyona ukuvumela i-symbiosis enobudlelwano ngokubambisana, ukudonsa zombili izinhlangothi ezansi, futhi ziphile futhi zithuthukise kanye nomuntu okufanele. Ngenxa yale nyunyana, uthando oluhambisanayo nothando lwawo wonke umuntu kubo uqobo luzolungiswa.
Thatha futhi uzihloniphe - Lesi yisisekelo sentuthuko yomuntu siqu.
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"Hhayi-ke, yini lezi zindaba ?! - Uyabuza. - Ngakho-ke, kuyavela, impilo yonke imayelana nothando ngokwakho ?! Kuthiwani ngomhlatshelo, isihe, ukunakekelwa? Akuyona yonke into ephumule ngokwamukelwa kwakho kanye nezintshisakalo zabo! Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele wenze isinqumo esivumelana nabanye abantu kunawe! "
Ukubonakaliswa kothando kumakhelwane kuyinto, ngokungangabazeki kubalulekile. Lona omunye wemiyalo ebaluleke kakhulu yobuKristu. Kepha khumbula: "Thanda umakhelwane wakho, njengawe." Lokhu kusho - okokuqala kudingeka uhloniphe izixazululo zakho, ukukhetha kwakho, indlela yakho. Uma ukhetha umgwaqo wesihe, nakuwe uzizwa ujabule, hamba nayo! Ukunakekela abanye abantu nokuthola injabulo eqotho kulokhu, awukhombisi uthando? Ngaphandle kokuthi, ukunika izingane zakho uthando, awuzizwa uziqhenya ngokuthula ngakho konke ukunqoba okuncane? Akuwona yini ubufakazi bothando ngokwakho?
Uthando lomhlaba luqala ngothando. Uma ukwazisa njengomuntu njengendalo eyingqayizivele, eyingqayizivele enezifiso ezinhle namaphupho ... Uma ulalela izwi lenhliziyo yakho futhi umlandele ... Uma umphefumulo wakho ungabikwa yi-ulaka, umona noma ukulangazelela, khona-ke Ubheka umhlaba ngendlela ehlukile ngokuphelele. Impilo ayisekho okubonakala sengathi iyi-whirlpool ekhangayo, igcina ukumunca. Ngokuphambene nalokho! Sizithanda, kubonakala ngathi sibona umhlaba futhi, sivula wonke amathuba amasha namasha okubonakaliswa kothando ngathi.