Vele, noma yikuphi ukuxhumana okusondelene kumele kwenzeke ngesicelo somuntu ngamunye obambe iqhaza, kepha kwenzeka ukuthi sekuvele ngesikhathi senqubo, izikhathi ezingezinhle zicacisiwe, ezingase zingabizi nje esifisweni, kodwa futhi zingenza nje zilimaze ngomunye wabalingani. Imvamisa, abesifazane babhekana nokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle, ngoba ngisho nasesimweni esingalindelekile akulula ukubhekana nendoda. Ngakho-ke lokho okubonakaliswa kufanele kumiswe lapho nje uqala ukuzizwa ungakhululekile? Sizamile ukuthola.
Awuyena inkosi
Iningi labesilisa lizibophezele emandleni, hhayi kuphela ku-Professional Sphere, kodwa futhi embhedeni. Ngomkhawulo ofanele ukukhathazeka ngokuthi yini, isifiso esingalawulwa sokudla nokucindezela kungathinta kabi induduzo emzimbeni nengokomoya yowesifazane. Njengomthetho, ukwamukela amandla nje ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokuthatha umhlalaphansi - le ndoda ihlala ingukuqala, ayibekezeleli noma yikuphi ukuphikisa futhi ibhekana nobudlova kakhulu ekugxekeni, ngisho nokwakha. Ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ake siqonde ukuthi awukushayi muntu wokuphoqelela futhi ikakhulukazi udlame oluvela kwakhe.
Ungenzi lutho ngokumelene nentando yakho
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Awunalo ilungelo lokungithuka
Iqiniso elaziwayo - abantu abafanele abakho, ngisho naphakathi kosaziwayo. Futhi nokho kunamadoda azibona ngokwakhe ama-aesthetes amahle kakhulu nobuhle. Umlingani onjalo ongaphezu kwawo kanye ukusikisela kokukhuluphala ngokweqile, amaphutha athile angaphandle futhi azowathanda obala abanye besifazane, ebabeka njengesibonelo. Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi okuthile kuzoshintsha embhedeni? Yebo akukaze. Udinga isikhundla esicacile - ngeke ubekezelele imibono ngokubukeka kwakho noma umlingiswa wakho, ecaleni elibi kakhulu, indoda enjalo efanelekile ingasesha owesifazane oyedwa ofanele, kungani kudingeka ulahlekelwe isikhathi naye.
Ngeke sihlanganyele ocansini olungavikelekile
Isimo esafika ngaso sonke isikhathi sowesifazane wesibili. Vele, noma yimuphi umuntu uzokhombisa intshisekelo enkulu ngokusondela 'ngaphandle kwezingqinamba', kodwa empeleni, kuzosasebenzisa ithuba lokuvikelwa uma ebalulekile empilweni kanye neyakhe. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi ukuhambisa izinto eziyisisekelo kumlingani ojabulayo kumane nje akunakwenzeka, futhi njengamanje akufanele ukhombise ubuthakathaka - ngaphandle kwakho akekho ozonakekela impilo yakho, ikakhulukazi uma ungajwayelekile . Beka isimo esinokhahlo, indoda eyanele izohlala iqonda futhi ithatha isikhundla sakho.