Abaningi babona amanethiwekhi omphakathi njengezokuzijabulisa: uhleli emgqeni wedokotela noma uya emgwaqweni ongaphansi komhlaba futhi uxubha itheyiphu. Kwesinye isikhathi uthumela okuthile okungaphakulile kakhulu, kepha kuyakuthakazelisa. Ngokuyinhloko, kulokhu okuthunyelwe kwabaningi bethu futhi kukhawulelwe uma singayenzi ibhulogi lobuchwepheshe. Kodwa-ke, le ndlela yokuxhumana nabantu ingadlala ihlaya nawe, njengoba abaqashi abaningi bangakuthola kalula futhi bahambe ngempumelelo inhlolokhono ngeke bakusindise ngombono wokuthi umqashi azothola ngemuva kokufunda isitatimende sakho esibukhali esihlokweni esibuhlungu. Okufanayo kusebenza ku-vele ukusebenza ngenkuthalo - ungahlala "uhlole" kunoma iyiphi inethiwekhi yokuxhumana nomphakathi. Mayelana naziphi izihloko ezingcono ukungakhulumi kabi kakhulu, sanquma ukukhuluma.
Ukumamatheka nokugawula
Namuhla sitshelwa ukuthi siveza ngokukhululekile imicabango yethu - lokho okufanele sikwenze cishe nsuku zonke. Ngokwengxenye, kunjalo, abanye baqonda lo cingo ngokweqiniso, futhi bangakwazi ukungakwazi ukukhuluma ngezinkinga ezithile, kodwa futhi kunzima kakhulu ukugxeka abantu, izinkampani kanye nanoma yiziphi izimo ezenzeka nsuku zonke. Iyingozi ikakhulukazi ekugxekeni izinkampani ezisensimini yakho yobungcweti - owaziyo ukuthi kwenzekani kulo nyaka, kungadingeka ukuthi ubhekane nale nhlangano noma ufike lapho ukuze usebenze. Futhi lapha umqashi angakukhumbuza ngokuthunyelwe okuthukuthele ngisho nomkhawulo waminyaka yonke. Ungabeki engcupheni.
Bukela ukuthumela kunethiwekhi
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Ungawuthandi umsebenzi? Ungagijimeli ukucasuka enkundleni yokuxhumana nabantu
Ukugxekwa okubi kakhulu komqashi ongaba khona kungaba ukugxekwa kwamanje. Futhi, sibuyela embuzweni wokuthi ngabe ozakwethu kanye nozakwabo babukele amanethiwekhi wethu wokuxhumana nomphakathi. Hhayi njalo, kepha imvamisa ngisho nokubhalisela ukungalahli i-akhawunti yakho. Sifunda ukuhlala ngamaqiniso amabili ngokushesha, yingakho kungafanele uphenduke uMnu Heyd ngokushesha nje lapho ufaka iphasiwedi ye-akhawunti yakho - Namathela kulayini owodwa wokuziphatha empilweni nakunethiwekhi, khumbula ukuthi imininingwane evela kwi-Intanethi ayisebenzi anyamalale.
Gcina ibanga
Le nto iphathelene nabaqeqeshiwe emkhakheni wezemfundo nabantu abasebenza nezingane. Kungani ngqo nezingane? Yebo, ngoba izingane zichitha isikhathi esikhulu kunethiwekhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ukushicilelwa kwezithombe zezingane, noma ngabe imvume yazo iyimzuzu ophikisayo. Awusoze wazi ukuthi abazali bazosabela kanjani okwakho, ekuqaleni, ukuxhumana ngengozi ngokuphelele nezingane (hhayi izingane kuphela ezihlala kwinethiwekhi, kodwa futhi nabazali bazo). Kunamacala lapho omama nobaba bephakamisa igagasi langempela lenzondo ngokumelene nomfundisi noma umfundisi, owayezivumela ukuba kube nokukhulumisana okulula nengane (ngokwemvelo, ngaphakathi kohlaka lokuhlonishwa). Noma ngabe yikuphi okujwayelekile okunabafundi babo abengekho, zama ukugcina ibanga.
Imiphi imithetho?
Ngaphambi kokufinyelela usuku lwakho lokuqala lokusebenza, chitha isikhathi esithile esifundweni semithetho yangaphakathi yenkampani. Cishe akekho owenza lokhu, futhi ngeze. Namuhla, izinkampani eziningi zifaka imithetho ekusetshenzisweni kwabasebenzi bezomphakathi, ngoba izindaba eziningi zangaphakathi zenkampani akufanele zifike engxoxweni kahulumeni. Kanye nezinkundla zokuxhumana, njengoba sazi, kudalula izandla kwabaningi. Qaphela.