Owayengumyeni wakhe wakudala u-Olga Buzova Dmitry Tarasov isikhathi eside usenqabile imininingwane isikhathi eside, kube sengathi yena ngokwakhe akafuni ukuxhumana nendodakazi yakhe emshadweni wokuqala no-Okana Osinkina. Umdlali webhola uqinisekisa ukuthi umama kamama uvimbela imihlangano yawo nengane. Kodwa-ke, abalandeli basingatha ngamazwi omsubathi, nayo yonke le nto ku-Dmitry Anastasia Kostenko: intombazane ngefomu elibukhali lakhuluma kumazwana kokunye kokuthunyelwe.
UKostenko uthe: UDmitry waqala ukuzwakala njengoyise ngemuva kwendodakazi yakhe evamile ezandleni zakhe. Abalandeli boMdlali webhola bangene engxoxweni emazwini, elalithukuthele kakhulu u-Anastasia futhi waqala ukuphendula ngolaka. Ngokuqondene noTarasova uqobo, akazange aphendule amadiphozithi kaKestenko.
Imibhangqwana eminingi enemishado, isehlukaniso nezingane ibhekene nenkinga efanayo - omunye wabalingani uqala umhawu esikhathini esedlule.
Uma ungaphula ubudlelwano nomlingani, khona-ke izingane zihlala nomuntu wokuphila, noma ngabe ziphila ndawonye. Kodwa-ke, ukuba khona kwezingane kusuka ebudlelwaneni obudlule kungenzeka kungahlele umlingani wamanje, futhi yingakho.
"Usathanda okwedlule"
Lapho indoda ifika emndenini omusha 'nomthwalo' ngesimo sezingane evela kowesifazane owedlule, umfazi wangempela uqala ukuhlanelisa ngomcabango: "Uma eya emihlanganweni nengane, kusho ukuthi iyaphindisela emuva. " Umcabango onjalo ungafaka ubuthi impilo yonke ehlanganayo.
Ukuze ungazilayishi, vele uzibuze: "Uma ethanda okwedlule, kungani enami?" Ukuqwashisa ukuthi indoda inawe ngoba ikuthanda, ingasiza kakhulu. Khombisa ukuphana futhi ungavimbi le mihlangano: Indoda izokwazisa ukuqonda kwakho.
"Uyayithanda ingane kunami"
Abazali abaningi batshela izingane emishadweni edlule, naphezu kobudlelwano obusha, bayohlala beyithanda indodana noma indodakazi yakhe ngaphezulu. Abalingani babo ababeyizingane abavela emishadweni edlule futhi babhekane nomndeni omusha kababa noma umama, kungenzeka ukuthi bake bezwa ibinzana elinjalo kaninginingi. Uma lokhu kusebenza kuwe, futhi manje awukwazi ukuqeda umcabango wokuthi umlingani uhambe ngempelasonto ezohlangana nengane ukumtshela ukuthi le nkulumo embi kuwe, vele ucabange ngeqiniso lokuthi abantu abadala bavame ukuhlobisa isimo ukuze Ingane ayinakho ukungakhululeki.
"Ingane yakhe iyimbangela yokusebenzisa amandla majeure"
Uqoqele ikhonsathi, kepha lapha unkosikazi wangaphambilini ubiza futhi uthi udinga ukushiya ngokushesha, kodwa ukushiya ingane kungekho muntu. Ngokwemvelo, wonke amacebo akho ayashesha. Isimo sijwayelekile futhi kwesinye isikhathi udinga ukwenza imvumelwano, kepha uma isimo siphindwa ngezikhathi ezithile, kusobala ukuthi okwedlule akufuni ukushiya umngane wakho owabaleka wodwa. Ingane ayilutho lapha. Khuluma nomyeni wami, chaza ukuthi usibona kanjani lesi simo, makamvuse, uzohlanganyela imicabango yakhe kulokhu. Ngokubambisana kufanele uthole isisombululo.