Ukuzalwa kwengane kungenye yezisombululo ezibhekele kakhulu ezimpilweni zethu. Ngeshwa, abazali besikhathi esizayo esizayo bahlobene nale nkinga ngakho konke ukungathí sina, bancamela ukuxazulula izinkinga njengoba befika. Kusukela lapha kuvame ukuqala izinkinga ezinkulu ku-pair. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi yimiphi imibuzo ebalulekile ukuphendula umzali onokwethenjelwa ngaphambi kokuhlela ukukhulelwa.
Ingabe unayo ithuba lezezimali lokugcina ingane
Abesifazane abaningi bezwakala ezintanjeni nasezihlotsheni zesizukulwane esidala: "Hhayi-ke, ngaphambi kokuzala okuthile, futhi akukho lutho!" Esimweni esinjalo, umfazi okhathaza uhlangothi lwezezimali lombuzo, uqala ukuzwa umuzwa wangempela wehlazo - impela, wonke umuntu wabeletha, futhi ucabanga ngemali. Vimbela imicabango efanayo. Umhlaba kanye nesimo sezomnotho kushintshe kakhulu kangangokuba kuhlelwe ukuhlela cishe zonke izinyathelo, ikakhulukazi esimweni sezingane. Xoxa nomlingani wakho uma unganikeza ingane ngaphandle kwezisulu zayo.
Ingane ithatha amandla amaningi
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Uzoyinakekela kanjani ingane
Kubukeka sengathi impendulo iyi-Elementary - Yiqiniso, Mama! Kepha ungagijimeli. Linganisa umndeni wakho ngokwahlukana kweminye imindeni ethola okuningi embhadweni wakho, owayengakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe nengane. Imvamisa, obaba baba ngokwanele, kepha akekho noyedwa okhansele ukubamba iqhaza kukamama. Kwenzeka lapho umzali oyedwa engabheka khona, futhi nakhu kufanelekile ukucabanga ngesimemo sikaNanny. Kubalulekile ukuhlola amakhono akho - zombili zezezimali nezengqondo - kusengaphambili.
Kuzokwenzekani ngomsebenzi wakho
Cishe umbuzo ongathandeki kakhulu, ikakhulukazi owesifazane owaya eposini iminyaka eminingi. Kuyiqiniso, namuhla sibona izibonelo eziningi lapho amabhizinisi aphumelelayo ehlanganisa i-laptop ngesikhombi, kepha hhayi wonke umuntu wesifazane okwazi impilo ephindwe kabili - umsebenzi osezingeni eliphakeme nokunakekelwa kwengane thatha inani elimangalisayo lamabutho. Imvamisa kufanele ukhethe okuthile. Ingabe usukulungele ukuzinikela okunjalo?
Unjani ngokomthetho ngezingane
Umbuzo ongabonakali, kepha nokho kubaluleke kakhulu. Kubukeka ngathi ukuthi noma izingane zicasulayo, ngokuqinisekile zizokwehluka. Cha, zonke izingane ziyefana, ngeke ukwazi ukuguqula ingane ngokwakho, kunalokho, kuzofanele uguqule impilo yakho kanye nomlingiswa wakho ngaphansi kwelungu lomndeni elisha. Kungakufanele futhi cabanga ngokucophelela okwamanje njengoba umlingani wakho elungele ushintsho olubukhali kangako kulowo mphefumulo jikelele.