Isilinganiso sobudala kwesinye isikhathi sibonwa njengesici esithile sokwehlukanisa nentsha 'nesiphithiphithi' esikholweni saso esihle kunazo zonke, kusukela kwabadala, sihlangana nokudumazeka nezinkinga eziningi. Kubukeka sengathi akusikho kuphela isikhathi esihamba, kodwa futhi nekhono lokuphatha impilo yakho. Kuba yisizathu sokuphuma kobuntu obuningi. Kungenzeka yini ukuthatha ukulawula kwalokhu kwesaba futhi uphinde uthole injabulo yempilo eminyakeni yobudala?
Ubudala - ngokwabo ukulimala okungukulimala kwabesifazane abaningi. Omncane muhle, akungabazeki. Kepha ukuze uqonde ukuthi akukho okuhle okungasekuvuthwe ukuvuthwa, kuyadingeka ngaso leso sikhathi kanye namandla amaningi. Ukuboniswa esibukweni kuqala ukwesabisa, futhi imboni yobuhle inikezela ngamathuba amakhulu okugcina ubuhle bangaphambili. Sibopha ukuxoshwa ngemuva kwentsha ekhulayo, kepha udinga ukuqonda ukuthi lo mjaho ungaphumelela ngandlela thile - ukuthatha iminyaka yakho. Akunakwenzeka ukuqonda inani lakho ukubona ubuhle bakho kuze kube yilapho siphika isibonakaliso esibukweni.
Ukwesaba ukuguga kuhlangene ngokuqinile nokwesaba isizungu. Njengokungathi singaziqhenyi ngenkululeko yethu kanye nokuzimela, kube sengathi asifinyelelanga, esikhathini esithile siqala ukwesaba ukuhlala ngedwa. Akuyona imfihlo yokuthi emphakathini wethu ungowesifazane oneminyaka ephakathi nendawo, ngaphansi kwemithwalo yesipiliyoni esiqoqiwe nokuzigxeka, kancane kancane ukuba "akubonakali" kubobulili obuhlukile. Lokhu akulungile kakhulu, ngoba iminyaka esezingeni eliphakathi yisikhathi sokutholwa ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba hhayi kubantu, kodwa nakwabesifazane. Lokhu kungubudala nje lapho sesivele sazi ukuthanda nokuqonda inani lobudlelwano.
Isazi sezengqondo Ekaterina zdan
Olunye ukwesaba okuqinile okufezekisa nge-Middle Age kungukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi noma ukwenza umsebenzi. Esidala siba, kube nzima kungashintsha indawo yomsebenzi, noma ngabe ingashiyi. Yize lokhu kwenqatshelwe ngokuqondile ngumthetho, abaqashi abaningi abanamahloni okucacisa izimfanelo ezihlobene nobudala kubafakizicelo, futhi lokhu ngeke kusabisa uma sicabanga ukuthi kuzokwenzekani uma kufanele kudingeke ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngomthombo omusha weholo.
Ukungabikho kwenjongo noma injongo yempilo kungenye uvalo lokuthi, kaningi, ukucasulwa le nkinga ebizwa ngokuthi yi-maphakathi ne-grisis. Uma kuqala imicabango enjalo ingafiki ekhanda lethu, noma sasimatasa kakhulu ngomsebenzi nokukhulisa izingane, khona-ke esikhathini esivuthiwe, lapho isigqi sempilo sincipha kancane, kepha kungani konke lokho?
Vele, angizange ngibhale konke ukwesaba, kepha kubonakala sengathi, futhi lokhu kwanele ukuwela ekudayisweni. Ungabhekana kanjani nayo? Iresiphi yokunqoba inkinga ephakathi nendawo ingumuntu ngamunye, futhi ihlotshaniswa nezici zobuntu bomunye wethu. Kepha uma sikhuluma ngezincomo ezijwayelekile, bese kuqala lapho nganginikeza isidingo sokwenza wena futhi, ikakhulukazi, nempilo yakho. Ukukhathazeka kukondla ukwesaba kwethu, futhi ama-alamu ahambisana nezempilo - omunye onamandla. Uzomangala ukuthi zisebenza kahle kanjani izincomo ezilula nezinqubo ze-Banal, njengokunamathela ekulaleni nokuzilibazisa, ukuzivocavoca umzimba, ukuhamba njll.
Iminyaka Ephakathi - Isizathu Esihle Sokuqala Ekugcineni Ukulalela Wena Nokuzikhokhela Isikhathi Esiningi. Cabanga ukuthi uyahlatshwa umxhwele futhi uyathokozisa kunalokho onentshisekelo futhi kumnandi ukukwenza. Gcwalisa impilo yakho ngezinto ezimnandi, ngoba ekugcineni okushiwo impilo ukuthi kuhlale kujabule ngangokunokwenzeka futhi kugcwaliswe.
Qondisisa inani lakho, beka amandla nesikhathi sakho kulokho okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Akukephuzi kakhulu ukuya ezifundweni ezithuthukile zokuqeqesha noma ufunde okuthile okusha. Bukela ikusasa awekho ngokwesaba, kepha ngethemba, ngoba nisazo phambili - iningi lempilo yakho, nasemandleni akho okuphila ngentokozo.