Usuku oluhle, abafundi.
Ngisanda kuthumela iphupho elithandekayo, liphindaphinda kaningi. Owesifazane osemusha, oneminyaka engaba ngu-36, wamthumela ukuba ayoqonda.
"Bengilokhu ngiphupha iphupho kaningi kamuva nje ukuthi ngisemishadweni yami. Kepha njalo ngedwa, kepha ngengubo emhlophe emhlophe. Ungalokothi uphuphe ukuthi ngine-fiance. Empilweni, angikaze ngibe nabesilisa. "
Vele, ukulala kusobala. Umakoti emshadweni ngaphandle komkhwenyana. Kuyiqiniso, emagameni okuqala kucace bha ukuthi ulale ngobudlova besifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukulala kukhombisa ukuthi iphupho lethu alimele nomfanekiso wendoda ebiseduze.
Akubona bonke abesifazane futhi amadoda abophekile ukudala ubudlelwano, dala imindeni futhi abelethe izingane. Kwabanye, lokhu kungukuzikhethela okuqondayo ngokuphelele. Kepha kaningi kwenzeka nakancane ngokungazi. Abesifazane abakwazi ukuchaza ukuthi kungani nedatha yangaphandle, umusa, ubuhle, ingqondo kanye nekhono lokubanakekela bodwa, kuyilapho wonke umuntu ezungeza ethandana, ahlangane, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, akhulise, phakamisela abathandi. Ngokuvamile, sifuna amadoda. Angazi ukuthi ukukhetha okunjalo kuyabonakala kusuka ku-heroine yethu. Ingabe unenhloso eyakheka ekwakheni umndeni?
Uma le misebenzi ebalulekile isekhona, kubalulekile ukunquma ukuthi yini ayibona ngayo umngane wayo.
Kukule ngalokhu ukuthi ukulala kwakhe kuthi: Eceleni kwakhe akunandawo yendoda. Futhi le "ndawo" akuyona inani lomzimba. Kungenzeka ukuthi kudingeka yini ukuthi udale ubudlelwano obuthembekile, umcabango wokuthi othile angaba naye, futhi ngubani? Uyini umuntu?
Ngisho nolwazi olungenalwazi kakhulu emibonweni yezengqondo yaziwa ukuthi ukukhethwa kwe-satellite yempilo yesikhathi esizayo kuthonywa kakhulu amantombazane noyise. Eduze, ubuhlobo obufudumele noluthembekile nomzali buzovumela ukuba bukhulekele ukuba baphinde baphinde basebenzise ubudlelwano obuthembekile, obuhlala isikhathi eside, isikhathi eside nendoda.
Uma uBaba ebengekho, wanyamalala esigabeni esithile sokukhula kwendodakazi yakhe, wamisa oxhumana nabo noma ngesikhathi sokuphila kwendodakazi yakhe wayeshubile, angqubuzana, ahlehlise ukuhlela isifiso sentombazane, Futhi-ke intokazi, ukuba nobudlelwano.
Imvamisa, ngenxa yalokho okuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo, owesifazane ufinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi kungcono ukungabi nobudlelwano ngokutholwa kunokuba ube nomlingani ongaphephile kuye. Noma ibuphi ubudlelwane obungaphephile, lapho sinomuzwa wokuthi singashiya noma nini, sikhale, sibangele izinhlungu, singenza okuthile ngokumelene nentando, ukungqubuzana.
Ngamaphupho ethu, iphupho elinjalo libonisa ukuthi kungaba kuhle ukubhekana nalabo afuna ukubona eduze kwabo.
Futhi uma kunzima ukuphendula le mibuzo, kufanelekile ukubhekana nemibono emadodeni nakancane. Futhi ukuphendula umbuzo osuselwa esinqumweni sawo sokuba wedwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi lesi sinqumo asisasebenzi. Nokuthi amaphupho ethu angakwazi ukuhlanganisa ukudala ubudlelwano.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina