"Into yokuqala engingifundise indaba ngonxantathu wami wothando: ungalokothi wahlulele abanye abantu. Kuhle ukuvula umlomo kuphela bese uqala ukusakaza okuthile ochungechungeni: "O, Nkulunkulu, yebo, ukuthi kungenzeka kanjani," kungcono kanjani, "Kunjani ukuklwenza, kanjani , futhi ngani, futhi ngani. Ukhohlwa ukuhlinzeka ngemiyalo yokusinda. Ngikhumbula kahle njengonyaka ngaphambi kokuba ngibe ngaphakathi kwale ndaba ethuthukile, saxoxa ngenye yentombi yethu ayijwayelene nentombi yethu. Ukuthi iminyaka embalwa njengoba yayibuhlungu futhi ibuhlungu kakhulu ekuxhumaneni kwakhe nomuntu oshadile, futhi ngathi kwakufana nokuduma kwesibhakabhaka esicacile. Inkosikazi! Blimey. Lokhu kunamahloni, kungathandeki, azikho izinto ezinhle ezizohola. I-ke, ngaleyo ndlela, ngixolise kuYe ngalokho akugwebe.
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Siphila emphakathini, iningi lazo ekudingisweni kwama-stereotypes mayelana nothando "olufanele". Kulungile, kepha le yichibi kanye nodoti. Iqiniso lokuthi umuzwa ngamunye walomlingo uyakubona ngendlela yalo akunakwa. Futhi naku- "Love-Nelybov" Sivame ukuwunda ezinkingeni zethu eziningi. Izinguquko? Ngakho-ke, ayithandi! Awuzange umshiye umkami? Ngakho-ke, hhayi uthando futhi wawunjalo! Ungashadi? Yebo, kulungile, sizothola umuntu ozothanda ngempela. Sizwa njalo ukuzwa ukuthi lolo thando luyakwazi ukunqoba konke, lushintshe yonke into, lwakha isimangaliso sezimangaliso, futhi nguyena oyinto enqumayo ebudlelwaneni. O, ukube konke bekunjalo impela, besingaphila ngenjabulo nangokuvumelanayo ezweni elihle lama-unicorns apinki, futhi onxantathu wothando babengeke babe khona kuyo. Lokhu, ngendlela, eyesibili ngangiqonda ngayo lapho kuthuthukiswa indaba yami futhi ngibhekele abanye. Uthando aluxazululi lutho. Futhi, eqinisweni, akudingekile ekwenzeni isibuko, uma uRyzh Kriva.
Ama-Mulberies emphakathini wethu amukelwe noma azisole ngokuqinile. Futhi omunye nomunye, ngombono wami, akusebenzi kithi. Ukuzibophezela ngenxa yokuvukela njalo kuthwala lowo owayeya kwesobunxele. Lokhu wanika i-altare noma akathinti ehhovisi lokubhalisa lothando lwaphakade nokwethembeka kwaphakade. Lokhu wakuthembisa ukuthi athembekile ukuthi angamshiyi futhi angawuguquli umshado wabo ebuhlotsheni be-fresher. Futhi le yimilenze yakhe, ngaphandle kokuphoqelela, wahamba wahlela usizi kwabathathu. Futhi abangabazi ngokuphelele kumkakhe, inkosikazi, bakhonza njengethuluzi. Kepha masinyane Qaphela: Kuze kube manje kuze kube yilapho ezama ukungenelela ebudlelwaneni bomyeni wakhe nowesifazane wakhe ngomqondo wangempela weZwi. Ngiyazi ukuthi amacala we-phenomena embundwini wesidleke esishadile, ukusatshalaliswa njalo kwe-SMS kanye nezimpawu ze-SMS nezicelo zokunikela othandekayo wakho ekwandleni ezintsha, ezinakekelayo. Ngokuqondene nesihawu, akulungile lapha, ngoba indima yale ntombazane izikhethela yona (ngaphandle kwalabo abagxume ngokungahleliwe futhi bagijimela ebuhlotsheni bokwenza uzungu, bakwazile ukufihla iqiniso lokuthi akasenalo mahhala). Akunandaba ukuthi ungakanani amangalela izinyembezi ezihlambeka ezindabeni zesihloko sokwabelana okudonsela phansi, umthwalo wemihlatshelo neminyaka engcono kakhulu, kuye, oshadile, osetshenzisiwe, konke lokhu kuyizinketho zabo. Ngabe ufuna ukushada nendlu evamile ne-apula yezithelo bese ubeletha enganeni ngonyaka? Phambili, akekho ophethe. Kepha wena ngokwakho ukhetha impilo enjalo lapho nonke kungenzeka ukuthi ungakhanyi.
Kuyiqiniso, zonke lezi zinto ezinzima ezingazange zithathe hhayi ophahleni. ICama yadlula ngokuhlupheka kwesihluku somhlaba, lapho yonke into iphikisana nothando lwethu oluhlanzekile. Ngazitshela ukuthi ngokushesha (ngizothola enye, ngiqongelela imali, ngizothola umsebenzi, kepha noma yini) ... Ngemuva kwalokho ngizohamba ngokushesha! Kepha, okuthakazelisa, bekufanele kwenzeke ukuthi kwenzeke kulokhu kunambitheka "ngokushesha", ngokushesha kwaba nezizathu ezintsha zokuhlala esimweni sazo esilula.
Ngakho-ke, isiphetho sesine engisenzile: Indima Yezinto Ezingabaphathi Ngokuqinile, Ukubasola Ekuphathweni Komndeni Womunye umuntu, noma, kunalokho, kubhekwe yi-cask ephansi e-Love Hierarchy. Kepha, empeleni, yilokhu impela ubuhlobo obujwayelekile obufana nendoda ekhululekile, ngokwesibonelo, okukutshela ngokushesha ukuthi ayishadi, futhi ugijime ophahleni ezethusayo, ucabanga ukuthi ukukwenza.
Zonke izindaba eziphathelene nothando onobunxantathu zifana kakhulu nomunye, njengoba abantu kubo bevela ukuba ngenxa yokulimala okufanayo. Ukuze kulungiswe ukuvukela umbuso noma inoveli egcwele eceleni, izici eziningana kufanele zihambisane. Okuqala (futhi okubaluleke kakhulu) yizinkinga zabo zokushintsha. Ukuvukela umbuso kuhlala kungukukhetha. Ungashiya ubudlelwano abangahambisani, noma uxazulule izinkinga ngaphakathi kubo, noma ukhaphele. Uma umuntu ekhetha inketho yesithathu, kusho ukuthi usetshenziselwa ukuhamba ngendlela yokumelana nobuncane.
Isici sesibili yizinkinga ebudlelwaneni. Lapho konke okudingayo (futhi sidinga izinto ezahlukene), kwanele, lapho kuvunywa khona, lapho bobabili besebenzela ukufeza induduzo evamile, ukukhaphela kuzokwenzeka ngamathuba amancane lapho imizwa nezidingo kunganakwa khona. Yebo, isici sesithathu ngumuntu. Ukuhlangana naLowo, ngamademoni akhe angaphakathi, azovuma ukulingana kulo mdlalo wokuzingela njengama-hypotenuses.
I-blog yami, izinto ezizosetshenziswa kuzo manje futhi zizoshicilelwa ngo-Ansishit, zivele ngesikhathi lapho ekugcineni ngiqonda ukuthi isimo sami sizongithola futhi sichithe uma bengingeke ngikwenze. Bengifuna ngempela ukutshela umhlaba ukuthi, empeleni, ezifundeni zeJiyometri ezinenombolo ehlukile yamakhona, konke kuhlukile, njengoba kupenda ngezindatshana ezicwezimukeleleni noma ezihlahleni. Ukuthi kukhona amatshe akho angaphansi kwamanzi empilweni yawo womabili amangazi futhi akhohlise amakhosikazi, naLowo, ngokusho kwabaningi, "axazululwe kalula" phakathi kwabesifazane ababili - konke akunakudumaza kakhulu lapho. Ngakho-ke manje ngikumema ohambweni olungaqondakali futhi oluqotho lwezinhlangano ezithakazelisa kakhulu zokungathembeki nobudlelwano bezinkinga.
Ngiyakuthembisa, kuzojabulisa. "