Kusebuntwaneni, kungenzeka ukuthi ulale ngethoyi elithambile noma ingubo ebomvu oyithandayo. Kepha uma usufinyelele eminyakeni yobuningi futhi usacindezela ibhere kaTeddy kusukela ebuntwaneni, kuyavela ukuthi awuwedwa. Ngokusho kocwaningo olwenziwe nge-work-a-Bear workshop, ama-40% abantu abadala ayavuma ukuthi kusukela ebuntwaneni ilele ngethoyi elithambile noma ingubo. Kepha umuntu omuntu osemdala ukuba alale ngesilwane esiphikisayo - kukhulu? Nakhu okushiwo ochwepheshe.
Ithoyizi elithambile linganikeza abantu abadala bezizwa induduzo nokuphepha ngesikhathi sokuxineka okukhulu
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Ithawula kangakanani amathoyizi asiza ukulala
Odokotela babiza amathoyizi athambile, izingubo zokulala kanye "nezinto eziguqukayo". Yilokhu izingane ezincane ezilala ukuzizwa ziphephile, ikakhulukazi lapho zikude nabazali noma abagadi babo. Amathoyizi athambile nawo asiza izingane zisuka ekunciphiseni kuya ekuzimeleni, yingakho igama. Ngokufaka ukuxhumana nento, izingane zifunda ukuxhumana naye ukuze zibasize babhekane nama-alamu abo. "Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane ifunda ukuthi iyakwazi ukwanga ngesilwane esidonsayo futhi zizwele ukulala," kusho uCavita Kuvita Jagu, udokotela wezifo zengqondo kanye nosonhlalonhle obhalisiwe ovela eToronto. Ekugcineni, ingane izoqala ukuhlanganisa ithoyizi le-plush ngephupho.
Ngokusho kweJagu, njengezingane, ithoyizi elithambile linganikeza umuzwa wokududuza nokuphepha ngesikhathi sokuxineka ngokweqile. Uthi: "Abantu abaningi njengokufunda okukhulayo bathembele endleleni ethile yokukhathazeka ukuze babhekane nengcindezi. "Isibonelo salokhu kungaba yinto yokudlala ethambile."
Lapho ukulala nezilwane eziphithizelayo kuba yinkinga
Izindaba Ezinhle: Ochwepheshe bathi bamukele ngenja yabo abayithandayo ye-Plush njalo ebusuku evamile, noma ngabe ungasakwazi ukulala embhedeni wezingane. "Akukho lutho olungajwayelekile ngalokhu," kusho uStanley Goldstein wezingane wezengqondo. Uphawula ukuthi abantu abadala nabo banokwesaba, "futhi konke okusisiza ukubamelana nalokhu kwesaba akunangozi." Kodwa-ke, uma okunamathiselwe kwakho kuthoyitela elithambile kuthinta umsebenzi wakho noma ubudlelwano, lokhu kuvame ukuba uphawu lwenkinga ejulile edinga ukuxazululwa. Ukwenza isibonelo, ingabe unezela ukwesekwa kubhele lakho le-teddy, hhayi kumyeni wakho? Kungasayina ukuthi umlingani wakho akanikezeli induduzo okufanele ibe ebudlelwaneni, "kusho uCatherine, udokotela wefilosofi.
Ukuhlukaniswa kuyasinda, noma ngabe kuhlotshaniswa nokuhlukana nesihloko esingaphili
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Ungayiyeka kanjani ithoyizi lakho le-plush
Ukuhlukaniswa kusinda, noma ngabe kuhlotshaniswa nokuhlukana nendaba engaphili. Ngaphambi kokuthi uthathe isinqumo sokuthi "Ukuxosha" umngani wakho we-fluffy, ubonge ubudlelwano bakho nezilwane eziphithizelayo nokuthi kuzosho ukuthi ulele naye uma uyeka ukulala naye, "kuncela u-Jagu. Ngemuva kwalokho vuma imizwa yakho nokuthi kuzokwenzekani lapho ukhulula. Uzoba novalo ngokwengeziwe? Ngabe uzokuzwa ukulahleka? UJagu uthi: "Zama ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izici," kusho uJagu. 'Thola indlela yokubuyisana nalokhu kukhetha futhi uthole ukuqedwa kule nqubo. " Siza ukulala kungajabulisa umculo, ukufafaza uwoyela obalulekile emcameni nokuzindla.