Kusuka ku-Incwadi Balers Airhit:
"Sawubona! Ezinyangeni ezintathu ezedlule, ngahlukana nomuntu owayeneminyaka emine. Ubudlelwane bebubi. Ungihlole, safunga ngalokhu nakwabanye. Ngemuva kokuhlukana, wazama ukubuyisa ubuhlobo, kodwa angivumelani. Izintombi zingitshela ukuthi akangifanele. Ngivumelana nabo. Kepha lapho enza omunye umzamo wokubuyisa konke, imicabango ekhwela ekhanda lakhe, futhi ngokuzumayo, futhi mhlawumbe zama. Ungaziqeda Kanjani? Ngifuna ukubeka iphuzu ebudlelwaneni kanye naphakade. "
Sawubona!
Beka iphuzu ngemuva kokuthi ubudlelwane obude bungelula kangako. Ukuze kwenzeke ngokushesha futhi kwadlula ngokungakhathali, zama ukwenza lo msebenzi olandelayo kuwe.
Okokuqala, usuvele wawathola amandla ukuze uphazamise ubudlelwano obekubhubhisa wena. Zama ukuqonda ukuthi wawuthathwa kuphi kulo mabutho kunokukhuthaza, yini abayivimbayo. Mhlawumbe bekusekela izintombi noma isimo sakho sengqondo esihle, futhi mhlawumbe uhlobo oluthile lwethemba ngokuzayo. DUT LOMUNTU. Kuzokusiza uzizwe uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe.
Okulandelayo, cabanga ngalokho okwakukhona kulobu budlelwano obuhle, obungalungile, okuthandayo, nokuthi yini engeyona. Yini ongathanda ukuthi "uyithathe" nawe, nokuthi yini okufanele uyihambe esikhathini esedlule. Okuhle kungakhunjulwa ngesikhathi esichithwe, amakhono owathengile kwinqubo yokuxhumana nalo muntu (into elula - okungcono waqala ukupheka), noma ikhwalithi oyivezile kuwe (ngokwesibonelo, amandla okukhetha amadoda izibopho;). Konke lokhu kungahle kube lula ngokuzayo. Inkomba yokuthi lobu budlelwano bukufundisile yini, kusho ukuthini ukuhlakanipha okuthengile.
Futhi ekugcineni, isigaba sokugcina singaba yincwadi yokuvalelisa yalowo othandekayo. Incwadi engeke ifinyelele umamukeli wayo, ngoba ayihloselwe yona. Bhala kulo konke ocabangayo - nokuhle, nokubi. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ekugcineni ngokuqinile nangokuqiniseka bhala: "Ukuhle".
Abafundi Abathandekayo, uMary Biryukova usakwazi ukuthumela ekhelini: [email protected].