Impilo Esondelene Empilweni Yomshado ayikwazi ukuhlala ingahleliwe njalo. Ukuhlala ndawonye, kunzima impela ukumangaza okuthile, ngoba uyazi cishe konke mayelana nomlingani, okubandakanya lokhu kuthinta amakhono akhe ezocansi. Akumangazi ukuthi umbhangqwana oshadile uvame ukubhekana nezinkinga eziningi embhedeni. Sinqume ukuqoqa iziphazamiso ezivame kakhulu ezabhekana nendoda nomkayo empilweni obuseduze.
Amavesi
Akungamukeleki ukuthi umuntu "uhlala elungele" futhi noma kunjalo. Kodwa-ke, uma umlingani enomuzwa wokuthi owesifazana uphendula kakhulu kuyo yonke imizamo yakhe yokwanelisa noma ngisho nokujabulisa nje, umdlandla wakhe ungaphela. Owesifazane ngemuva kwesikhashana ujwayela endodeni esondele njalo, sekuvele kunzima kuye ukuba ambone ngokubabazekayo ofanayo, lesi simo sidluliswa futhi umuntu onqobayo " ukunakekelwa. Ngakho-ke ngesinye sezizathu zezocansi ezingapheli futhi "ezidabukisayo" zilele emkhathini azungeze lo mbhangqwana. Uma uhlangabezana nomuzwa wokuhlwilisa, zama ukungeza kancane kwezinhlobonhlobo ukuze ukhumbule ukuthi wagcwala kanjani impilo yakho esondele kakhulu ngaphambili.
Zama ukuzwa isimo somlingani
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Amapharamitha akho omzimba awahambelani.
Kuyenzeka. Amadoda ayenikezwe imvelo enomusa kakhulu, angadala ukulimala okungathi sína kowesifazane onezenzo ezingalungile. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, ubude besitho sangasese sangasese buxhomeke ekukhuleni kowesifazane: Intombazane ephakeme, indoda ekhululekile ngokwengeziwe isithunzi esihlaba umxhwele. Esimweni esithile esihlukile - lapho umuntu engakwazi ukuziqhayisa umzimba omkhulu wezocansi, futhi umfazi, kunalokho, angavumela "osayizi abakhulu ukuba baye kubo - futhi kuzoba nokudideka kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, le nkinga ixazululwa kahle i-pose.
Awungeke uhambisane namapharamitha ngokomzimba.
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Ukwehluleka ukwesaba
Ngisho nangemva kokuba usuphenduke umyeni nenkosikazi, kwaqala ukuphila okuhlangene, ukwesaba ukwabiwa emehlweni abesifazane akunakushiya noma kuphi, futhi kukhule kube umcabango obonakalayo. Njengomthetho, ukwehluleka embhedeni kwenzeka nabesilisa abahlelela kuqala ngohlelo lokuhlupheka obuseduze.
Ukuphazamiseka kwesikhashana
Emzimbeni wowesifazane kunezindlela eziningi izinqubo ngandlela thile zithinta ukuvela kwesifiso, okuzoncika kuzo ikhwalithi yezocansi. Ukukhathala, ukudangala, ukunganakwa kungaba yinkinga enkulu hhayi kuwe kuphela, kodwa futhi nomlingani wakho ozophila nawe isikhathi sakho esinzima. Mayelana nezocansi ngalesi sikhathi siyakhuluma, njengomthetho, asihambi. Kubalulekile lapha ukuthi umlingani wakho aqonde isimo sakho hhayi "acindezelwe", ukuphoqelela ukuba wanelise. Ngokwesisekelo sokungabheki kwesimo sengqondo, kungenzeka ukuthi iningi lezingxabano libhangqa.