Njengomthetho, isinyathelo sokuqala sokusondela kulowo mbhangqwana kwenza indoda, kepha akuyena wonke umuntu omele phansi oqinile olungiselelwe izenzo ezinqumayo. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi ukwanga nokuvalwa kudonswa kakhulu, futhi ufuna ukuya ezingeni elisha lobuhlobo, thatha isinyathelo sezandleni zakho. Sizokutshela ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani kahle.
Ngitshele kahle
Akuyona imfihlo yokuthi amadoda amaningi okunzima ukuqonda amacebo wabesifazane. Uma umlingani wakho engomunye walaba bantu, qala ingxoxo kusuka kude, kancane kancane usuka ezihlokweni ezijwayelekile empilweni yakho eseduze. Buza lokho okuthandayo embhedeni uqobo kuye, noma ngabe ukuphi lapho angathanda ukuzama ukulala okokuqala. Kodwa-ke, lungiselelwa iqiniso lokuthi le ndoda izobuza imibuzo efile kanye nawe.
Thinta
Ungaqala "ukucosha emzimbeni" ezigabeni zokuqala zobudlelwano: kube sengathi zithinta ngephutha izindawo ezivulekile zomzimba wakhe, ngokwesibonelo, ezandleni noma entanyeni, zithinte emuva, kepha zikhulise njengemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngesikhathi sokuqabula ungazama ukunikela kuzo izandla zezandla, njengomthetho, amadoda awamelani nohlelo olunjalo.
Akuwona wonke amadoda anqumayo
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Bheka emehlweni akhe
Ukubuka kwabesifazane kungenye yezikhali ezinamandla kakhulu emzabalazweni wenhliziyo yomuntu. Ukushukuma kwethu kwesinye isikhathi kusho amagama amaningi. Dlala naye: khumbula ukuthi uthandana kanjani ekuqaleni kobuhlobo, zama ukubeka sonke isifiso sakho ngombono wakho, mbheke emehlweni, bese ubheka. Phinda izikhathi eziningana, imvamisa umphumela uza ngokushesha.
Nikeza intando kaGubam
Indlela ephumelela kakhulu futhi "yokukhuluma" yokusikisela ngocansi ukwanga. Indoda engavamile ayifuni ukuqhubeka ngemuva kokuqabulana ngeFrank ngokuthinta kuzo zonke izingxenye ezibalulekile zomzimba. Ungavimbeli umuntu ukuthi akuthinte kwinqubo yokuqabula. Ungaqiniseka: Ngemuva kwalokhu, cishe kuzofuna ukuqhubeka.
makathinte
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Okungafanele ukwenze
Kubalulekile ukusikisela kahle ngobuhle nobulili. Isenzo esisodwa esingalungile kuwe singabhubhisa ubudlelwano be-nascent, ngakho-ke akunakuvumela amaphutha anjalo:
Yimaphi amaphutha ongakwenza:
Gqoka inhlambanazo
Lapho isithombe esingenangqondo siphenduka inhlamba, konke ukuya ocansini kuyancibilika ngasikhathi sinye. Khetha izingubo ze-tual ngokuncipha okuncane nokwakheka ngokugcizelelwa kwamehlo noma okungcono ezindebeni, kepha akunasidingo sokugqoka ibhulukwe elisobala eline-miniskirt nge-miniskirt nge-miniskirt ye-miniskirt.
Ungakhulumi ngempilo yakho eseduze ngokulandelana
Akukho lutho olubi kakhulu kunokuqala okuxoxa ngezinkinga zakho ezisondelene nabangane bakho phambi kwendoda. Ukuze umlingani wakho, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso eqinisweni lokuthi kamuva uzosho nangezinto zakhe zobulili noma eminye imininingwane angathanda ukuyicasha.
Utholakala kakhulu
Inval isho ubumfihlo. Uma ungenandaba ukukhombisa uthando endaweni yomphakathi, indoda kungenzeka ingasithandi isibindi sakho futhi iwudonsele kahle ngoba ayihambelani nokufinyeleleka kwakho, umane angaziboneli eceleni kwentombi enjalo.