Ucansi ngosuku lokuqala: "Umphumela we-Red Happy"
Wonke umuntu ngaphandle kokuhlukile, amadoda afuna ubulili ngosuku lokuqala, futhi akulona noma kuphi ukuthi uye ndawo ... ngakho-ke iningi labesifazane licabangele, liqinisekisa okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu. Kepha ingabe kunjalo? Kuyiqiniso, empilweni kukhona "umculo omnandi", oqala ukwehla abesifazane ocansini emhlanganweni wokuqala, awuzange ube nesikhathi sokufeza i-dessert. Kodwa-ke, kaningi ukusebenzelana ngokocansi ngaphambi kwesikhathi kwabesilisa kuvusa ... abesifazane uqobo.
Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "umphumela we-red cap". Njengesakhiwo senganekwane edumile kaCharles Perro, abesifazane baphuthunyiswe ehlathini elimnyama ezindaweni ezibomvu ezibomvu, noma ngabe basola ukuthi balinde izimpisi eziyingozi ezimpunga. Ukuphambana kwabesifazane kungaqala "ukuqala izimpande" encwadini - lapho intombazane ngokwakhe ingaqondi, ikhomba umuntu ocansini:
- "Uyazi, sekuyisikhathi eside sahlukana nalowo owayengukuqala, sengivele ngabanga unyaka oqinile wonyaka manje";
- "Unesibalo esihle kangako, esifakiwe - ngifuna ukuthinta";
- "Kuyisihawu sokuthi besingajwayelene nakanjani, kodwa nakanjani sizobamba."
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Imishwana efanayo umfazi kungenzeka akwanele ukuvula usuku lokuqala, nje i-swirl, izama ukungabukeki i-hanger futhi ifuna ukuthanda indoda. Kodwa-ke, abesilisa bajwayele konke ukuthatha ngokoqobo, ngakho-ke babona ukubukwa kweLainid futhi bahlangane nama-cocktails ngeshubhu njengezikhalazo eziqondile zokusondelana ngokobulili. Kamuva, owesifazane "okhohlisiwe" uzokhononda kumngane omkhulu eqinisweni lokuthi "akazange abuyise" futhi "wonke amadoda ayalingana." Kepha ukuziphatha okudlalayo okunesiphetho ngesimo sobulili ngosuku lokuqala kuphenduka umfazi kwi-trophy enconyiwe. Ukungabi nesikhathi sokujula ezweni lakhe langaphakathi, yena, ngesabelo esiphakeme kakhulu, akafuni umhlangano omusha - Igoli elingaphezulu liyatholakala, umaka wokuhlola uyalethwa, futhi sekudlule isikhathi.
Ngasikhathi sinye, ukwehluleka kwe- "Red Cap" kusuka ocansini ngosuku lokuqala kungaxoxa ekugcineni okufile.
"Emva kwakho konke, wakulingisa kusihlwa kusihlwa, futhi ekugcineni wathukwa futhi ethukuthele."
Ungabhalisa kanjani esimweni samanje? Ungakuthola kanjani umuntu, yini oyithandayo, ngaphandle kokuthi ube yinto yocansi? Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuyeka ukuqongelela imicabango yakho eduze kwesihloko sobulili. Ngemuva kwakho konke, njengoba wazi, imicabango iyinto ebonakalayo. Uma owesifazane ekhathazeka kakhulu ngakho lapho ukusondela okusondelene nomuntu kufanele kwenzeke kuhlobo luni losuku, luhambisana 'nokubandakanya' ukuphathwa kwakhe kobulili.
Ungakuqonda kanjani kahle isihloko sezocansi ngosuku lokuqala bese umisa ukusikisela komuntu ngokuzithoba kumuntu ukuthi ubulili buyini kanye ohlangana nani namhlanje? Okokuqala, phumula bese ubeka imicabango yakho ngokulandelana, zama ukuwashintsha kulokho okufunayo ngempela empilweni. Cabanga ngomshado ojabulayo, ama-picnics, uhambo, isimangalo esimnandi sothando ... Yebo, mayelana nokuthi ufuna ukuba ngubani futhi ubonakale impilo yakho yesikhathi esizayo. Ukusabela kwabesilisa ngeke kulinde ukulinda - uzophinde futhi "avule" kuwe, kodwa vele ngomqondo ohlukile - ngokujulile futhi ujulile.
Phumula bese ubeka imicabango yakho ngokulandelana, zama ukuwashintsha kulokho okufunayo ngempela empilweni
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'Kanjani "okupholile" ngaphambi kwesikhathi
Empilweni yowesifazane ngamunye, izinsuku zokuqala zenzeka, lapho indoda isenkongo ecansini, noma ngabe awuzange umenzele phansi kulesi sihloko. Lokhu kuziphatha akusho ukuthi kufanele ujike ngokushesha bese ushaya umnyango. Funda "ukushintsha" indoda esebenzisa amasu okusebenza:
1. Siya emahlayayo.
2. Siletha ingxoxo yengqondo.
3. Yakha imingcele.
Kushiya amahlaya
Amahlaya ne-Wit zizokusiza ukuthi ushintshe ngokushesha endodeni enesihloko socansi ukuze akhohlwe ngokoqobo lokho komunye umzuzu ongelona umzuzu " Zama ukuthi amahlaya akho azwakala ungacabangi futhi wangempela. Ngaphambi kokuhlangana nendoda, lungiselela amahlaya ambalwa we-witty kusengaphambili ukuthi ungakwazi ukuklebhula ngosuku lokuqala uma kunesidingo.
Siletha ingxoxo yengqondo
Ukuqaphela ukuthi le ndoda iphinde ikhombe ecansini, ihumushe ingxoxo ngendiza yokuqonda. Ikakhulu izosebenza izihloko lapho okhethiweyo yakho egxile khona. Khuluma nabahleli bohlelo nge-matrices namakhodi, nodokotela ohlinzayo - ekusebenzeni okusha kanye nezimpumelelo zakamuva emkhakheni wezokwelapha. Kubalulekile ukuthi okungenani ube nokuthambekela kancane endabeni yengxoxo, ngakho ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala ngincoma ukutadisha izingqikithi zengqondo ezingathandeka kwi-satellite yakho. Uma ngelinye iphuzu kungekho ongakutshela, mbuze umbuzo ngengxoxo. Ingxoxo yezobuhlakani ngokushesha futhi icisha nje indoda, ikuvumela ukuba uhlukane nengqikithi yezocansi.
Yakha Imingcele
Ngokwemvelo yabo, amadoda ayabanqoba. Bahlala bafuna ukuthola "izithelo ezinqatshelwe", ezibonakala zingafinyeleleki. Ukwakhiwa komugqa ofanele kusho ukuthi awuphoqeleli i-veto ngesihloko socansi, kepha ungakakulungeli ukukhuluma ngakho, ikakhulukazi - ukukwenza. Uma, ngosuku lokuqala, indoda izozama ukuqala ingxoxo eseduze, yanciphisa amahloni amehlo futhi iphole: "Lesi yisihloko esithandekayo, futhi ngizokhuluma ngawe."
Ukuhamba, ukungabizi kanye nemfihlakalo "kufaka" indoda kusuka kwikota ye-invernover. Ukuphazamiseka okulula kuzobangela inzalo kuyo, nosuku lwesishiyagalombili lusazolinda. Ngasikhathi sinye, uzokwazi ukuthola ngokwanele ukuba akwazi ukubona: Akunasifiso nje sokuqala kwakhe ngokobulili.
Ngingakwazi nini?
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Ngingakwazi nini?
Uma ubulili bokuqala kwenzeka ekuseni kakhulu, indoda iyaqonda ukuthi akukho okunye ongakunqoba, namaqabunga ...
Uma umzuzu wobulili bokuqala ubambezeleka ngokweqile, le ndoda ingakwazi "ukudalula" ukulinda, ngemuva kwalokho kuzonyamalala ...
Ngakho-ke ufika nini - lowo mzuzu ofanele? Endabeni yokusondela kokuqala okusondelene, kubalulekile ukuthi kumuntu abelindelwe yisikhathi eside. Cabanga nge-juicy steak - ukuyithola, indoda kufanele ilinde ukulungela kwakhe. Kungumzuzu wokulinda, hhayi inqubo yokudla isidlo, imnandi kakhulu kuye. Ubulili bakho bokuqala kufanele bube yinto ekholelwa kakhulu ukuthi indoda ilinde ukujikijela umoya. "Ukulungiselela isidlo," landela imithetho eyinhloko:
"Ungasukumi." Ukulinda ngokweqile ukusondeza izinyanga, noma iminyaka, kuvame ukudala ukukhathala okuvela kumuntu, futhi uyahamba nje angalindi ukuthi alinde "isidlo esikhulu."
Asithembe. Umuntu kufanele aqonde ukuthi ekugcineni uzothola "umklomelo."
Mngcono kuye. Kuvulwa zonke izinsuku ngendoda ohlangothini olusha, ngaleyo ndlela kubangele ukunconywa nokuthuthumela.