"Yini inkinga yakho? Kepha ngi ... "- Uqala ingxoxo nomngane okhala ehlombe lakho. Yazi ukuthi ukwesekwa okunjalo kungumuntu onomusa futhi isitha ngeke sifise. Esimweni esicindezelayo, kudingeka ukwazi ukuphatha kahle futhi unikeze ingxenye ngqo nengxenye kanye nesilinganiso sokuxhaswa umuntu wakho osondelene naye. Ngezeluleko ezilimazayo, njengoba izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zibheka lesi simo nokuthi yiziphi izincomo ezinikezwayo.
"Makuhlangane!"
Ukhathele kakhulu ukulalela intombi ekhala ukuthi isakuthanda "okwangaphambili", obekulokhu kuhamba nentombazane entsha. Siyakuqonda, ngoba izimo ezinjalo zenzeka nabangane balowo nalowo nalowo - wedwa oshintshile emsebenzini, abanye babenecala ezikweletini, abanye ababhekane nendima yomzali. Kulezi zimo, ngeke usize ngokusekelwa okukodwa, kubalulekile ukunika umuntu uhlu lwezeluleko ezisebenzayo kumuntu. Kepha udinga nje ukwethulwa ngesithembiso esingesihle, kodwa ngokuhlukile: "Masha, ngiyakuthanda futhi ngifisa okuhle empilweni. Intombi yami ikhohlwa ukuthi owayekade wasiza ezemidlalo, ake sizame ukuya ejimini ndawonye? "
Ngitshele intombi ukuthi ingaphilisa kanjani inhliziyo ephukile
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"Ngokushesha amafutha ..."
Kubukeka sengathi umuntu unakho konke: Sebenza nomholo ohlonishwayo, indawo ethengiswayo, ithuba lokundiza eholidini izikhathi ezimbalwa ngonyaka, abangane abathembekile abaseduze - yini enye ongafiswa ngayo? Abantu abaningi kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi ukudangala kungavela kubukeka sengathi kusuka ekuqaleni. Ogogo bethu babezobona ukuthi zonke izinkinga ngokungazenzi. Kodwa-ke, izazi zezengqondo zibiza ukungazenzi iziphetho ezisheshayo ngesimo somuntu. Imvamisa izinkinga zivela ngokuzethemba futhi kuphela onguchwepheshe kuzosiza ukubhekana nazo. Ngitshele oxhumana nabo be-Psychologist umngane ophelelwe yithemba, futhi kungcono ngihambe naye ekwamukelweni ndawonye.
"Yebo, kuyinkinga?"
Khumbula: Awukwazi ukwehlisa imizwa yabanye abantu. Iqiniso lokuthi lingabonakala linjengesona labanye, livela ukulimala kwengqondo kwabanye. Uthando lokuqala, ukubekelwa intombi, ozakwehlekayo ngemuva komhlane wakhe, ukuntuleka kwemali - ngazo zonke lezi zinkinga ungadlula ngaphezu kwesisodwa futhi uphume kubo ophumelele. Ngokusobala umngani wakho akanawo umlingiswa ophikelelayo onjalo - futhi leli akulona iphutha lakhe. Khombisa isihe nangobuqotho zama ukusekela umuntu. Futhi uma isimo sengqondo esifanayo somngane sikubonisa, kungcono ukumtshela ngokweqiniso ngakho bese usuka isikhashana.
yeluleka umngane wochwepheshe onekhono
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"Umama wethu wasebenza ngemisebenzi emithathu, futhi wena ..."
Izikhathi zishintsha - intsha yanamuhla, ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, zithambekele ekuzibonakaliseni. Lokhu kungachazwa ngokutholakala kolwazi, umkhuba ku-psychoanalysis kanye nezinga eliphakeme lokuxineka kwansuku zonke. Ngenxa yalokhu okungenhla, imicabango emibi kanye nezinkinga zangempela zengqondo kuvela. Akusizi ngalutho ukuba zilwele ngokwakho - babone ukuphazamiseka okunjalo ngendlela efanayo namazinyo noma i-angina. Ngeke wenze sengathi awenzi noma azame ukuzelapha? Ngakho-ke kulokhu, udinga ukuxhumana nochwepheshe.