Kukholakala ukuthi owesifazana angathola inkulungwane nesizathu esenqaba umuntu asondelene naye, kodwa isigamu esinamandla singase futhi sinamahloni 'nemisebenzi eseduze', futhi hhayi njalo ngenxa yokulimaza: izimbangela zingahluka ngokuphelele.
Zama ukungacasuki, futhi usize indoda
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Abesilisa nje akukho mqondo
Cha, ikhanda lingagula hhayi kwabesifazane kuphela. Indoda nayo ingaba sesimweni esinjalo isikhathi eside anganandaba ngaphambi kocansi. Futhi leli cala lingaba nganoma iyiphi indlela - kusuka ezinkingeni emsebenzini ukuze ugculisekile ngempilo, futhi ukuhlanganisa ubulili, uma kunemicabango emibi ekhanda lami, kunzima kakhulu. Esimweni esinjalo, ungazami Kucasulwe ngumlingani, esikhundleni salokho, ngisize ukusekelwa kokuziphatha.
Indoda ikhathele nje
Ucansi luyinqubo yokusebenzisa amandla kahle, nokuphila edolobheni elikhulu futhi ngakho-ke uphuza wonke amabutho. Uma umuntu ebandakanyeka emalini yakho, futhi kungumsebenzi onzima, uyamangala ukuthi kusihlwa yena nje isifiso esisodwa sokulala futhi ulale. Ungafuni kakhulu kukho, uma kungenzeka, ungalayishi ngokweqile futhi ekhaya, ufuna indoda ithokozele embhedeni kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka?
Intshiseko yakhe yocansi yanyamalala
Kwenzeka ukuthi le ndoda ayifuni ukungazithinti izici zangaphandle. Okuthile ukwakheka okunjalo kokusondelana kungaba ukwehluleka kwangaphambilini ngocansi futhi akafuni ukukuphindaphinda futhi. Uma ungakabekwanga empilweni yezocansi kanye nokwenza ngcono akuhlelwanga, inkinga ngokwayo ngeke ixazululwe, udinga usizo lochwepheshe. Nikeza indoda ndawonye ukuthi iya kudokotela wezengqondo, ungayifundi yedwa nezinkinga zami.
Mhambise ukwesekwa
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Awukujabulisi
Imvamisa ngale nkinga yabhekana nabantu emshadweni. Abesifazane abaningi, bethole okwabo, ungakubheki okudingekayo ukuze kugcinwe ukuheha manje kumyeni osemthethweni. Futhi indoda yakho isafuna ubulili, kepha akusekho nawe. Esimweni esingenabungozi, umlingani wakho uzothatha isikhundla sobulili namafilimu ashubile kuphela, athenge omagazini obuxakile, kodwa esimweni esibi kakhulu kuzoholela umuntu ohlangothini.
Lapha ungakweluleka kuphela ukuthi ungazethembise ngisho nangemva kokuthola isitembu esithandekayo kuphasiphothi. Yize kunjalo, indoda kunzima ukuyigcina uma iyeka ukukuncoma.