Isonto eledlule kunethiwekhi alibhalisi engxoxweni yefilimu entsha noChristina Asmus endimeni eholayo. Kepha yonke le nto esendaweni enobuhlakani, eye yashaqisa ekushashweni kwababukeli abaningi ngobuhlakani bayo. Amalungu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana asaphila izingxabano, ingabe ukudubula kwangempela noma ukuya ocansini.
Khumbula, esizeni sefilimu, ifoni enevidiyo esondele kakhulu iwela ezandleni zomuntu wangaphandle, okuvela manje kuphila impilo yomnikazi wefoni.
Ividiyo noChristina iyisiqephu nje esivela kwifilimu, noma kunjalo, izindaba ezinjalo zivame ukwenzeka empilweni yangempela. Abalandeli bezithombe zezithombe zaseFrank kanye namavidiyo asekhaya anomlingani abhekane nengozi ekhethekile nomlingani, nomuntu ngesikhathi sokudubula uyaqiniseka ukuthi akekho noyedwa ongeke aze abone lezi zinhlaka ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe. Noma kunjalo, iningi lethu lingaba okungathandeki kakhulu ukubhekana nabaduni abamnyama noma, okubi kakhulu, bona izithombe zabo siqu endaweni ethile. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi singayenza kanjani uma amafreyimu wempilo yakho eseduze egeleza kunethiwekhi.
Nikeza imizwa
Ngokwemvelo, lapho othile ephula imingcele yethu, akukho mkhawulo wokuthukuthela. Akusona isixazululo esihle kunazo zonke: uzozithola uyisifo somuzwa. Akekho umuntu okuvimbela ukuthi ukhale, shiya isikhathi futhi ngokuvamile ukhombise noma yimiphi imizwa, kodwa wenze wedwa nawe.
Xoxa kuphela nalabo abakunikeza ukwesekwa
Yebo, kuzoba nabantu abahlekisa ngenkinga yakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungaba abangane - labo owawungalindele ukuba basabele kanjalo. Ngaleso sikhathi awudingi isimilo esinjengokuthi "kwakudingeka ukuba sikhuphuke", "kungani kufanele sithathe ushintsho olunjalo" nakho konke okusemoyeni. Uma laba bantu behluleka ukukuthanda, akufanele uchithe isikhathi kuwo, ubambelele kangcono kulowo ozokusekela futhi akutshele ukuthi ungayixazulula kanjani inkinga yakho.
Landelela lapho izithombe zakho zingathola khona
Imvamisa, abaduni bathola izithombe zethu ezisondelene ukuze bazithengise amasayithi ngokuqukethwe okuthile. Uma wena noma abangane bakho bekhubeka ezithombeni kwenye yalezi zingosi, ungashiyi konke njengoba unjalo, xhumana nokwesekwa kwezobuchwepheshe kwesayithi bese uchaza isimo. Susa izithombe zakho ngokushesha okukhulu.
Bhala isitatimende emaphoyiseni
Iziphathimandla zokuqinisa umthetho azikwazi ukusiza ngaso sonke isikhathi ezimweni ezinjalo, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ushiye konke njengoba kunje. Amaphoyisa okungenani adinga ukuvivinya ukusebenza kwemithombo nezindlela lapho isayithi lithola khona okuqukethwe.
Iphasiwedi Entsha
Ngemuva kokugenca, qiniseka ukuthi ushintsha amaphasiwedi kuwo wonke amadivayisi. Uma unamafayela angahloselwe amehlo abanye abantu, basuse kwisitoreji samafu. Ngakho-ke kuphephile.
Ungazikhohlise
Udinga ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi inkathazo isivele yenzekile futhi akukho lutho olungaguqulwa, ungalwa kuphela nemiphumela. Yebo, akumnandi kakhulu, kepha kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhathazeki ngemicabango yokuthi ngubani nokuthi uzocabangani, kodwa esikhundleni sokuqhubeka nokuphila kungathi akukho lutho olwenzekile.