Namuhla, amandla okukhuluma kahle yinzuzo engenakuphikwa lapho ethatha umsebenzi, futhi futhi kuyadingeka uma uhlela ukuqhubekisela phambili ngesitebhisi somsebenzi ngejubane elisheshayo. Kepha kungenzeka futhi ukukhuluma kahle futhi kufinyeleleke, futhi akuwona wonke umuntu ongajabuli ngaphandle kwenjabulo. Noma kunjalo, funda ukuthi ungayidlulisela kanjani izilaleli ngenkulumo yakho yangempela, lapha udinga kuphela umkhuba omningi. Sinqume ukuhlanganyela amaqhinga athile azosiza ukuba uma kungeyona intokolo yezinkulumo zasobala, lapho-ke okungenani ukunciphisa le nto enzima.
Ayikho imishwana ehlakaniphile
Cha, kunjalo, kufanele uzuze ukudala izilaleli ngenkulumo yakho, kepha iziphakamiso eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, imigomo nokulahleka kokulandisa kwentambo kungaphoqa izilaleli nje ukuze zithengene nefoni, zikuvumele uxoxe ngesihloko , ujwayele bonke labo abakhona. Zama ukwakha iphuzu ngendlela yokuthi azikho izinguquko eziyinkimbinkimbi kanye nomkhombi ophikelelayo emshweni ngamunye. Okulula nokuqondakala ngokwengeziwe Umbiko wakho, intshisekelo eyengeziwe izobizwa ngokuthi yinkulumo yakho, futhi ngeke ube mnandi kakhulu.
Thatha ukwakheka izilaleli ezithuthukiswe kahle yinkulumo
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Shintsha izithameli
Kwenzeka ukuthi kuyadingeka ukukhuluma ngehholo elingajwayelene nezemisebenzi yakho, noma ngaphambi kwesizukulwane esincane okudingayo. Asikhuthazi ukwamukela i-ntang yentsha futhi kulapho kufanele ungasebenzisi amagama amnandi ngenkathi wenza, kufanele ube sesihlokweni esenzeka ngaphakathi komphakathi walabo bantu abahlala phambi kwakho. Okungenani ngamagama ajwayelekile. Khumbula ukuthi uphuthelwe kanjani imicimbi eyisidina esikoleni ngenkathi uthisha omenyiwe bekhuluma ngezinto ezingaqondakali kuwe. Zibeke endaweni yazo bese uthatha isenzo.
Ungazami ukukhumbula konke
Uma umbiko wakho wenzelwe ihora nokuningi, awukwazi nje ukukhumbula konke okubhaliwe. Udinga uhlelo nemiqondo ejwayelekile esigabeni ngasinye, lapho uzokwakha khona inkulumo. Kungakho kungadingekile ukubhala ulimi oluyinkimbinkimbi neziphakamiso ezinokuvukelwa okuningi. Akekho umuntu okuvikele ukuba udlulise ohlelweni ngezikhathi ezithile, konke okwenzayo, zonke izikhulumi ezidumile zenza.
Imibuzo ilungile
Abantu abaningi banemibuzo evela ezilalelini ezikususwa. Eqinisweni, imibuzo "athi" izilaleli zakho zilalele ngokucophelela futhi zinesithakazelo esikhulu ngokulandisa kwakho. Ngaphambi kokuya endaweni yesehlakalo, cabanga ngokuthi yimiphi imibuzo ongayibuza, futhi uyiphendule kusengaphambili. Ukuthuthuka okungcono kakhulu kwenzeka kuphela ngokulungiselela.