Ingabe uvame ukucabanga ngalokho umphefumulo wakho ufunani ngempela? Abantu abaningi bazowuphendula kabi lo mbuzo, njengoba behlala ingxenye yempilo yabo kumodi ye-autopilot noma balandela izifanekiso zokuziphatha. Umphumela uba ukucindezelwa okungamahlalakhona, ukungeneliseki ngekhwalithi yempilo, ukungabikho komkhathi wanoma yiliphi amathemba.
Ngamunye wethu ukhetha. Ukukhetha ukuba nguwe, zithembe, ukuze udlule, umphefumulo weza kuwo phansi. Yini edingekayo ukuze uvumelane, uphumelele futhi uphumelele?
Thola indlela eya kuwe
Ungakwazi ukuphendula imishwana elandelayo ngokuqiniseka:
• "Engikwenzayo kuwukubiza kweqiniso. Kuyangijabulisa ukwenza umsebenzi wami. "
• "Angixhomekile ekuhlolweni kwabanye abantu, kodwa ngiphatha kahle ukugxekwa okwakhayo."
• "Nginombono wami kukho konke."
• "Angikaze ngizicabange ngiyisisulu, nginesibopho sezenzo zakho."
• "Ngiyawuthanda lo mhlaba, onobungane kubantu."
Uma lokhu kuyiqiniso, ungumuntu owanele owaziyo empilweni. Futhi uma kungenjalo? Lapho-ke sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha, nesinyathelo sokuqala kule ndlela ukuyeka ukwenza okungakujabulisi. Ungacabangi ukuthi kunendlela enhle yokupheka noma umlingo womlingo okwazi ukwenza umuntu ophumelelayo ngesikhathi esifushane. Mina, njengodokotela wezengqondo, uchwepheshe we-NLP, ungakushukumisela, ufundise ochwepheshe, kodwa kulokhu udinga ukuguqula ukucabanga kwakho futhi ulungele ukuthatha umthwalo wemiphumela yezinguquko zakho.
U-Anna Saintanikova
Thembeka kuwe
Phendula Ngokweqiniso imibuzo: Yini engikulungele (a) yenza nsuku zonke? Yini isifiso sami? Imuphi amandla engizowaqala ibhizinisi lami? Uma ngezikhathi ezithile kunyamalala isifiso sokwenza noma kungabingeli inkanuko, khona-ke lokhu kukhombisa ukulahlekelwa ukuxhumana naye.
Unelungelo lokuba yilokho ofisa, uzizwe. Funda ukuphatha yena unembeza. Zibuze: Yini engiyesabayo? Yikuphi ukwesaba okuvimbela ekuzibonayo? Kholwa ukuthi imvamisa yale micabango evelayo ekuzenzweni. Funda ukubhekana nokwesaba kwakho. Vumela amaphutha. Lahla imikhuba yakudala namaphethini wokuziphatha.
Yazi ukuthi ezimweni eziningi izinkathazo ezenzeka kuwe zingumphumela wokusabela okuzenzakalelayo okwakhiwe ngaphansi kwethonya lezinkolelo ezivimbela ukukhula ngokomoya. Shintsha. Ukunqoba ubuthakathaka bakho. Lokhu ukuthuthukiswa kwamandla komuntu siqu.
Khetha isisusa sesifiso
Uma ulwela ukuveza amandla akho angaphakathi, dlula izithiyo nobunzima. Hlangana nomsebenzi omkhulu. Khulisa ikhono lakho. Khumbula: Ukuze uphumelele ebhizinisini lakho, ithalente akwanele. Kubalulekile ukufakazela ukuzikhuza, ukuhlela kahle izinto eziza kuqala, kuthuthele ngokuhlelekile kulitshe eliqondiwe.
Nanku ukuvivinya umzimba okuphumelelayo kwisisusa. Dala isithombe emcabangweni wakho, engeza imizwa futhi uzwakale kuwo, bese-ke, ngaphambi kokulala, uyidlale ngokuzindla noma ukuzindla.
Lahla imikhuba emidala namaphethini wokuziphatha
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Gxila kulokho okukulethela emgomweni oyinhloko
Thatha izinyathelo zansuku zonke lapho uya khona yangempela. Uma usuku owufeza umsebenzi omningi, kepha akekho noyedwa kubo owakusondeza kulokhu okuhlosiwe, uphila ngeze. Esikhundleni somqondo wokwaneliseka, uzothola ukucasuka kuphela nokukhathala.
Phila njengamanje
Ukuqwashisa - yilokho okusinika umuzwa wokuphelela kwansuku zonke. Yazi imicabango nemizwa yakho abayibangela. Lapho nje wenza lokhu, amakhono esifundo esihle sokuphila azokwakheka ngokushesha, okusho ukuthi uzosheshisa indlela yakho eya empumelelweni.