Intombazane nowesifazane ngamunye bafuna ukuthandwa. Injabulo enkulu - ukuba nomyeni noma isoka elinothando. Kepha akukho lutho olungapheli emhlabeni, futhi kungekudala, ngisho nesikebhe esinamandla sobuhlobo obuhlanganayo singanika. Njengomthetho, isehlukaniso nokuhlukana endaweni engenalutho akwenzekanga. Ubudlelwano buba lumbi kancane kancane futhi ngesinye isikhathi lifinyelela iphuzu elibucayi kuphela, ngemuva kwalokho eliza ekugcineni.
Akukulula ukuqonda ukuthi umyeni wathula. Abesifazane abaningi benza ukuphela kothando lokucasulwa okwesikhashana, ukukhathala, kepha ngokuqinisekile: ngeke likwazi ukukholwa. Nephutha.
Ukubonakaliswa okusobala kakhulu kweqiniso lokuthi umyeni noma umfana asazithandi, ukuntuleka kwentshisekelo kumuntu wakho.
Kunzima ukukholelwa kulo, kepha awusenandaba nomuntu oneminyaka embalwa edlule kuphela ngawe futhi wacabanga. Ayikho intshisekelo ebonakaliswa eqinisweni lokuthi ucishe unondla kulo muntu. Uzokhetha ukuchitha isikhathi nabangane emgqomeni, adlale imidlalo yama-computer, ubuke i-TV, hhayi ukuyisebenzisa nawe. Unesithukuthezi nawe. Futhi hhayi ngoba ungumuntu onjalo enginalutho engingakhuluma ngalutho, kodwa wavele wayeka ukuzibuza ukuthi lokho okuphambene kanjani.
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Uqala indoda ecasulayo, futhi unaka kakhulu ebuthakathakeni bakho, amaphutha, amaphutha. Lapho umuntu ethanda ngokweqiniso, yena noma engaboni ubuthakathaka bowesifazane wakhe, noma uvale amehlo akhe kubo. Kepha lapho uthando ludlula, ngisho nezikhathi ezincane ezingezinhle ziqala ukuvuvukala ziye ku-Global Scale. Futhi nansi indoda isivele icabanga ukuthi wena futhi usukhulile, futhi sigqoka ngokungabizi, futhi sipheka kabi, futhi sikhulume nawe ngalokho. Kepha emva kwakho konke, awuzange ushintshe iminyaka embalwa, uthando lwakhe kuphela ngawe lwadlula, futhi lokhu kuzofanela kufike nakho.
Obunye ubufakazi bokuthi umyeni wathandana - ukuvela kwezindlela ezingaphansi komhlaba, isifiso sokufihla impilo yakhe. Futhi lolu daba alutholakali kwigugu elishadile. Noma ngabe umyeni engakuguquli, kodwa nje ukhala, uzozama ukwakha isithiyo phakathi kwakho, ngoba kungani anikeze umuntu owayengumhambi, ithuba lokuya empilweni yakhe. Manje uzama ukuhlangana nabangane ngaphandle kwakho, uphuma enkundleni yokuxhumana nabantu, eshiya ikhompyutha, awenzi izindaba ezivela empilweni yakho nawe.
Hhayi kuzo zonke izimo, indoda ebolekile izohlambalaza okuthile futhi, ikakhulukazi, ukuhlela amahlazo, kepha ngeke kube nzima ukwakha imingcele engabonakali phakathi kwakho nempilo yakhe.
Labo ababenomuntu ophilayo bafuna ukunciphisa futhi basebenzise oxhumana nabo
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Ekugcineni, umuntu ocwila ufuna ukunciphisa futhi anciphise oxhumana nabo. Ngiyeka nje ukuba ngithandeke ekuthinteni kwakho, kususwa ngokuzenzakalelayo kuwe lapho ufuna ukukuthola, uqambe amanga. Kuyiqiniso, yena ngokwakhe uyenqaba nezenzo ezinjalo endaweni yakho.
Ngokwemvelo, kulokhu, umyeni noma umyeni noma umfana uzozama ukugwema oxhumana naye ngokocansi, noma bazophenduka "ukusetha kabusha" kwengcindezi "okulula, okungenakwenzeka futhi ukungaboni. Futhi uma umuntu eziphatha ngolunye usuku, futhi isikhathi eside, khona-ke kufanele ucabange ngezimbangela zokuziphatha okunjalo.
Kodwa-ke, eminyakeni edlule emindenini eminingi, uthando luguqulwa lube ngokunamathiselwe nenhlonipho. Indoda nomkayo baphenduka imiphefumulo ehlobene, ama-halves amabili. Kepha uma ungenayo okunamathiselwe, noma hloniphe, udinga ubudlelwane obunjalo ngomgomo?