okukodwa . Imvamisa sizwa ibinzana elithi: "Udinga ukuthanda nokuzithatha." Kodwa-ke, akuyena wonke umuntu oqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ngempela. Abesifazane bakhuluma ngokucasuka: "Ngizithanda kakhulu, ngazithengela ingubo, ngenza izinwele zezinwele, ngisebenza njengendoda, uStudy System awenzi ini Ufuna, umyeni wakhe uyamnyathisa, izintambo zokugibela izingane, akanalo ithuba lokuba yedwa ngokwabo ... uthando nokwamukela wena kungenye yezindlela eziyisisekelo ezibalulekile zesibambiso sowesifazane nothando, Futhi ebudlelwaneni nabathandekayo nempumelelo yomsebenzi, futhi, ukuntuleka kwezinkinga ngempilo.
Ake sibheke ukuthi yini Uthando kimi ? Ukuze wenze lokhu, bhekisa kumuntu wakho. Sinomzimba wethu omuhle, izingqondo zethu, imizwa yethu, umoya wethu ... futhi konke lokhu kudinga ukunakekelwa kwethu okujabulisayo, ukunakwa nothando. Intombazanyana yethu encane ifuna ukuzwakala, ilinde ukudunyiswa nezipho. Futhi esikhundleni salokho kuhlala kuzwa: "Cha", "Hhayi manje", "sesimdala kakhulu ngenxa yalokhu", "Sengimdala kakhulu ngenxa yalokhu", "Ngifanele ngizinikele ngawo", "into ebaluleke kakhulu ukunakekela abathandekayo."
Ake siqale ukuzinakekela: Mayelana nomzimba wakho, mayelana nemizwa yakho, mayelana nentuthuko yakho nomphefumulo wakho!
Uthando ngokwakho akuyona i-egoism. Yebo, kungaba nobugovu, kepha kuya ngekhwalithi yomuntu uqobo.
2. Khumbula lokho Umuntu uthanda amehlo akhe futhi adinga ukunakwa . Ukubukeka okuvuselelwe, isikhumba esigcinwe kahle, izinwele ezibushelelezi kanye nephunga elimnandi, elivela kuwe - konke lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kumyeni wakho.
Kunomthetho obalulekile: Lapho umyeni efika ekhaya, kubalulekile emizuzwini engama-20 yokuqala ukumnika isikhathi sakhe. Amadoda avame ukukhononda ukuthi umfazi owesifazana ukhohlwa kancane kancane lo mthetho, uvula umnyango ngejazi elidala, uqala umhlangano nezikhalazo ngezingane, ngolwazi olubi. Zibuze umbuzo: Kungani indoda iza ekhaya ngemuva kosuku olunzima lomsebenzi? Udinga izinsiza. Udinga ukuphinda agcwalise amandla akhe. Futhi uma engakutholi, uzokuya kwenye indawo.
3. . -Nentshisekelo Impilo Esondelene : Hlola umhlaba wenjabulo ye-turen ndawonye, funda i-tantra, ama-novelties emkhakheni wezocansi. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuvakashela ukuqeqeshwa okuthakazelisa ngalesi sihloko, iya esitolo sezocansi. Umbhangqwana omnyama omningi uyavuma ukuthi abashadikazi benza uthando kungabe bevame ukwenziwa kokhokho bethu ngaphambili. Abanye basho ukukhathala emsebenzini, abanye - okuthiwa ukuntuleka kwethuba lokuya ocansini ngokuphepha ngenxa yokufika kwengane noma ezinye izizathu. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi impilo ejwayelekile esondele kakhulu ihlanganisa abalingani, ibavumela ukuba bazizwe bebonke futhi baqede izilingo ezingenzeka "ohlangothini". Cabanga ngempilo yakho yabesifazane futhi kungabikho cala ube "ngumama kaTeresa" kanye "nesisulu" ngohlelo: zonke izingane! Yize kunjalo, ingane yakho ingahlala ngaphandle kobaba. Bheka ngempela esimweni: Ngabe sikhona ngempela isizathu sokuthi wena othile noma okuthile kukuvimbela uthando, noma kunezendlalelo ezijulile, futhi wena ngokwakho uyasaba ukuvuma ukuthi mhlawumbe awufuni? Futhi uma kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda le nkinga. Kuyadingeka ukuxhumana nochwepheshe - udokotela wezengqondo noma udokotela wobungqingili - futhi axazulule zonke lezi zinkinga. Uma ungaphilile (akunandaba, noma okuthile emzimbeni wakho wesifazane kungahambi kahle), akufanele uyifihlile umyeni wami. Ngaphandle kwalokho, uzocabanga ukuthi awufuni, futhi uqale ukucasulwa nguwe.
Impilo Esondelene Ayiyona nje ubulili ngokuqondile uqobo, kuyamkhathaza umyeni wakhe, isisa kuyo, i-massage yawo ngenkathi ebuka ifilimu. Lokhu kungukuxhumana okufanayo kwamandla kanye nokuxhumana okubalulekile okudingeka kakhulu kumbhangqwana oshadile. Thandana futhi ngenjabulo nobuciko, thola izikhathi ezintsha nezithokozisayo ukuguqula impilo yomndeni wakho.
ezine. Funda Iya ezingxabanweni futhi wenze kahle izikhalazo. Asize omunye komunye ukuxoxisana. Futhi-ke, ungalokothi ugxeke umyeni wakho phambi kwabanye abantu noma izihlobo. I-Psyche yabesilisa iluhlaza kakhulu. I-ego yakhe ingaqondakala, futhi ngenxa yalokho, izinkinga zizoqala emkhakheni ofanayo osondelene, futhi isifiso sokuba nowesifazane "ongamhloniphi 'ngokunganakwa" ngokunganakwa "ngokunganakwa" ngokunganakwa!
5. Hlala njalo umyeni wakho uyimfihlakalo encane , Kwangathi ungaba nokuzilibazisa kwakho, izimfihlo zakho zabesifazane. Shintsha isithombe sakho kaningi. Kwesinye isikhathi babe "coquette", kwesinye isikhathi "abesifazane - i-vamp", kwesinye isikhathi, kukhanya futhi kube yinto ethokozisayo "intombazane" enhle, konke lokhu kuzosiza ukuphazamisa impilo yakho ehlanganayo, ngoba konke lokhu kuzohlala kungumlingisi omncane.
6. Ungesabi ukulahlekelwa yindoda yakho futhi Ungazithobeli ngomhawu . Hlakanipha. Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye besifazane. Kuyadingeka ukunquma kanye futhi ngokwakho ukuthi ungumuntu ofanele kakhulu nobaba omangalisayo. Imicabango yakho inethuba lokusebenzisa imizimba, ngakho-ke ungabatholi ne-negative. Ngasikhathi sinye, hlala uphapheme ezimotweni zomndeni wakho. Sekela ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo nomyeni wakho, bhekisisa izintshisekelo zakhe nemizwa yakhe. Futhi uma lokho, bheka iphuzu lokuqala: Zithande. Uma owesifazi uqobo akanandaba naye, akajabuli futhi umyeni wakhe. Lapho elinye lamakhasimende ami eqala ukusola umyeni wakhe ekulahlekelweni yintshisekelo (futhi mhlawumbe esonweni), into yokuqala esaqala ukuyenza ukuvusa owesifazane kuyo. Futhi badonsela ukunaka namandla kuye uqobo. Futhi lapho eqala ukuqhakaza ngokungalindele (wenza imikhuba yamandla, waziholela ekuhlelekeni kwamandla ezocansi) Futhi wancoma ukuthanda kwakhe njengothando lwezinyosi.
7. Kubalulekile ukunikeza umuntu ukuze azizwe njenge- "earfed" . Vumela lenze izinqumo (noma ngabe lesi sixazululo singezakho). Ndumiso kakhulu futhi usekele, ikakhulukazi nabangane nezintombi, njengokungathi ngengozi. Futhi-ke, umsize akuqonde. Khuluma ngezifiso zakho nezintandokazi zakho. Ngemuva kwakho konke, naye ufuna ukudingeka futhi akuthande,
Khumbula ukuthi ubudlelwano babizwa ngokuthi "ngokuthula", ngoba lesi sifiso sokuba ndawonye bobabili abalingani ukuhlanganyela ebusontweni ndawonye. Ngakho-ke, kwesinye isikhathi singafundisa owesilisa wethu ukwakha ubuhlobo obujabulisayo. Futhi makwamukele omunye komunye iminyaka eminingi!