Muva nje, enye intombazane yangitshela iphupho elimatasa ngesicelo sokulichaza. Uthe leli phupho lizophupha iminyaka eminingana, libe nesikhathi esithile.
"Ephusheni, i-ghost iza kimi, ayibonakali, kepha ihamba endlini, iyaphonsa izinto. Ngizama ukuthandaza nokuvikela kuye. Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, lapho leli phupho liqala ukuphupha, umthandazo wasiza ukuqeda, kodwa manje akayi ndawo. Ukwesaba kuyanda. Ngivuka ngemicabango yokuthi le yinto engingakwazi ukuyiphatha. Ngokuqondene nesibonelo, enginakho enginakho ama-30, kepha angazi ukuthi ngidale kanjani umndeni futhi ngibelethe ingane. "
Ukulala okuthokozisayo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, okukhombisa. Sizocabanga ukuthi amaphupho ethu ahumusha iphupho lakho kahle. Uma imithandazo yangaphambilini, njengethemba lokuthile okuphezulu, basindisa ngokwesaba ukungabaza, manje isikhathi siyahamba, kuba mdala, kuba mdala, ukwesaba lokho angeke abe nesikhathi sokudala ubudlelwano futhi abelethe izingane okufanele zikhule. Futhi kuzokhuphuka kuze kube yilapho icabanga ukuthi le yinqubo engenakwenzeka ukuthonya. Kuze kube yilapho i-heroone yethu iveza ukuthi "bahloko" amabutho anamandla, "ngenxa yalokho, ephusheni, kuvela imikhuleko nezipongo, - okuthile okukodwa, okukhona. Ngamanye amagama, amaphupho amabi azophupha aze aqale ukwenza ngokwakhe: Ngeke aqale ukuxazulula lo msebenzi uqobo, kube sengathi lo mbuzo uncike kukho.
Ukuqashelwa ukuthi sinesibopho semicimbi, amaphrojekthi futhi siphumelele ezimpilweni zethu, kuphela ekuqaleni kokubukeka kulula. Empilweni yangempela, lapho sinikela khona futhi sinciphise izandla zakho, kulula ukukholelwa ukuthi kukhona okubuswa okuthile. Kungakho kungekho buhlobo noma imali, noma ibhizinisi aliweli, noma abangane bakhaphela.
Eqinisweni, ukuntuleka kwemiphumela empilweni kuwuphawu kuphela esikule ndawo siyethemba ngokwethu siyisimangaliso, futhi empeleni ngokwethu ngokwethu ngokwethu simane senqabe ukwenza isenzo. Lezi zindaba ezibuhlungu, ze, zibona ukwahlulela kwakho, izinketho ezi-2 kuphela ezizosala: Qala ukuthengisa amaphupho akho noma uqhubeke nokukombisa imibono yakho. Kuliqiniso, kuzoba nokusolwa okuningi.
Kubukeka sengathi kuyiphupho elilula - nokuthi imiyalezo eminingana ethobekayo idlulisela!
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina